Str8 guys hooking up at the gym.

[B_Monster]

Need some Lithium BP boy?

I'll pay you a gazillion dollars if that happens.

 

[yngjock20]

I've officially decided not to ask sexual orientation upon hooking up with a man at the gym. If you're historically straight...I don't wanna know. If you're closeted...I don't wanna know. If you're a card-carrying member of Nancy and Judy Inc. I'm not interested.

All I want to know is when do you want to get sucked off.

 

[B_Monster]

Where do you live now? I got room in my bed!!!

heavy with Italian-American studs

often thought of moving to the Northeast for that very reason

 

[CUBE]

i get hit on by the 'str8' guys in my gym; none of the gay ones, though.
always in the steam room; they always make the first move; usually just want a mutual JO..oddly enough, even if i'm horny, I just dont like sex in a steam room..

Oh you and your good manners. Seriously, you can hardly blame a straight guy for going after you...you're kind of like Superman...those straight guys are only human after all.

 

[B_Nick4444]

Where do you live now? I got room in my bed!!!

hot diggedy!

I'll pack right now!

 

[jacero10]

I am absolutely convinced that straight guys can GET sucked by a guy and still be straight. No question whatsoever. I've given lots of straight guys BJ's. I have been exclusively gay for several years now but if I were horny and an attractive woman wanted to suck my dick, I'd let her. Afterwards I would still be exclusively attracted to men, and therefore still 100% gay.

Really great comment. Definitely fits my experience. Good of you to speak up, too.

 

[B_Nick8]

Really great comment. Definitely fits my experience. Good of you to speak up, too.

Except that, as you said in your opening post, you've "been dick crazy ever since" which puts an additional spin on things. The guy you're replying to doesn't say if a woman blew him he'd become "pussy crazy".

 

[jacero10]

Except that, as you said in your opening post, you've "been dick crazy ever since" which puts an additional spin on things. The guy you're replying to doesn't say if a woman blew him he'd become "pussy crazy".

Yeah, I said I was dick crazy in my first ever post on this forum not realizing how my every word would be scrutinized and twisted. I also had not thought through entirely how to express what I had not put to words before and not heard or read anyone else articulate either.

As far as I can at present explain what I experience is that I am not emotionally attracted to men. Neither am I really physically sexually attracted to men--that is, seeing an erect penis does not make me hard directly. Rather I am turned on by the naughtiness of the whole thing and the reality that this guy just might get me off. So, I am not jacking off to gay porn, though of course I recognize a good looking man if I see one.

I get crazed by the general environment of the gym showers as a place where straight men get naked among some men who are there to cruise for sex. The cruising really gets me off. Or even seeing guys subtly cruise each other.

 

[jacero10]

While I already have what is probably one of the most publicly scrutinized sexual orientations on lpsg.org, I will add to the literature by saying this is the paragraph from the Psychology Today article which best describes me:

For straight men who have sex with men, same-sex encounters aren't about romance or sexual attraction and desire, but about sexual and physiological arousal-"getting off" with another who's male and accessible. They don't sexually desire or get aroused by looking at other men, only by the sexual act. But if they don't actively desire other men, how do they get to the point of having sex with them? These men typically want to bond with and get affection from other men. Their behavior may reflect a desire to experiment, to engage in something that's taboo, or to express inner psychological conflicts involving their sexual feelings and desires that have nothing to do with having a gay or bisexual identity.

 

[polesmoker]

Jace, are there other seemingly straight men at your gym hooking up with dudes?

 

[nineinchnail4u2c]

Rather I am turned on by the naughtiness of the whole thing and the reality that this guy just might get me off.

I get crazed by the general environment of the gym showers as a place where straight men get naked among some men who are there to cruise for sex. The cruising really gets me off. Or even seeing guys subtly cruise each other.

Hence, you reduce gay and bisexual men to instruments of your pleasure, and assign them the status of a fetish object as I stated previously.

 

[technopeasant]

By definition guy sucking guy is a homosexual act. Try telling your doctor that you are not Gay when some guy gives you the clap out of his throat. Yes it spreads that way go read the Center for Disease Control if you don't believe me and if there is a drug resistant strain other guys are the place to find it. If you are having sexual acts with men than you are by definition at least bi-sexual. If you spread a STD to your girl friend how are you going to explain how you got herpes HS-2 if you are faithful to her. "Gee honey I guess he was blowing". By the way there is no cure for Herpes or papalomia virus or aids or a lot of others like hepatitis.

