Still Easily Aroused

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  1. dirtysanchez

    dirtysanchez New Member

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    Hey everyone! I just had a question as to what I might be able to do for my problem with being over aroused all the time. I'm 21 freakin years old, and I can't kiss my girlfriend in public without getting a stiffy, or even think of a past sexual encounter briefly without pitching a tent in my trousers. I've tried the whole "Don't think about it and it will go away" but there's still the problem of it happening in the first place. If I'm in line at Six flags for the Superman and my girl decides to kiss me out of nowhere, BOOM! There's the boner, and me trying to not think about the boner, trying to sit on the railing to hide it. It's embarrassing for me, and my girlfriend. Another incident happened more recently when my doctor went ahead and gave me a testicular exam and a hernia check. My pole stiffened in her hands and I immediately blushed and apologized. Is there anything I can take such as a suppliment that may reduce these on coming sexual spikes in arousal?
     
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    Wait a few years---I know this doesn;t help now, but consider your age, and the high level of hormones running through your body. If you are in a position to quickly do so, a quick sharp thump just under the head, while stinging, will cause it to go down. Otherwise, be happy being healthy and active! It's just part of being a young guy. It gets more controllable later on.
     
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    the same exact things happen to me, sometimes i get hard talking to my gf on the phone even, but i dont know about any pills you can take, i figure if it isnt broken dont fix it, i usually just try to tuck it to the side cover it up when i am in public
     
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    honey... just enjoy it.

    and as for the medical exam, believe me, they've seen it all. you're not the only one by far, spontaneous erections are very common.
     
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    I know how it feels. I remember back to my early 20's.

    It will go away....slowly

    My problem is that it started happening to me again last year. I thought it was spring fever but it has been over a year now.

    Good luck
     
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    Man! Just enjot it. You're only young once. In 30 more years, you'll be wishing it would go up with just an erotic thought instead of with Viagra.
     
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    Believe me, it will change. Be happy with what you have, where you are.
     
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    It's not easy, but you should just be proud and happy to have a functioning penis. Doctor's have seen it all and they know, more than most anyone, that penises have minds of their own.

    I'm 36 and started getting wood during a routine medical exam with a female doctor. I apologized for "the display of affection" and she said, "no apology necessary - they're supposed to do that."

    This may not make you feel any better, but if I'm in a public nudity situation, whether it's gym showers or nude beaches, I have to be real careful otherwise, I'll be sporting wood - and I'm 36, remember. So, you may be stuck with that "problem" for quite some time.

    Your girlfriend, as nice as she seems to be, needs to grow up a bit and get educated on the male sex drive.
     
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    I'm approaching my late 20s and I still pop wood in several of the situations you mentioned. I don't look forward to this changing, although it will inevitably. Just remain glad that everything works so well and take every fucking opportunity you get to use it. (heh--maybe this is a sign that you need to get off more ;)
     
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    As Daldude97 says, be prepared for it not to go away anytime soon either. Not everyone loses the boner hair-trigger. I didn't.
     
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    Hey Just Enjoy It, In Years To Come It Will Give You Something To Look Back On Fondly And Smile About
     
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    Well, I'm in my 40's, and a few years back I was on the massage table with a male massage therapist, no sheet covering my, especially since he was working on my hamstrings and my glutes. Anyway, I'd been to him before and got a semi while he was working on me, but this time it was full mast with no thought of going down. Something about the stimulation, even though it wasn't sexual and I wasn't thinking sexual, that got me hard.

    Anyway, I finally said, "Hey man, sorry about that. Really, you're not my type." (making a joke). He just said, "Hey, don't worry about it. It just means you're healthy and everything's working right. " After that, I would spring a woody quite often when he was working on me, but it was no big deal.

    So relax. You may have this "problem" even in your 40's, but it's not a problem. I'm happy to report at 44 my dick still has never failed to respond as desired and been up to the task. That's a good thing.
     
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    Buddy don't complain !! Cherish it !!

    You're a REAL Man !
     
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    This is not a real problem. You, like every healthy male can do this at the drop of a hat. Recently I received an E-Mail that clearly resolves this issue:

    "Males are either Hungery or Horny. If you see a male without an erection, give him a sandwich."
     
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    That must be the best quote I ahve ever heard for a long time! Thanks for making my day, Hung.

    I have hit my 40's, and I still get a hardon every so often - and during massages. I am not embarrassed about it, I shall rue the day when it is incapable of standing straight up.
     
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    Life seems soooo much better with a hard-on. The more often the better, I say!:smile:
     
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    thanks for all the help and support! I asked my doctor on a follow up appointment and she basically said the same as everyone else and come to find out I have an abnormal amount of testosterone in my body which contributes to my arousal, but she says its nothing to worry about and my body will learn more control. She started to blush when she remembered my penis almost hitting her in the chin, but oh well, i guess they can't be gun-shy if they're doctors.
     
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    Maybe it's a sign I've watched too much porn, but it seems to me that the appropriate response would have been for him to start sucking it. :redface:
     
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    It's not a curse - it's a blessing.

    Please feel free to pm my for my telephone number and I'll give you a hand with your problem.:cool:
     
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    Add another vote to that! I used to let it bother me a lot, but I finally just accepted that there's nothing I can do about it. Instead of being embarrassed, I just ignore it. Besides, look at my age - why should I complain? I know guys younger than me who need viagra, fer cryin' out loud!

    I just act as though there's nothing wrong in the world, as though I don't even realize I'm hard.
     
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