Str8 guy & Gay guy watching porn together

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    spfldstyler New Member

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    I have a dilema and would appreciate your input....I have a straight friend who wants to come over and watch straight porn with me a gay guy. This guy says he is completely straight and I have made an overt pass in the past and he declined, yet he still wants to do this. He knows full well I am attracted to him and very interested. He has gone so far to tell me the actresses he likes and wants to see those videos if at all possible. I admit I am totally turned on by this and happy to oblige him. What should I make of this? Surely this is not normal behavior for a straight man to want to watch straight porn with a gay man who he knows would gladly have sex with him. This guy can afford to get his own porn, it's not that. I'm looking forward to it, but don't know what to make of it. Your input would be appreciated and any advice on what I should do. Thanks!
     
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    he is hoping to break down his own barriers!
     
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    who knows. I have really good straight friends who I watch porn together with all the time and I havent hooked up with any of them. It was just kinda like.... male bonding i guess. Its a lot of fun
     
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    He wants to make a quasi- "date" out of watching a porn?

    Does he not have enough of his own?

    If some straight friends of mine were to mention that to me, I'd be awkward too...
    I'd probably call them out for it, if anything, to tell them how awkward I'd be feeling about it.

    Why can't you just hang out... sans porn?
     
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    Sounds very weird. Get the porn he likes, start jacking off during the vid, if he follows then let one thing lead to another.
     
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    sounds like he wants an excuse to show u what he has.
     
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    my gay friend shows me porn he watches. it doesn't really bother me... he was kinda amazed that gay porn doesn't bother me, uh, why would it. i see nothing wrong with two guys fucking for wads of cash. shit i'd do it. for the cash. lol... and me and onna my buddies used to watch porn at like 1 in the morning. he'd always get hard and put a pillow over his junk. and ask me if he could use my ky. he's not the only one. two other budds were the same way... i think it's funny that they go to the bathroom to do it though. when i'm hard i'll put this bitch out and smack em across the face lmao... i only do that tho because i'm bigger and i like to show off anyway. lol. HELICOPTER!!! lol...
     
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    spfldstyler, I think he is totally curious about having sex with you.

    Or he's trying to convert you to heterosexuality. :eek5:

    One or the other.

    Hopefully you'll be able to tell which one it is before the movie starts playing. :popcorn:

    Keep us informed on what happens!
     
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    OMG - you're a character.

    Please post some pics of yourself in the near future. :awink:
     
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    glad you think so :)
     
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    Only one way to find out ... have fun and let us know how it goes.
     
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    two words... prick teaser
     
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    I had a very similar dilemma once upon a time lol. We ended up fuck buddies for about 6 months until he decided it got too wierd when i said i loved him. My bad i guess lol.

    I could only suggest he is either interested in trying something with you ... wants to convert you to the other team ... he gets a buzz off knowing you like him ... or he just wants to watch porn with you lol.

    I now on a regular occurence watch porn with my straight friends ... shame its always there blasted DVD's! lol
     
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    my input...try not to read too much into it...enjoy the buddy time...if u feel the need to release...ask if it is OK..the next decison is his..not yours...PROBLEM NO MORE...have a 12 pak of bud-light, handy stuff for event watching desribed here.
     
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    I don't see what the problem is, if guys (gay, straight or bi) wants to bust a nut together, what's the problem.
    The straight guy can be curious, nothing wrong with that. Everyone is curious at some level and it's rather cool that he admitted that he wants to try that. Good for him.
     
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    Lay in a good supply of pop corn and a few beverages and enjoy the opportunity.

    Spend time together and enjoy each other.

    This could be and should also be a great bonding experience.

    Enjoy Life!!!!!!
     
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    Partially agree with you Redsimmy

    I could only suggest he is either interested in trying something with you ... he gets a buzz off knowing you like him ... or he just wants to watch porn with you lol.

    A suggesion OP is to perhaps allow it to happen but put a time limit on it ... say a few weeks..make a few moves at an appropriate stage.. and if he denys you or shows no interest..then knock it on the head .. say NO MORE'
    Your not there for his convenience.. playing with your mind etc?
    Be straight up from the start tho (or after a week or so) .. tell him yr intentions..otherwise forget it..your not going to forever be his Porn Companion for such Huh?
    Has he not get any str friends to pursue his activities?
    Sounds like he could be taking the piss out of yr friendship to some degree.
    Good Luck with it all
    enz
     
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    i tell my buds i love them all the time. and they say it back. even the super straight ones... did you try to make out with him when you said it? lol.
     
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