Str8 guys, write ur comments, advice and ur stories..))

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by nabludatelj, Jul 12, 2008.

  1. nabludatelj

    Verified Gold Member

    Joined:
    Feb 12, 2008
    Messages:
    183
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    10
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Earth - UK - England - Yorkshire - Leeds
    Verified:
    Photo
    Hey all!!! I want to tell my story and to find out what do you think about that? (It is really important for me).
    I am 20 y.o. guy.. I do not think that I am 100% str8 guy, because I am curious about oral sex and jerk off with guys ))) But I am into sex ONLY with girls... soo..
    20 y.o. and still virgin(((

    I have a lot of friends (girls). One girl is very close to me (as friend). She is hot and sexy, has very nice and cute face and big boobs. A lot of guys want to fuck her))) so... we are close friends.. for long time. For sure we were talking about sex between us....
    2 years ago we told to each other, that sex would be something unnecessary and can make bad influence on our friendship and we wont be friends any more. But off course.. I wanted her.. but did not know abt her wishes...))

    So.. 2 years are gone...

    Last weekend, I came to her to accommodation ...(she is studying in another city, but I am in another country and we don't see each other a lot, just using Skype time to time).

    We had very nice day: we were in cinema, famous bar and in sushi bar (she was in all places at the first time, because her bf doesn't think that he should go with her to these places. And she was really impressed.
    In bar we drank lil bit of cocktails, we were tipsy, lil bit.

    After that, we came to her accommodation and had party with her friends.
    After midnight, we became alone. And I was preparing to sleep in separate bed. But unfortunately or fortunately, she did not want to sleep..)).. she wanted to listen music.. we were drunk enough at that moment already...

    She asked me to bring my bed closer to her bed.. and to make one big bed..)))... It is not weird for us to sleep together in one bed... We slept in one bed before... few times.
    I do not know why, but I decided to take off my boxers.. and I told to her... that I will sleep naked, she answered to me.. that she does not mind. OK))
    And we were talking lil bit in the dark.. I started to touch my penis because I was horny))... Few times, I turned on the light and she saw my cock)).. and I was not shy (usually I am very shy with girls).
    I do not how we started to talk about sex but we decided to have sex that night. But she had few conditions: I can not touch her anywhere (just fuck) and I should buy a tablet at the morning.OK.
    I was so nervous and drunk, my cock couldn't become hard even if I jerked lil bit. I asked her to stroke me. She did that.. and my cock became hard.. finally>>)) And we were fucking for 3 minutes... and unfortunately I putted my hand on her pussy and she started shouting (she was under me). and my cock became soft....(((... It is such a shame... I was so upset... that I did not cum. We couldn't make him hard again, even watching porn.

    After that I had arguments with her, she told me that I can be gay or impotent, if my cock can be soft in girls pussy. I went away.
    when I came back she was sleeping already. I was so upset, that wanted to check out Can I cum if she is not shouting at me: Don not touch me here, here, her... there... and bla bla bla.
    and I started to jerk off near to her. And my cock was hard in few moments.. and I had very big load.. I was satisfied that I can cum yet.
    Rigth now, we have the same good friendship and I think that we will have sex again when I ll be my country again.

    So guys, please, tell me Is it all right at the first time tht cock cant be hard or I have problems? Leave comments and advices here))

    if you have similar stories.. please write me...

    Thanks for reading and watching))

    P.S. She has a bf, who hates me, and rite now we are afraid that he can find out)):redface:
     
  2. killerb

    Verified Gold Member

    Joined:
    Nov 13, 2007
    Messages:
    2,102
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    47
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    USA
    Verified:
    Photo
    sounds like u had a lot of pressure on u at the time...
    it's not a surprise that u had a problem...
    sometimes the equipment only works when you're relaxed & can just go with the flow...

    the part about being gay if you go soft while with a woman is complete BS...
     
  3. B_625girth

    B_625girth New Member

    Joined:
    Jun 30, 2007
    Messages:
    2,372
    Likes Received:
    13
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    midwest
    find a new gf. "let's have sex but don't touch me" is just a little too weird.
     
  4. teddy03

    Verified Gold Member

    Joined:
    May 9, 2008
    Messages:
    104
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    11
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    UK
    Verified:
    Photo
    It's normal for guys to struggle with an erection when you're under pressure to perform (especially as your girlfriend sounds a little high-maintenance and demanding in my opinion) or nervous. It's natural, normal, and you'll get over it eventually when you grow in confidence. It certainly doesn't make you "gay" or "impotent" either, that's just your girlfriend's poor understanding and lack of empathy talking and you shouldn't listen to that. Dump her like yesterday's rubbish and find yourself a girl with some class, dignity and respect.
     
