Str8 guys hooking up at the gym.

[petetown]

:smile: I live in Europe. At the gym is more show off....real bj haven't received there

What country....I'm moving

 

[Pleasurer]

So you are "orally" good? :smile:

 

[novice_btm]

So you are "orally" good? :smile:

I was actually told "amazing", not just "good". :tongue:

 

[chrisj428]

hey, I'm horny, who's gonna suck my dick?

When are you coming to Chicago next? I wanna be first in line -- no reciprocity required. One question about the wet underwear -- do your balls hang that low or are you wearing something underneath?

 

[Pleasurer]

I was actually told "amazing", not just "good". :tongue:

So you can deep throath?

 

[novice_btm]

So you can deep throath?

Only one way for you to find out. :bj:

 

[jacero10]

Dudes,

Got a really smoking, very masculine, kinda tough guy married dude to suck me off twice today in his family's kitchen!! Picked me up in the showers. He was strictly no recip and could deep throat me over and over for hours and could suck like a cheap manwhore.

 

[D_Ireonsyd_Colonrinse]

JACE:

Just what exactly are the logistics involved in you picking up a "smoking, very masculine, kinda tough guy married dude" to suck you off (twice)? What kind of married guy's (a giver!) cruising the showers anyway?

And -- please -- be honest. You say "no reciprocity", but you gotta give a hand job or something in return. If I just give a dude a BJ with nothin in return -- I mean, where's freaking mine? I'm just a BJ machine? I have ejaculate that pressure-cooked inside of me too AND NEEDS RELEASE! Where the freak's MY release?

Be honest man. You recip somehow.

 

[jacero10]

JACE:

Just what exactly are the logistics involved in you picking up a "smoking, very masculine, kinda tough guy married dude" to suck you off (twice)? What kind of married guy's (a giver!) cruising the showers anyway?

And -- please -- be honest. You say "no reciprocity", but you gotta give a hand job or something in return. If I just give a dude a BJ with nothin in return -- I mean, where's freaking mine? I'm just a BJ machine? I have ejaculate that pressure-cooked inside of me too AND NEEDS RELEASE! Where the freak's MY release?

Be honest man. You recip somehow.

Good question.

I dont understand it myself. But there are all kinds of guys who get off on the idea of sucking a dude who wont recip. This no recip policy actually is a turn on for them as it is "proof" that the dick their latchin onto is str8. They usually are jacking while sucking and come after I come. Most seem to get off on witnessing a str8 dude coming.

As far as how to get them. It's not hard to do. Linger in the locers or showers with the dick out and flopping. Make sure you are being natural enough to not attract the attention of those not interested but are just showy enough that those curious fix in on you. Mostly this comes down to washing the nads a few times in the showers while not looking around. and rinsing so your pecker is flopping around good. when the coast is clear of anyone not interested, make eye contact with somebody you want on the end of your dick. If the eye contact is returned a couple of times. Follow or lead him out of the showers (same time) and them time yourself to leave the locker room at the same time so you can hook up in the parking lot.

I dont say a whole lot to him. "Fuck I really need to get sucked off" is plenty, and "you gotta place?" If he doesn't, I do.

 

[CALAMBO]

seems to work for you and others...go for it...if you enjoy it and do not feel threatened being in an exposed situation...safety first JACE...there are hazards out there.....good luck to you

 

[Strathos]

Well, if someone is waiting in front of MY locker like this (see attached :tongue: ), I doubt that I'd be looking to see if there's a wedding ring, or ask if he's otherwise involved. :biggrin:

By the way, anyone have any idea who this is?

DAMN!!! Now that to me is THE PERFECT dick on an incredible man. Do you know who he is?

 

[D_Ireonsyd_Colonrinse]

JACE:

I hear you. But that's pretty much how gay guys scope out prospective quarry too. Eye contact. Put your hand on your thigh near your crotch and rub a little (if you're in a noisy bar).

What I don't get is: Say that's me in the shower. How do I know that I'm getting nothing in return? It's not like you wear a sign or tell guys right up front you're a one-way street.

Anyway, wasn't there a post near the beginning where you said you 69'd with a dude and you just couldn't bring yourself to suck, but a hand job was OK?


"Straight" is such a slippery term. I admit I slept with a "straight" guy a few times (I sucked, he received, I jacked off). But, the next couple weeks when he came over, I didn't want non-recip sex anymore (the thrill of straight cock was gone). So, he smoked a joint, then decided after half an hour that he would suck only the tip of my cock, nothing beyond the head, because, as he explained, if he sucked me down my shaft "that would make me gay".


You have to admit that straight guys that get gay blowjobs are a little experimental in where the line is exactly that separates "gay" from "straight". I know a "straight" guy that is comfortable giving head, but "nothing in the ass!", because the ass means gay to him. The ass is crossing a line.

