Stimulants for a fuller erection?

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  1. Minx

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    Hi..

    Age gets to us all of course, im only 38 and according to favourable feedback from the contradictory gender i have a large appendage...

    I haven't had a proper girlfriend for a couple of years and im basically scared of losing my erection, my last relationship should and would have been great if it wasn't for this fear... and so... i would lose my erection, embarressing as i knew i had nothing to worry about size wise...it's just getting the bugger up!

    Now i know there's drugs n things help this all along... i could take some street drugs and see how i feel...or perhaps a perscription drug... Viagra?... expensive for me...

    I wondered if any of you know of a substance or anything else which my help me...
    I really would like to avoid another floppy situation...

    I know there are many causes possibly and i've looked into them all, everything seems ok heath wise, im not depressed, i don't smoke so much, i don't drink...

    Maybe with little use in my life at the moment without a G-Friend there might be problems perhaps?... masterbation is ok... but i feel i've lost something y'know...

    anyways any help and advice would be great, cheers
     
  2. incher2

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    I would seek medical attention. Diabetes, and prostrate trouble among other things are often found to be the cause of what you have descirbed. At 38 you are at a lower than average age to be having this trouble for other than a passing episode due stress etc.

    I would not self medicate until I had blood and exam and work done by a trusted physician, to rule out prostate trouble and diabetes, as well as many other potential serious health conditions that this could be an early warning sign for.

    If those things are ruled out and the Dr is willing to prescribe meds, you could get the samples etc, then seek other natural alternatives knowing that you are not putting your self at risk from neglect while doing so.

    Viagra is not a stimulant. I am not sure you would get a comparable result at all from street stimulants.
     
  3. socoken

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    seeing a doc couldnt hurt. for a little help, enzyte works for me. they sell it as enhancement, but the stuff just gives me a better hardon. they are basically giving it away too.
     
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    Go talk to your doctor. He or she will have samples of the three major erectile dysfunction medications. Talking about your problen with a professional will allay some of your fears and the sample, such as Cialis, will do the rest. Cialis gives results for over three days. :wink:
     
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    im 21, but i often find it hard to get a full erection late at night when my body and mind are tired. I got a free sample of enzyte and it totally helps. I dont know if its my size or if its just what happens when your tired (cuz it doesnt happen to me when i have more energy during the day), but in any case, it works for me.
     
  6. Minx

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    Thanx guys, i'll think about those two enhancers...

    Just so you know... i did have myself checked out by a doc before all of this... i was checked for everything concerning erectile dysfunction and came back clean...

    Then i started thinking about "if you dont use it... you lose it..." concidering my singularity for a while... but i know that might be only 5% of the problem perhaps...or not at all...

    Im sure with the right situation...the right woman perhaps... i would be ok, it was infact the mind which was playing with me... i had recently had real life concerns which were taking up my thoughts... stress someone said... yeah kinda like that...

    I can see how many factors (including time of course) can play a part... but thankfully there was no physical problems... the mind may need a little more fixing, and the heart also :)
     
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    Try Vitamin E 1000UI per day it helps with blood circulation and can give you a nice full erection. the other thing you have to conquer is the mind fuck your giving yourself. If you think your going to have trouble you will get nervous or anxious and bye bye boner.
    good luck and let us know how it works out for you
     
  9. Mr. Snakey

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    The mind is the best Viagra in the world!:wink:
     
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    Minx, your problem is not physical, it is mental or emotional. You need to relax. An erection is a parasympathetic response, meaning you do not consciously become erect by will. Your body's ability to achieve an erection is a simple switching process involving hormones and electrical impulses. The secretion of the hormones which jumpstart the electrical process, is not under your control. There is a part of you that is not comfortable with the situation, if you are not achieving an erection. Do some self searching and improve the part of you that is lacking (whatever that is, it could be anything). Understand that with the right partner, you will function correctly.