    #4 teddy03, Jul 12, 2008
    Last edited: Jul 12, 2008
  5. D_season 5

    D_season 5 Account Disabled

    Joined:
    May 12, 2008
    Messages:
    671
    Likes Received:
    11
    Why On Earth Would U Want To Be 'friends' With Some Chic That Is So Cruel?
    She Clearly Isn't Sensitive To Your Needs Or Desires...i Suspect She Likes To Flaunt Her Body To You, And Then Deny U If U Want To Touch.
    Any Women Who Will Take A Breeder Into Her Pussy, And That Is It, Is A Robot...and To Be Fucking Like This In Ur 20's....dood...u Need To Say Goodbye...if U Don't, She Is Not Changing...given The Way She Processess...and For U To Stay, It Reinforces Her Processing Which She Finds To Be Correct...if U Leave, Then She May Come To The Conclusion, Her Processing Is Not Correct And Start To Reprocess The Way She Does Things To Get A Better Outcome...leaving Her, Will Be Doing Her The Biggest Favour Of Her Life...she Clearly Is Down The Wrong Path For You...for Her, Its The Right Path...given The Way She Processes...
    Follow? Hope So..
    Robbie
     
  6. nabludatelj

    Verified Gold Member

    Joined:
    Feb 12, 2008
    Messages:
    183
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    10
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Earth - UK - England - Yorkshire - Leeds
    Verified:
    Photo
    Yea.. I had a lot of pressure at that moment... and her.. conditions... was so.. terrific... I touched her boobs... and that all.. I couldnt touch anything else.. but I wanted to do it.. it was the first sex.. and touchings..))..

    I dont want to loose her as friend.. We wont be a couple.. I know it... But we are still friends..
     
  7. FrankPipeliner

    Joined:
    Feb 2, 2005
    Messages:
    70
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    dude, don't be such a loser! get yourself a girl to fuck, a guy to suck and have at it. don't be playing with the beds, the boxers and the lights.
     
  8. nabludatelj

    Verified Gold Member

    Joined:
    Feb 12, 2008
    Messages:
    183
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    10
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Earth - UK - England - Yorkshire - Leeds
    Verified:
    Photo

    Yea i Know it.. and i will get..
    As I mentioned, it was my first sex...
     
  9. brinzaulsschwul

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Oct 18, 2007
    Messages:
    3,642
    Likes Received:
    1,311
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Switzerland - Lenzerheide
    What a shame some cow put you under so much pressure to perform, your best options are to forget the experience, don't go back there and find
     
  10. inman69

    inman69 Member

    Joined:
    Apr 21, 2008
    Messages:
    334
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    7
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Atlanta, GA
    I say get another girlfriend for sure. I was straight in my past life and never had a chick like this one. You're inexperienced and that situation wasn't ideal for a hot love making session. I would accept it and move on. You're young and hopefully there's lots of great sex in your future.
     
  11. nabludatelj

    Verified Gold Member

    Joined:
    Feb 12, 2008
    Messages:
    183
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    10
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Earth - UK - England - Yorkshire - Leeds
    Verified:
    Photo
    Thanks... alot.. Yea I ll move on.. and forget about this experience for sure.
     
  12. B_henry miller

    B_henry miller New Member

    Joined:
    Aug 7, 2007
    Messages:
    3,029
    Likes Received:
    16
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Big Sur, California
    Anyone got the cliffnotes?
     
  13. pavement

    pavement New Member

    Joined:
    Mar 9, 2007
    Messages:
    441
    Likes Received:
    1
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    New Zealand



    A Universal translator
     
  14. nabludatelj

    Verified Gold Member

    Joined:
    Feb 12, 2008
    Messages:
    183
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    10
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Earth - UK - England - Yorkshire - Leeds
    Verified:
    Photo
    What are you talking about?
     
  15. piratebulldog

    piratebulldog Member

    Joined:
    Mar 18, 2008
    Messages:
    101
    Likes Received:
    4
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    So CAL
    What a terrible situation for a first time. Like the other posts have stated, this is not a good girl nor is she a good friend. There is absolutely no need to further any other relationship with her. The fact that you could not perform was not surprising with the stipulations and parameters she had given. No, this was not your first sex. It may have been the first time you have attempted sex but your first time should be with someone who at least cares about you and who you are.

    Get better friends.

    Besides, you said she had a boyfriend. You shouldn't be messing around with women who are already in a relationship.

    Pump up your values and I think your penis will do the same.
     
  16. disconap1973

    disconap1973 New Member

    Joined:
    Nov 14, 2007
    Messages:
    84
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Virginia
    Try it with a guy and see how you feel. Maybe you just weren't really into her! Pardon the pun.
     
  17. nabludatelj

    Verified Gold Member

    Joined:
    Feb 12, 2008
    Messages:
    183
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    10
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Earth - UK - England - Yorkshire - Leeds
    Verified:
    Photo
    No actually, I dont want to try with guy yet!!
     
Draft saved Draft deleted