Str8 male anal play, what was your girl's reaction?

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  1. zujmyhezk86

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    So I'll admit it I'm straight and I like a lil anal play at times. Nothing major but I won't mind if a finger or a tongue finds it's way to my ass when I'm having sex with a girl but as we all know there is a stigma about enjoying that kind of stuff as a straight male. My questions go out to the other straight males who are into this.

    When did you first realize you didn't mind anal play on yourself?

    How did you let your current girlfriend know you were into it?

    What was her reaction?

    Were you scared that she would treat you differently after she found out you liked it?

    I'm an extremely sexual guy who by myself I don't care about the stigma it's just when it comes to whoever I'm fucking I get concerned that they will make it a bigger deal than it needs to be.
     
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    i've never asked for it, but i have been with plenty of women who initiated some anal fun.
    usually just a finger stroking my perineum and anus will feel really good.
    been with a few women (including one of my current lovers) who like to mix it into their oral sex repertoire.
    gotta say, it feels pretty incredible to have my cock, balls and ass soaked with spit.
    as for anal penetration, i haven't really enjoyed it when a woman tries to put her finger inside me, which is strange since i have fingered my ass before while masturbating and it feels amazing.
    i think i'm just not comfortable with the possibility of her pulling out a dirty finger.
     
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    Definitely intense orgasms for sure. It doesn't make you gay in any way just like a lezbian using a dildo for penetration doesn't make them straight.

    I do hear you on the dirty finger thing. After a shower maybe, otherwise I'm not letting that happen. I prefer a vibrating buttplug to a finger.
     
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    Its something that's, i would think, in the back of most gay guys minds when there's any kind of anal play...i use to date a guy who would like me too use a condom when i would finger him during oral sex...easy clean up and comes pre-lubed...just thought id throw in my opinion....and may i say i think its really cool to find some str8 guys who's not hung up on something being gay or not...i always say if it feels good and its not hurting anyone go for it
     
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    cool for you guys...yep, not a gay thing...just a sex thing
     
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    When did you first realize you didn't mind anal play on yourself?
    watching porn i guess. I saw it and thought fuck that looks alright.

    How did you let your current girlfriend know you were into it?
    I have to coax my current GF into it. She has never really been into then anal stuff that much :lame:

    What was her reaction? We she didnt really go for it at first. Taken a 2months to get her into it. Though if we have a couple of drinks almost anything flies.

    Were you scared that she would treat you differently after she found out you liked it?
    Kind of i guess. But i didnt really care. You cant really help what you like and what you dont like.
     
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    I feel you all on the dirty finger thing but i think if she's decided to go down there she knows there's a possibility it may come out with something. But washing is definitely important.
     
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    as part of my shower every day i clean me ass hole.
    im straight and
    i do finger myself when im in the mood and even tried with a cucumber the other day! twas nice! (heat it up microwave first and cover in lube makes it much better and easier to stretch)
    only once has a girl gone there on me though, ive never initiated it to a girl. but maybe i will. and let uz know how it goes :)
     
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    Most of the ladies I've been with enjoy, say ''returning the favor'' of playing with my ass while giving massages or oral. I now enjoy prostate massages. It's not a gay thing, and quite pleasurable. Like any anal sex, being prepaired before hand is the key, as not to worry about dirty fingers.

    My lady friend buys two enamas when she shops, one for her and one for me. Also buys finger condoms that she uses on me and condoms for me. We start with oral on each other, then she likes to sit on me, which is great because her big tits hang in my face, then she gets on all fours waiting for the anal session. She fingers herself and has great orgasms, then she returns the favor fingering my ass and sucking or jacking me off which gives me great orgasms.

    Her hands are always teasing my bum. Sometimes she'll just tease it while she's sucking me and when I start cumming she'll stick her finger in my ass ''wow''.

    I imagine she's fingered many asses before, she is a pro.
     
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    Well, I realized I liked it BECAUSE of my girlfriend. I think she had read some stuff in Cosmo or whatever about that sort of thing, and one night she began rubbing my perrenium. Apparently, my reaction at first, which I don't entirely remember, was hesitation and saying that maybe it was kind of "gay", lol.

    She convinced me it wasn't and so I let her do it and ended up having a really strong orgasm.

    Over time she began getting more bold, teasing down further until getting to the backdoor, which I think was a another bit of a hurtle, but I relented and let her play, and I'm glad I did.

    Eventually this led to her basically finger fucking me, which was incredible, and then to her using her toy on me, first on my penis, then ever so lower, though she really hasn't tried to do much in the way of penetration on me with it, usually just pressing the head of the dildo/vibe right up against there, or doing some light penetration that basically invovled just slipping the head in.

    I'd say I've come along way after my initial reaction, lol, but I defintely had to be eased into it.

    She absolutely loves teasing me down there, and on a fairly regular basis when we start foreplay, if I'm on top over her and kissing her, she likes to slide her hand down under me with me on my knees and just play with the backdoor, completely ignoring the penis at first, because she loves the way it makes me squirm given the tremendous sensitivity.
     
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    I just don't get why there has to be such a stigma about guys enjoying having their butts played with. It's a body part that all men have (not just the gay ones!), and when one cuts through all the social crap around it (no pun intended!), most guys realize that it feels pretty good to have something stimulating it while being pleasured elsewhere. I've had far too many straight guy friends tell me "I fingered my ass while jacking off - does that mean I'm gay?". WTF. Jacking off while thinking about other men means you're gay (or bi, or bi-curious, or whatever), not touching parts of your body that just happen to feel good. Another straight friend was recently telling me that he wanted to have a girl fuck him with a strap-on, but he also felt the need to then spend five minutes justifying it, assuring me that he had absolutely no interest in men. I wish as a sexual society we could just get over this one and have everybody start sticking some fingers in their asses a bit more often! :wink:
     
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    When did you first realize you didn't mind anal play on yourself?
    When I saw it in a porn and decided to give it a try. I don't do anal play often, but when I do, it's worth it. The orgasms are intense, it feels good, so why not.

    Were you scared that she would treat you differently after she found out you liked it?
    Though currently single, I have told a few hookups that actually asked if I were into it. Hell, they are open minded. I don't worry about being treated different because if I am trying to have sex with you [a woman] then why would you think I am gay (unless you are, in fact, a man, pretending to be a woman).
     
  14. AM_092

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    I don't think any of my straight male friends would admit to it even if they did. They just couldn't get past the stigma.
     
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