I have many friends that are straight (probably the majority of my friends are
straight), a few that are gay, and a few that are bi. Some are married, some
have gfs or bfs, some are still single and dating. There is very little mingling of
the groups and most do not know about the others. However, there are a few
of my bi and gay friends that are considered straight by the straights, so they
are crossovers.
Normally none of us sit around and talk about sex (well, sometimes we do), so
we just do normal things. Personally I don't feel all that comfortable discussing
sex with any of the groups....my sexual preferences are personal and I do not
talk about them. I think most of the others feel the same way. Actually, I have
opened up here on this site more that I ever had to anyone! I still can't believe
it, but it has been a great release.
We are not teenagers or college kids any longer, and just don't horse around much.
Yes, we do comment on hot ladies that we may see...or guys if it is a bi or gay
group... but it is not that common with any of us. Most are middle aged, so none
of us are considered very young anymore and have grown out of the need to do it
and are interested in other things.
We go on outings with our wives, gfs or dates, attend Yankee or Giants games
or watch them on tv, BBQ in the yard and drink beer, have guys nights out for
dinner and bar hopping, go fishing, hiking, camping and skiing together, go to
movies and concerts, work on our cars or help each other out in basement or
garage workshops, attend American Legion, VFW, Masonic or other meetings
together, go on vacations together, attend Church, and yes...talk for hours
on the phone! We are God Fathers and Best Men at weddings, and name our
children after each other.
All of us are great friends, actually more like brothers since we have known each
other for so long....and love each other accordingly. We would do anything for
each other. To me, this is bonding with my friends.
