str8 guys getting head from gay guys

[B_bxmuscle]

The who think that any man who has any type of sex with a so-called "gay" man are just plain wrong, and a repeating common-place but inaccurate cliches and prejudices.

The demonstrations of exactly how and why a so-called "gay" sexuality came to be defined against a so-called "straight" opposite have gone back thirty years of more. These silly concepts persist only because so many people are so deeply invested in defining themselves and others by them. They are political concepts treated as if they mean something "objective" and "real."

One of any number of examples of how this silliness has been demolished can be found in Steve Valocchi's "The Class-Inflected Nature of Gay Identity" in Social Problems, vol 46, No. 2, May 1999.

 

[D_PooNaHoe]

No matter how horny I get I would still much rather just rub one out than be serviced by another dude. The desire for the physical act doesn't trump the mental stimulation I need that only comes from being with a member of the opposite sex. That being said I do still think the straight and gay labels are sort of pointless since there are all manner of ways to conduct yourself.

 

[backwoodsstud]

If the guy is really straight...this is off limits.

 

[LADave]

If the guy is really straight...this is off limits.

I don't agree. I agree with the people who say it's just a blow job. Guys like to get sucked and alot of times either they have no one to do it or their girl/wife whatever isn't willing or very good at it. Guys are better at seperating sex from feelings then women. If a straight guy wants a blow job and there's a willing guy available they'll go for it strictly for the physical experience.

 

[v32bone]

The journey into the fullness of one's sexuality often takes unexpected turns and detours. Why worry about it? It happens. Just because someone once sucked your cock and you enjoyed it doesn't make you gay. Forget about the labels. Look for friendship and love and when you find it the sex is likely to happen and IMHO the wise person doesn't diminish the joy of it by trying to put a label on it.

exactly. label, schmabel, face down on the table! lol

 

[v32bone]

So if a guy only is attracted to women and slf-sucks because he can't find a woman to date, is he gay? What if he watches straight porn and gets off when "accidentally" looking at a big juicy cock plow into a hot girl? What if his girlfriend's name is Sam or Jessie or Sandy? All of this is silly. Be who you are. Get off anyway that feels good!

 

[D_Miranda_Wrights]

So if a guy only is attracted to women and slf-sucks because he can't find a woman to date, is he gay? What if he watches straight porn and gets off when "accidentally" looking at a big juicy cock plow into a hot girl? What if his girlfriend's name is Sam or Jessie or Sandy? All of this is silly. Be who you are. Get off anyway that feels good!

I totally understand ditching labels. I happen to conform perfectly to one label, but most probably probably don't, so whatever. But it seems a lot of these "guy-curious" dudes take their "straight" label a lot more seriously than I do. If you're slightly bisexual, whatever. If you get bj's opportunistically, whatever. But if you're a straight guy actively seeking blowjobs specifically from men, and the "straight" label is important to you, I think that's a little deluded.

It kind of irritates me for the same reason I thought Katy Perry's "I Kissed a Girl" was actually pretty fucking blase homophobic.

 

[B_patrickmcc]

Geez, a lot of judgemental opinionated people here. couple of comments.. to the guy that said a straight couldnt get hard with a another guy, and that it would be as hard as getting an erection from a chair... dont think you remember high school, where I could get an erection looking at the blackboard.
I've blown exactly 3 straight guys. They brought it up, not me. All where friends that were questioning me about my bisexuality, and all three started with the old " do guys give better bj's than girls" qwuestion. I responded to all 3. "why dont you tell me?" (granted large volumes of alcohol were involved.) One guy went soft after about 5 minutes, and said he had enough, wasnt for him. Other 2 came, one freaked out about it, the other just said thanks. Think all were just curious straight guys, and dont think any of them would do it again. Have also turned down several guys, just because they were fairly disgusting dudes, and they were all surprised that I wouldnt jump at sucking them off.
finally, agree completely with the guy that said that he only has relationships with women, but has sex with guys he finds attractive. Exactly how I am.

 

[cocksucker]

I love sucking cock but wouldn't want another guy to suck my cock. I still consider myself straight but admit I'm on shaky ground with that.