 

[B_Nick4444]

DAMN!!! Now that to me is THE PERFECT dick on an incredible man. Do you know who he is?

whoever he is, send him my way!

 

[musclemonkey5]

No, actually HE used the word correctly, not you. She said her "piece," not peace. Peace is a state of non-conflict. Please make sure you know WTF you're talking about before you counsel someone else. kthxbye.



That's true for human sexuality in general, not just male sexuality.

It amazes me how narrow-minded people can be when it comes to his kind of stuff. To assume there are just two diametric opposites with respect to sexual orientation is to demonstrate a complete lack of understanding about how sexual orientation even works.

I think it comes down to the gay validation issue. They want to convince themselves that they were born gay so that they don't have to deal with their choices, and so others can't discriminate against them.

 

[D_Harry_Crax]

Dudes, Got a really smoking, very masculine, kinda tough guy married dude to suck me off twice today in his family's kitchen!! Picked me up in the showers. He was strictly no recip and could deep throat me over and over for hours and could suck like a cheap manwhore.

I'd suck you off twice, too!

 

[D_Harry_Crax]

:smile: I live in Europe. At the gym is more show off....real bj haven't received there

Cum visit us in the USA!

 

[jacero10]

JACE:

I hear you. But that's pretty much how gay guys scope out prospective quarry too. Eye contact. Put your hand on your thigh near your crotch and rub a little (if you're in a noisy bar).

What I don't get is: Say that's me in the shower. How do I know that I'm getting nothing in return? It's not like you wear a sign or tell guys right up front you're a one-way street.

Anyway, wasn't there a post near the beginning where you said you 69'd with a dude and you just couldn't bring yourself to suck, but a hand job was OK?


"Straight" is such a slippery term. I admit I slept with a "straight" guy a few times (I sucked, he received, I jacked off). But, the next couple weeks when he came over, I didn't want non-recip sex anymore (the thrill of straight cock was gone). So, he smoked a joint, then decided after half an hour that he would suck only the tip of my cock, nothing beyond the head, because, as he explained, if he sucked me down my shaft "that would make me gay".


You have to admit that straight guys that get gay blowjobs are a little experimental in where the line is exactly that separates "gay" from "straight". I know a "straight" guy that is comfortable giving head, but "nothing in the ass!", because the ass means gay to him. The ass is crossing a line.

This is subtle and it has been said before, that basically str8 guys in the showers stay focused on their own bodies and aren't checking out the other guys. By being a little flashy and lingering they let guys know they are up for something. I dont look the guys up and down or stare at their dicks like they do mine. Other signals include licking lips. I guys looks back and forth from my eyes to dick and licks his lips, he's looking to suck dick big time. Guy who makes eye contact but keep washing his ass then turns and bends over to wash him knees or something want to get fucked. But the guy who looks back and forth from his own dick to the eyes of another dude is and kind of plays with himself while looking into the eyes of another is pretty much a "no recip, I'm not into you, suck my dick" kind of guy.

yeah, I jacked off that other guy on my first experience cause he really wanted me to suck him and kept trying. I wasn't really into that but I felt the situ called for it. I am more clear about what I am looking for now. I get into other guys getting into me.

 

[BigDallasDick8x6]

But there are all kinds of guys who get off on the idea of sucking a dude who wont recip. This no recip policy actually is a turn on for them [.....]. They usually are jacking while sucking and come after I come.

Totally agree. It's all about headspace people. It seems we used to understand headspace better than we do know. Not sure why our group memory is losing this information.

As I've posted before (not sure which thread) I have a suck buddy friend. Sometimes he sucks me, sometimes I suck him. I prefer not mixing those in the same session. I like to either get into the headspace of dominating a guy, or servicing him. If he's sucking me, I get off on getting serviced. If I'm servicing him, I get off on servicing. If we switch off every 10 or 15 minutes, as he likes to do some sessions, it really destroys the psychology for me, and let's face it, the BRAIN is the largest sex organ in the body. So many people ignore that.

 

[kardon24]

where in Indiana are you? I'd suck that cock

 

[petetown]

JACE:

Just what exactly are the logistics involved in you picking up a "smoking, very masculine, kinda tough guy married dude" to suck you off (twice)? What kind of married guy's (a giver!) cruising the showers anyway?

And -- please -- be honest. You say "no reciprocity", but you gotta give a hand job or something in return. If I just give a dude a BJ with nothin in return -- I mean, where's freaking mine? I'm just a BJ machine? I have ejaculate that pressure-cooked inside of me too AND NEEDS RELEASE! Where the freak's MY release?

Be honest man. You recip somehow.

Had a married guy who lived across the way from me in NYC....he's come over and suck me and play with my ass....he never came...told me that he "Saves it for the wife." Guess she would get quite the fucking after!!!