str8 lads: would u let gay suck u off

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Oh and who you fall in love with has nothing to do with gender! Love is not always about sex. I love my best friend (female) and I would do anything for her but I don't fancy her or wanna have sex with her (ewwwww) even if ever other guy in a club apparently does!
 

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Sexual orientation is such a misleading terminology.

It all comes down to attraction. There are many types of attraction as we all know it:

Physical
Psychological
Sexual
Emotional
Spiritual
Mental
Etc…..the list goes on

To me, someone who is gay/homosexual is someone who is attracted to someone of the same sex physically, psychologically, sexually, emotionally, spiritually, mentally and so on.

Likewise heterosexual is someone who is attracted to someone of the opposite sex physically, psychologically, sexually, emotionally, spiritually, mentally and so on.

Sexual orientation is an attraction on all levels, not just sexually. Many gay couples don’t actually have sex with each other.

A heterosexual who might be physically attracted to another person of the same sex doesn’t make them gay or homosexual, because they are NOT attracted to the same sex on all levels of attraction.

Obviously, the universe is miraculously, attraction is not just that simple where we can just categorise people into two main groups gay or straight. When you throw in gender identity in there as well, there is a whole new dimension to this discussion.

There are also 3 types of sexual orientation:

1. The sexual orientation you categorise yourself in and let people know you are in
2. The sexual orientation you behave yourself in (whether you practice homosexual or heterosexual sex/ relationships etc)
3. The sexual orientation you are truly born in (something you can’t change)

Sexual orientation is also a continuant of a range of possibilities, from the fully gay to bi to fully straight. Anyone can be somewhere in between.
It is so complex, it is best not to have to categorise it at all. But then again, society needs practicality. We need to put people in categories to simplify things…

So I say, if someone wants to be identify as straight even though they only have gay relationships or have gay sex, so be it. It is who they are or at least it is who they like to be known as who they are.

I hope this is helpful. I have a lot to say about gender identity too, but decided not too bombard this thread too much. Thanks for reading :D
 

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Sexual orientation is such a misleading To me, someone who is gay/homosexual is someone who is attracted to someone of the same sex physically, psychologically, sexually, emotionally, spiritually, mentally and so on.

Likewise heterosexual is someone who is attracted to someone of the opposite sex physically, psychologically, sexually, emotionally, spiritually, mentally and so on ..................

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Right on Kenyth! I agree with you completely. If anyone out there wants to consider me to be gay, because I really enjoy sucking cock, then so be it ... I'm gay. If anyone wants to consider me bi, because I truly enjoy sex with both women and men, then so be it ... I'm bi. Likewise if you want to consider me straight, because that is my mannerism and I can only make "love" to women", then so be it ... I'm straight.

I really don't give a shit about being "labeled" by others, just use whatever label works for you. As for what label I think best fits me, well that's just a matter of my own perspective.
 

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It's hard to deal with labels when society makes you believe that being one way is the right way to be.

True, a man that says he's "Straight" shouldn't allow another man to suck his dick, but what happens when straight men want a "straight" woman to have sex with another "straight" woman. Are they right in classifying her as "straight" or is she just in denial about being a lesbian?

I say, if the man wants to be predominately titled a hetero, but doesn't mind appreciating what another man can give sexually, then let him do it.

It's just bad that if some guys are a certain way, then it's believed that all men are that way.

Then you've got the whole "men are sexual beings" idea. Like Kenyth brought up, get a group of men isolated from women for an extended period of time and gay sex is bound to happen. It's not a factor of what they prefer, but what's around at the time.
 

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So, I will ask again, redundantly: Is there any "category" of sexual activity outside these 4?

1. Enjoys sexual activity only with the same gender.
2. Enjoys sexual activity with either gender.
3. Enjoys sexual activity only with the other gender.
4. Does not enjoy sexual activity with either gender.

I'm not talking about love or emotional attachment or friendship, I'm talking about having sex...
 

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It's not complicated.The guys you've fooled around with aren't 100% straight.If they claim that they are then they're in denial.
The three of us that have responded here are certain of our sexuality.The only mouths coming anywhere near our cocks are female ones.
Oh what homophobes yall are, just goes to show how being homophobic, in saying "Only mouths comming anywhere near our cocks are female ones" is such bigotry... It is the unknown that attract most men in letting another man give him head "PERIOD"......
 

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Straight guys don't want guys sucking their cocks just like you don't want women sucking yours. Jesus it's not rocket-science.
Really so i suppose that all the married men with children that go to cruising spots and get sucked off by other guys, dont want guys sucking thier cocks...
God damn yall so called straight men are FULL OF IT!!!!
 

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There is no way...The thought of it wants to make me vomit...If any guy would let a man suck on his penis, then that dude was not straight, he was and is a closet queen, queer, gay, homosexual, what ever you want to call it.. YUK
 

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BlackCock I agree with you. I've met and played with a lot of truckers who have the attitude if they don't reciprocate they aren't bi/gay. It doesn't bother me at all. Sometimes, they will do a little touching.. just to see what will happens.. if they'll turn gay or not.
HAHAHAAH Turn gay HAHAHAAHAHA, ok you dont just turn gay, HAHAAHHA. But i loved your comment :)
 

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There is no way...The thought of it wants to make me vomit...If any guy would let a man suck on his penis, then that dude was not straight, he was and is a closet queen, queer, gay, homosexual, what ever you want to call it.. YUK
YEAH YEAH YEAH!!!! There it is again Closeted Homophobic, bigotry.
Oh and please if you are not "gay" then refrain from using the word queer queen or faggot.
 

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Hi guys

I often hook up with str8 guys and a common issue is that a lot (I know not all) girls either wont suck dick, esp until into a relationship, and when they do they wont swallow. More of an issue too for the bigger cocks.

I've deep throated an 11" cock - quite a challenge. And it's become a party trick to deep throat guys. Top tip to the suckers reading: turn your self head - to - tow, so you canb take the natural curve more easily down your throat.

So anyway, was curious if str8 guys here would ever let a gay guy suck him off, if in the unlikely situation you werent getting enough head, it was one way and and a one off?

Hell no !!! I won't let anyone suck my cock except my wife.
 

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LOL!!

Not all guys are attracted to men. Hard to believe , I know.

Im not attracted to guys, so I would not let a guy suck me off. I would not be able to get it up,because Im not attracted to guys at all.

There are so many threads about like this. If the guy is just into women, than the answer is NO!!!!!!
 
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LOL!!

Not all guys are attracted to men. Hard to believe , I know.

Im not attracted to guys, so I would not let a guy suck me off. I would not be able to get it up,because Im not attracted to guys at all.

There are so many threads about like this. If the guy is just into women, than the answer is NO!!!!!!

Exactly !!!!!!!
 

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Why do gay guys want to sex up str8 guys so much? Doesn't every dick taste the same? Sheez?