I know this site tends to be sexually liberal. But talk about sticking your head in the sand, no not that one, the one you are supposed to think with. Really now you are having sex with guys three times a week and you think it's not gay simply because you don't have emotion about it. That's like saying gee honey I don't care anything that other woman, I was just getting off. How does that work in divorce court, it didn't for my dad and what about when you get married and have kids and you get caught or worse bring an STD into your marriage. The consequences are overwhelming. There is no guarantee that your desire for a male mouth is going to go away then either. This is just about the most naive, selfish, unfaithful thing I have ever heard. You need to do some serious thinking. You have no Idea how many marriages have broken up over this and children had the shame of having to say my dad is gay and he had to leave my mom. You also are not doing any thing for the shameful, disrespectful act you are performing on another guy, yes he wanted it, but you don't understand that man's life and what might have brought him to the place where he would lower himself to that. This is true life.

 

[musclebare9]

While I already have what is probably one of the most publicly scrutinized sexual orientations on lpsg.org, I will add to the literature by saying this is the paragraph from the Psychology Today article which best describes me:

Only because it was probably one of the most outrageous self-justifying attempts of hiding in the closet that was ever posted.

 

[Smaccoms]

Where do you live now? I got room in my bed!!!

SO jealous lol

 

[B_Nick4444]

SO jealous lol

he said a big bed **wink! wink!**

 

[Spaguy]

I am not trying to prove anything to anybody. I just have some attraction to men that is physical. It isnt emotional. With women I feel both. Not too complicated. Male sexuality is pretty varied.

Haven't we all found ppl that are alluring to us that we are not interested in emotionally? That happens to me every day I walk down the street. Is it really all that confounding? The number of men who are into sex with men without emotional ties is legion. I am definitely not alone. Many have sucked my dick, too.

I couldn't agree with this more. I feel the same way. I'm married now, but it's still fun to jack off thinking about a hot guy I saw during the day. I'm physically AND emotionally attracted to my wife. . .it's fun to imagine what a guy and I could do!

 

[crescendo69]

Guys, he isn't gay. As his percentages state, he is bi, with a 30% gay leaning. If he chooses to let emotional vs. physical feelings sway those percentages, that is his prerogative. We all use a different measuring stick for that.

The dudes that "do" him don't seem to care if they are treated like sexual "objects", so let them be.

Problems in his straight relationship or with STD's may arise, and I think he is aware of this.

 

[jacero10]

By definition guy sucking guy is a homosexual act. Try telling your doctor that you are not Gay when some guy gives you the clap out of his throat. Yes it spreads that way go read the Center for Disease Control if you don't believe me and if there is a drug resistant strain other guys are the place to find it. If you are having sexual acts with men than you are by definition at least bi-sexual. If you spread a STD to your girl friend how are you going to explain how you got herpes HS-2 if you are faithful to her. "Gee honey I guess he was blowing". By the way there is no cure for Herpes or papalomia virus or aids or a lot of others like hepatitis.

I know this site tends to be sexually liberal. But talk about sticking your head in the sand, no not that one, the one you are supposed to think with. Really now you are having sex with guys three times a week and you think it's not gay simply because you don't have emotion about it. That's like saying gee honey I don't care anything that other woman, I was just getting off. How does that work in divorce court, it didn't for my dad and what about when you get married and have kids and you get caught or worse bring an STD into your marriage. The consequences are overwhelming. There is no guarantee that your desire for a male mouth is going to go away then either. This is just about the most naive, selfish, unfaithful thing I have ever heard. You need to do some serious thinking. You have no Idea how many marriages have broken up over this and children had the shame of having to say my dad is gay and he had to leave my mom. You also are not doing any thing for the shameful, disrespectful act you are performing on another guy, yes he wanted it, but you don't understand that man's life and what might have brought him to the place where he would lower himself to that. This is true life.

Hey guys who jack off a lot are not attracted to hands. Anybody sucking my dick feels good. I am not attracted to my hand and not to the shower guys either. They are just a lot better at getting me off than my hand is.

 

[B_dxjnorto]

These men typically want to bond with and get affection from other men.

Me too. That's an emotional connecting that you say you mostly have no interest in Jace.

 

[Smaccoms]

he said a big bed **wink! wink!**

hehe I gotchya, I gotchya, I should update my gallery a bit *smiles mischeviously*