Str8 hunters

[MarkLondon]

No.

Even though I enjoy sex with Bi men. In my experience married men or guys who've sustained relationships with women are more considerate lovers. And fathers understand human beings better.

But if anything is gonna happen, I want them to be attracted to me. And I don't want to "turn" them - just add to their enjoyment and humanity.

I have straight male friends and I respect their boundaries. Ironically, I get more hugging from them (back-thumping included), lol, and kiss their wives/girlfriends too, like family.

 

[D_season 5]

wow..that's a twist...i have never had to seduce a str8 man...but...i for some odd reason...have been pursued by married men...gay guys...don't find me...to their liking..not sure what it is..but i have had married men..walking down Michigan ave in chicago..pass me by...turn around...and follow me...and by the time i get to the red light ...there he is..making a pass at me...wanting with a whisper in my ear if i will join him for coffee or something...it never ceases to amaze me...

my therapist and i have talked it over...and his thought is that is my face....im soft enuf in my face..that says I'm tender..but my body...contradicts everything else...some think I'm a cop... i dunno...i think of myself as just me...doing what i do...fighting the IRS...

 

[milkyca]

Straight guys don't let men blow them. At least not because they find something pleasurable in it.

The men that do let other men blow them for fun or either gay or bi. Pretty simple concept.

Inaccurate and overly simplistic. There are quite a number of straight men who are willing to engage in sexual activity with another male if they are sufficiently aroused enough, or apathetic enough. Either there are a plethora of heterosexual males who are occasionally amenable or apathetic to sexual experimentation, or the bisexual portion of males far exceeds the heterosexual portion.

Personally, I find gay men aggressively pursuing straight men contemptible, in much the same way I would find a straight male aggressively pursuing a woman contemptible. But while I have never initiated and have no intention of initiating a sexual encounter with a straight male, I have had a couple of friends first broadly hint and then more privately state that they would like an occasional blowjob from me. And if I was single, I would generally oblige.

 

[chadstallion]

as the hunky, married telephone repairman told me...."what pleases my penis pleases me".

 

[eastbaydude]

I've been hit on by gay men many times. I admit, I'm usually flattered. I'll typically smile and say, "Thank, but no thanks. I'm straight." When it stops there, and it usually does, it's totally cool for all parties.

Once in a while a guy will push it a farther and push the boundries of what's OK and what's not. In these cases I'm less polite and more emphatic in my NO!. If I get touched, that's a serious problem and pretty stupid. While I certainly don't condone violence, touching someone after you've been told no, is an open invitation.

Now, with that said, just about every straight guy is intrigued by "turning" a lesbian. Right guys? Admit it. But, if you go beyond the initial proposal, you've crossed the line. The same thing goes for women, once you're shot down, take it like a man. Walk back to your buddies. (It is OK to tell them she's a dyke.)

I'm assuming the same thing goes for gay men. If someone say they aren't interested in you (or you tell someone you aren't interested in them), isn't that the end of the game? Don't you have the same problems if someone pushes?

 

[D_Pubert Stabbingpain]

my therapist and i have talked it over...and his thought is that is my face....im soft enuf in my face..that says I'm tender..but my body...contradicts everything else...some think I'm a cop... i dunno...i think of myself as just me...doing what i do...fighting the IRS...

Fire your therapist! It is your HOT bod that attracts other men. :biggrin1:

P.S. If you have men approaching you like you say, out of nowhere, on the street, in broad daylight, wispering in your ear, they might say they are str8 but I highly doubt they are str8.

 

[B_hungnewyorker]

so all those married men that stop by a XXX video arcade, watch str8 porn and use the glory hole for a blow job think that women are on the other side of the wall??

I don't know what they think. I haven't had the time to ask all of them and frankly this week is looking pretty busy for me.

My point was that straight is not an appearance, not a facade, but an actual like or dislike. To be straight you only like sexual activity with people of the opposite sex.

If those guys enjoy getting blown by other guys through glory holes they're definitely not straight. They can't be by definition. Like I said, it's not calculus. It's basic stuff.

