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Hey everyone. This is my first official post on LPSG, excluding my introduction. I need some advice/insight/opinions. Okay, first of all, I'm gay, and I have this friend--let's call him Art, who I have known since 6th grade. He's taken with a beautiful girlfriend (not engaged...yet), part of a fraternity, and seemingly obviously straight. But (you know the but was coming!)... I have my suspicions, and lately my red flags has been becoming higher and harder (eh, pun intended
). That's where your insight/advice/etc comes in... even though you don't know him, try your best, please. I'm really struggling with this!
Well, anyway, he really makes me hot. For the past few years, when we IM, he would sometimes talk dirty. That's definitely normal, but sometimes he would take it a step above. For example, I remember one time he teasing me about me sucking his cock, and about jacking off at how hot I am. Nothing came out of it, but then about a year ago, things became more intense. Don't think I'm weird or anything, but I saved our conversations (they turn me on), so here's a few examples of some of what he said:
ART: U re gay cuz u love the idea of fucking your cock into a guy's anus or u love the idea someone fucking ur anus? Which s a big turn on for u?
ART: Cmon I think u wanna someone to fuck ur anus
ART: U find this a big turn on than u fucking someone s anus
ART: U like sex?
ART: U virgin?
ART: I think u ll love pussies more
ART: Damn
ART: I love fucking [my girlfriends] pussy
ART: Warm feeling
[asked him what his favorite sex position is]
ART: Doggy and missionary
ART: I like to do work
ART: Till I cum, I cum on [my girlfriends] mouth and have her swallow it
ART: Lol handcuffing I would want but [girlfriend] wants later
ART: I love to fuck hard!
ART: Fyi [shes] really good with blowjobs I m always satisfied... she's mine sorry
In addition to those examples, sometimes he would respond to a dirty-minded away message of mine, ask me if I'm jacking off, teasingly ask how big I am, and continuously emphasize how big he is, and how small I am (jokingly). He continuously calls me a fag, but in a joking kind of way. I dunno, I just get this feeling. I know it's normal for straight dudes to be dirty-minded, but he just seems so different than other straight guys by being more personal with the dirty jokes, and the gay subtext just kinda makes me wonder what he really wants.
Finally, a somewhat weird thing, seems like he either was just playing with me or wimped out:
ART: Pimp!
ART: Sleepin I bet?
ART: I gotta admit something...
ART: Never mind
ART: Bye
[a while later]
ME: hey bro, i'm sorry, pager wasn't with me- was watching a movie and pager was charging... i can't sleep... so sup?
ART: Lol fag
ART: Me sleep now...ttyl
So. Whatcha think? What should I do to "unlock" the proverbial door...or am I wasting my time?
Thanks everyone...and apologies for the length!
Andrew
Well, anyway, he really makes me hot. For the past few years, when we IM, he would sometimes talk dirty. That's definitely normal, but sometimes he would take it a step above. For example, I remember one time he teasing me about me sucking his cock, and about jacking off at how hot I am. Nothing came out of it, but then about a year ago, things became more intense. Don't think I'm weird or anything, but I saved our conversations (they turn me on), so here's a few examples of some of what he said:
ART: U re gay cuz u love the idea of fucking your cock into a guy's anus or u love the idea someone fucking ur anus? Which s a big turn on for u?
ART: Cmon I think u wanna someone to fuck ur anus
ART: U find this a big turn on than u fucking someone s anus
ART: U like sex?
ART: U virgin?
ART: I think u ll love pussies more
ART: Damn
ART: I love fucking [my girlfriends] pussy
ART: Warm feeling
[asked him what his favorite sex position is]
ART: Doggy and missionary
ART: I like to do work
ART: Till I cum, I cum on [my girlfriends] mouth and have her swallow it
ART: Lol handcuffing I would want but [girlfriend] wants later
ART: I love to fuck hard!
ART: Fyi [shes] really good with blowjobs I m always satisfied... she's mine sorry
In addition to those examples, sometimes he would respond to a dirty-minded away message of mine, ask me if I'm jacking off, teasingly ask how big I am, and continuously emphasize how big he is, and how small I am (jokingly). He continuously calls me a fag, but in a joking kind of way. I dunno, I just get this feeling. I know it's normal for straight dudes to be dirty-minded, but he just seems so different than other straight guys by being more personal with the dirty jokes, and the gay subtext just kinda makes me wonder what he really wants.
Finally, a somewhat weird thing, seems like he either was just playing with me or wimped out:
ART: Pimp!
ART: Sleepin I bet?
ART: I gotta admit something...
ART: Never mind
ART: Bye
[a while later]
ME: hey bro, i'm sorry, pager wasn't with me- was watching a movie and pager was charging... i can't sleep... so sup?
ART: Lol fag
ART: Me sleep now...ttyl
So. Whatcha think? What should I do to "unlock" the proverbial door...or am I wasting my time?
Thanks everyone...and apologies for the length!
Andrew
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