 

[rbkwp]

patrickmcc


BEST
One of the best posts of the week / month / year, by my reckoning
To me wish folk were more open & honest as such in our sexual activities
NO BS associated with such description me thinks.
as i mentioned a week ago elsewhere i am personally inclined to believe we have inherited sexual hangups from Religion or maybe Parents (own hangups & teachings)
Dont want thread to stray off topic, but thats my thougths re a Gay man who is Str occasionally
enz

 

[B_Marius567]

I do think i can trust a with my cock and a man tried rape me. gay men wounder why i did not injoy geting hard from a man that will beat me up if i did get my penis out for him to suck on

 

[hot-rod]

i'm straight and no dude is sucking my cock. not today, not tomorrow, never. cuz then I would not be straight. why do we keep having these threads? if you think you are straight but let some guy suck your cock, your defintion of "straight" is wacked. you are not straight. fucking DUH!!!

lmao....tell us how you really feel?.......

 

[alx]

Consider myself straight but probs bisexual tbth. Yes the last time I went to a gay bar I got sucked off.

 

[SFRunner]

finally, agree completely with the guy that said that he only has relationships with women, but has sex with guys he finds attractive. Exactly how I am.

Exactly how I am too--when I am single. In past relationships, I've had to basically shut down any action with guys (and failing sometimes) once things get serious. My dream girl would understand that jacking with a buddy once in a while isn't going to threaten my relationship with her.

 

[jockmaestro]

My dream girl would understand that jacking with a buddy once in a while isn't going to threaten my relationship with her.[/QUOTE]



You said a mouthful! er... oops....
Seriously, man, the world would be improved if women could ease up and let their husbands/partners just beat off with a buddy or a group of them now and again. It would improve everything.

 

[Brick7]

If the guy is really straight...this is off limits.

I really think it depends on the man and how horny he is and whether he values getting off more than he values his perceived "straightness" or if that even matters to him.
I had a one night stand with a friend who turned out to be a satyr (male nymphomaniac). He would fuck anything with a pulse (and some things without one) and it didn't matter to him that I was a guy. He was having sex and I was just the one helping him get off. I could have been a guy, a woman or a sheep, it was all the same to him. It was all beyond gender and labels for him.
Today he's married and has kids and seems to be on the, excuse the phrase, straight and narrow path these days. Even though we had that one night together, I have no doubt he is 100% straight.

 

[B_patrickmcc]

"Exactly how I am too--when I am single. In past relationships, I've had to basically shut down any action with guys (and failing sometimes) once things get serious. My dream girl would understand that jacking with a buddy once in a while isn't going to threaten my relationship with her. "

I think my dick is the most loving, non-judgemental, unbiased, and friendly guy on the planet. He doesnt care about gender, religion, nationality, political view, or race. He just wants to share his love universally. As evidenced by the time I found it weird a guy didnt remove his yalmulke during a zesty session. "Hugo" had no problem with it.

 

[D_Tim McGnaw]

I really think it depends on the man and how horny he is and whether he values getting off more than he values his perceived "straightness" or if that even matters to him.
I had a one night stand with a friend who turned out to be a satyr (male nymphomaniac). He would fuck anything with a pulse (and some things without one) and it didn't matter to him that I was a guy. He was having sex and I was just the one helping him get off. I could have been a guy, a woman or a sheep, it was all the same to him. It was all beyond gender and labels for him.
Today he's married and has kids and seems to be on the, excuse the phrase, straight and narrow path these days. Even though we had that one night together, I have no doubt he is 100% straight.

Well this I don't understand, I'm the first to admit that sexuality is a spectrum of grey and that people are free to call themselves what they like but two things stick out about your description of this guy.

Firstly that he would fuck anything, that to me indicates someone who isn't straight, gay, bi or whatever, perhaps pansexual is appropriate.

Secondly that even though you describe him as fucking anything you still think he's 100% straight, I mean he's free to think of himself however he wishes, but why would you think that also even though you recognise his behaviour doesn't really match up to that?

 

[B_Lightkeeper]

My cock is not judgemental - except to nuts like Jeffrey Dalmer and people like him.


When it comes to males, of course.

 

[Remington]

I'll never understand how someone could consider a man who has sexual relationships with other men "straight", by any means.