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I feel for ya pink. have been burned by similar sitch before. It's a weird/tough/confusing spot to be. :(

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So, Another Question! lol What do guys do when they hang out? Friend/Boicrush and I are suppose to (dont know if we will..) hang out tomorrow, after I get off work. Mostly, I just end up taking him out to eat. I know at some point, I might bring up bowling...maybe? But its kind of short notice for that.

Next month he turns 21, so def gonna get some drinks at some point. There's a bar/grill in the mall we work in, so that's convenient lol. Just, in the mean time... what do guys do when they hang out? Want to stay 'interesting' lol.
 

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Sit around, watch TV, drink beer...

Some of my friends and I go to the movies now and then. Or go to the pool hall. Or watch sports.

I think it's funny that, right now, I feel like I'm describing the "straight guy lifestyle". :D
 

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Sit around, watch TV, drink beer...

Some of my friends and I go to the movies now and then. Or go to the pool hall. Or watch sports.

I think it's funny that, right now, I feel like I'm describing the "straight guy lifestyle". :D

Yeah...that's the biggest thing. I don't feel like I can connect on the straight guy level? But I don't want it to get in the way. Maybe a movie could work.... however, I would prefer to actually be able to talk to him lol. Gotta find conversation pieces too... Sometimes there's a silence, and I'm not well with it.
 

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Sometimes there's a silence, and I'm not well with it.

It's kind of a joke, when a wife asks her husband, "What are you thinking about?" and he says, "Nothing." He's not trying to hide anything or is feeling mad at her -- he really means nothing. :biggrin1:

Then again, some people, gay or straight, just don't like silence, no matter who they're with. Whether it's a crush or a grocery cashier, they feel the need to converse. Don't sweat it.
 

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It's kind of a joke, when a wife asks her husband, "What are you thinking about?" and he says, "Nothing." He's not trying to hide anything or is feeling mad at her -- he really means nothing. :biggrin1:

Then again, some people, gay or straight, just don't like silence, no matter who they're with. Whether it's a crush or a grocery cashier, they feel the need to converse. Don't sweat it.

Well, I don't mind silence...as long as it's comfortable. Comfortable silence is okay. Awkward silences...yeah.