    The problem is that there are plenty of non-thinking men out there that can fuck just about anything and have no problems achieving an erection. This behavior somehow set the normal standards for men to have a constant hard dick that will penetrate any hole. We are not fucking cavemen anymore, we have evolved into modern men. The modern man is a deliberating man. The deliberating man has a greater capacity for empathy and is more in touch with his sacred self than our more animal-like ancestors. If you have trouble with erections, I can tell you right now you are a thinking man. They are the ones with ED, simple as that. It is fucking EVOLUTION, we are evolving into discerning creatures who reproduce out of strategic thinking, not because you have an erection and she is close enough to catch. Don't be so hard on yourself, relax and practice some self love and don't mess with people you aren't really interested in, just because you are horny.
     
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    I don't think that there is any harm in taking some Korean Ginseng, even if you don't need it.
     
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    LordPendragon is right, don't hesitate to try, Korean Ginseng (best of all of the Ginseng), Yohimbine, Arginine, and Vitamins and Minerals (lecithin and all of that stuff) Don't overlook the NO releasers in the muscle sections of the health food stores. Make sure that it contains Arginine AKG and L-Citrulline. I use this to relax my spongy tissue when I pump.
     
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    Minx, you are certainly not alone. REM wrote an anthem to this problem:

    "Losing My Erection"
     
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    Hi, im 23 and have some similar problem, when im having sex with my girlfriend i lose "pressure" after a maybe 5 minutes and a minute or 2 later i will be hard again, this happens even if i use viagra which is very odd. Another problem is that since i cant have sex for long periods at a time, i cant cum:redface: . But im perfectly fine when im masterbating about my gf when im at home alone. Anybody got advice?
     
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    OMG....it's no wonder...just look at what you are trying to bring to life, if you need help, skip the drugs and call any of us. lol
     
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    If you can get an erection, masturbate, and orgasm by yourself, that tells me the problem is not organic.

    How new are you in the relationship?
    Do you have anxieties about having sex(performance, appearance, size, etc)?
    Is this the first time this has occurred?
     
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    I would say that you are a bit underage, you may have made some valid points, however, if you are under 18, it's time for you to leave and not come back until you are of legal age.
     
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    Great response, Tripod. Minx, I'd say don't worry so much.

    When I was younger, I was a pretty attractive guy and sometimes accepted pussy that was thrown at me that I didn't really want. The result--the occasional awkward moment.

    Just be sure you want the girl and she really turns you on. And if not, you have the right to say no to sex -- the fact that you're a male notwithstanding.

    I'll offer up a somewhat gross vignette if you'll bear with me... Traipsing around the net, I came across a porn clip of a woman trying to get it on with a dog. (Don't boo me -- I'm not into bestiality, but like a lot of other net surfers, I've seen clips like that.) Anyway, my point: the DOG wasn't ready to perform. Here was a literal animal -- an "animal" like we're all expected to be when we luck into some pussy -- and she couldn't get him quite interested enough.

    So don't be worried by unrealistic standards about what your response should be. Learn from that dog.

    I've even seen porn stars (human) who had trouble bringing wood. There was one funny clip where the guy was supposedly hitting the girl doggy style -- except that sloppy editing revealed his long johnson just hanging limply when he pulled back a bit too far from her butt. Can you imagine a beautiful porn star offering up her ass to you, yet you're limp? Happened to him. It could happen to anybody, 'cause it's all in the mind.

    Forgive the gross-out factor in this post, but you get my point, no?

    Anyway, worry = problems. :frown1: Genuine attraction & trust = smooth sailing. :biggrin1:
     
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    One effect of vitamin E is to act as a blood thinner. It does this by interfering with the actions of vitamin K. Both are fat soluble vitamins, which means that you can accumulate too much of them in your body if you take high doses for an extended period of time. Several years ago, an exhaustive study involving hundreds of thousands of people concluded that taking more than 200 units of vitamin E per day for a long time can shorten your life span.
     
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