 

[B_hungnewyorker]

Inaccurate and overly simplistic. There are quite a number of straight men who are willing to engage in sexual activity with another male if they are sufficiently aroused enough, or apathetic enough. Either there are a plethora of heterosexual males who are occasionally amenable or apathetic to sexual experimentation, or the bisexual portion of males far exceeds the heterosexual portion.

Personally, I find gay men aggressively pursuing straight men contemptible, in much the same way I would find a straight male aggressively pursuing a woman contemptible. But while I have never initiated and have no intention of initiating a sexual encounter with a straight male, I have had a couple of friends first broadly hint and then more privately state that they would like an occasional blowjob from me. And if I was single, I would generally oblige.

Re your first paragraph: Then what, pray tell, is "straight"? Those guys are bi curious. If you're experimenting with other guys like that you're not straight.

Re your second paragraph: I agree 100% with your first sentence. Who is someone else to tell me what I like and what I don't? That's pure arrogance.

 

[D_Coyne Toss]

Maybe then it is more a matter of sexual pleasure than of sexual orientation.

In Italian we have a say: "A hole is a hole, and cock has no eyes".

 

[luvguyz]

I'm a gay man that is intensely attracted to straight men. Flirting with them is a huge turn on for me.

 

[milkyca]

Re your first paragraph: Then what, pray tell, is "straight"? Those guys are bi curious. If you're experimenting with other guys like that you're not straight.

'Straight' is purely a social construction to describe someone who is primarily or exclusively interested in the opposite sex. I should also note that 'bi curious' is not synonymous with bisexual. Your outlook on sexual orientation is too simplistic and far-reaching to be of any practical usage, and you're confusing actions with perceptions. Per your definition, people assume a sexual orientation based on experiences, rather than their biological or mental makeup. If that's true, then sexual orientation is purely conditional, and people lack it until they become sexually active with others.

 

[Mr.Grande]

I think that looking to hit on straight men is wrong. I have been hit on by gay men on the street, clubs, and worse in the gym shower. I always respond politely and tell them that I am straight. What I think is wrong is when the guy insists I "try it out" or do just once. I respect the guys sexuality, but I have found some men to ignore mine. Why do some men try to push their lifestyle on me? We should all respect each other and our boundaries.

 

[milkyca]

I think that looking to hit on straight men is wrong. I have been hit on by gay men on the street, clubs, and worse in the gym shower. I always respond politely and tell them that I am straight. What I think is wrong is when the guy insists I "try it out" or do just once. I respect the guys sexuality, but I have found some men to ignore mine. Why do some men try to push their lifestyle on me? We should all respect each other and our boundaries.

If only all straight men could learn this lesson when it came to women.

 

[scottbud]

I don't know what they think. I haven't had the time to ask all of them and frankly this week is looking pretty busy for me.

My point was that straight is not an appearance, not a facade, but an actual like or dislike. To be straight you only like sexual activity with people of the opposite sex.

If those guys enjoy getting blown by other guys through glory holes they're definitely not straight. They can't be by definition. Like I said, it's not calculus. It's basic stuff.

Bollocks!

It means they like blow jobs and arent hung up on how they get it.

I have said it before just cause I have played cricket doesnt make me a cricketer, but I might go out in the back yard with my mates every so often for a game.

Just because someone has taken part in a particular activity with particular people doesnt mean they are this or that.

People, sexuality and emotionas are not as cut and dry as that and anyone who thinks they are is fooling themselves.

 

[ballsaplenty2156]

I've been with a good number of men so far, not one of them were gay. I am bi and am attracted to dudes much like myself, not guys who expect a "relationship" after sex.
When I was in college, I had sex with more than a few dudes who had never been with another man in a sexual way before. The sex was always amazingly hot for both of us.
Yes, some of the guys felt guilty or a bit angry afterwards, but we talked things out and most, not all, have remained friendly even to this day. A few even have repeated the performance.
I'm not at all attracted to gay men, even those that act more manly, than flaming. If I want an emotional attachment or relationship, I'll have it with a woman.
I don't drink or do drugs, so I don't hang out in bars or clubs. I am a bit of a jock and meet most of the dudes I sex with at sports venues or practices. If I want to have sex with a dude, I want him to be a man, not a flaming version of a woman trapped in a man's body. Yes, I know that makes me sound so ignorant, but that's how I feel. I have friends who are openly gay and I respect them very much, but I don't have sex with them, despite all the cajoling and begging. I am simply not attracted to the gay mystique as it is.

