If so, did her family start acting funny toward you or treating you differently after they found out? Did they something to you? How did they find out? I've been married for 7 years (which included a seperation), and lately my father-in-law has said and done a few things that got me confused. And it all started a few months ago after I attended my wife's family reunion weekend. He just happened to see me naked. I'll explain later, b/c I don't have enough time to get into all the details now. But in the meantime, I was just wandering about other guys and their in-laws.