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This is the part that I don't understand. If your girlfriend believes that the two of you are in an exclusive relationship and you're having sex (oral or any other) outside of that without her knowledge, you are cheating. If she knows what you're doing, that's a different thing. But if you've been carrying on with these dudes and she has no clue, it's cheating.
Have you told her about your activities? If not, do you think she would leave you if she knew?
I agree with you. It doesnt make sense. She doesn't have a lot of hangups and has had a couple of experiences with women. We have broached the subject in general and she has no problems with bisexuality or gays. Just not sure what she would say about me. I am not good at secrets and will find the time to bring it up. Again, I'm not saying my position makes sense or defending it.