 

[invisibleman]

I've been with a good number of men so far, not one of them were gay. I am bi and am attracted to dudes much like myself, not guys who expect a "relationship" after sex.

(Sarcasm begins==>How special. <==Sarcasm ends)
When I was in college, I had sex with more than a few dudes who had never been with another man in a sexual way before. The sex was always amazingly hot for both of us.
Yes, some of the guys felt guilty or a bit angry afterwards, but we talked things out and most, not all, have remained friendly even to this day. A few even have repeated the performance.
I'm not at all attracted to gay men, even those that act more manly, than flaming.

It is nice to know that. I guess that is supposed to make you superior to me or better than me.

If I want an emotional attachment or relationship, I'll have it with a woman.

(Sarcasm begins==>You write for Hallmark cards? Or fortune cookie companies? There is a need for "awe inspiring feel good sayings" like the ones you've penned so far.<==Sarcasm ends.)
I don't drink or do drugs, so I don't hang out in bars or clubs. I am a bit of a jock and meet most of the dudes I sex with at sports venues or practices. If I want to have sex with a dude, I want him to be a man, not a flaming version of a woman trapped in a man's body. Yes, I know that makes me sound so ignorant, but that's how I feel.

Ignorant bisexual men with feelings. That is what gay men want. A man with "issues". (Sarcasm begins==>Oh, you are total relationship material. Gay men truly deserve you. :wink:<==Sarcasm ends.)

I have friends who are openly gay and I respect them very much, but I don't have sex with them, despite all the cajoling and begging .

Beyotch, you are lying your ass off now. Gay men do NOT hang out at goddamn sports bars. I am simply not attracted to the gay mystique as it is.

I haven't heard many straight men or "straight" identified bisexual men use "gay mystique" in a sentence.

What a diva.

 

[B_hungnewyorker]

'Straight' is purely a social construction to describe someone who is primarily or exclusively interested in the opposite sex. I should also note that 'bi curious' is not synonymous with bisexual. Your outlook on sexual orientation is too simplistic and far-reaching to be of any practical usage, and you're confusing actions with perceptions. Per your definition, people assume a sexual orientation based on experiences, rather than their biological or mental makeup. If that's true, then sexual orientation is purely conditional, and people lack it until they become sexually active with others.

I think you misunderstood me. All I'm saying is that your sexual urges define you as straight, gay, or bi. In the very least, men who enjoy sex with women but also enjoy the occasional handjob from a man are definitely not "straight" - at least not within the word's common meaning.

I never said anything that you have to be sexually active to be straight, gay, or bi. I knew I was straight well before I ever had sex and I've read what I presume to be true interviews from gay men and women who knew from an early age they were gay too. Once again, it's what you're attracted to.

All I'm saying is that "straight" has a particular meaning as does "bi" or "gay" or "telephone" or "apple". An apple will never be a telephone no matter how much I want it to be one because there are solid concepts behind each word.

 

[ballsaplenty2156]

What a diva.

Bro, Seek counseling. You've got a lot of repressed hostility. For your information, I don't think I'm better than anybody else. But as a human being, you are sorely lacking. If you can't say something constructive, keep it to yourself.

 

[froggy247]

I like the whole aspect of getting a Str8 guy! It is hot and sometimes it is possilbe. All though I do respect them when "no" is the answer. It is still a great turn on.

 

[motorcityboy]

Maybe then it is more a matter of sexual pleasure than of sexual orientation.

In Italian we have a say: "A hole is a hole, and cock has no eyes".

I agree