Phil, you are a gem! Thank you for posting that.
p.s. A couple people have told me to try Dramamine as well, does that work at all?
Dramamine worked for me... you still feel like gagging, but your muscles won't coordinate enough to actually vomit....
I took somewhat more than the recommended seasickness dose... like half a pill more.... but it has side effects like cold medicine and may have interaction problems with alcohol...
Still... all it did was suppress the puking.... It still took quite some time to get to the point where I no longer felt like gagging... and then I just took a little less dramamine each time till I was off it and found I had no problem at all...
A HUGE tip is the clear nasal passages thing.
If you're stuffed up, you are never gonna be able to coordinate the thrusting with your breathing... you'll be pulling it all the way out just to catch your breath. With a clear nasal airway, you can start inhaling/exhaling as soon as the head has cleared the back of your throat... and keep going till the sweet spot reaches mid tongue and then starts back in... until the bulk of the shaft cuts off your air... I found what worked best was inhaling on one stroke, exhaling on the following stroke. ( with fairly fast stroking- if going very slow you might be able to exhale and inhale before the shaft cuts off your air. )
With faster stroking... Take in and out as much air as you can at each opportunity...Try and stay slightly hyperventilated for those occasions when he will drive deep and want to hold it in there for a while... When you are hyperventilated, you can go much longer without air before feeling like you just gotta breathe ( which can induce panic if bad enough )
I used to do a guy who liked to ram it all the way down and just pump the last inch while he was cumming... nearly a full minute before he would pull out.... not a problem if you're hyperventilated....
Another trick....for really large guys.... Lie on your back and tip your head back so he can throat fuck you. This straightens out your throat with a curve that matches the curve of his cock... and you get to watch his balls slide to and fro as they bump against your eyes and nose....
OR, doggy style on all fours and tip your head back for better tongue action on the sweet spot... again, any position that straightens out your throat is gonna be best for a really long cock.