Str8 men and their limits. I mean, really?

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  1. DV8

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    Okay, so I definitely feel morally obligated to write this. Now, I personally am not one to judge people, because I don't want people judging me. However, some of you guys really have to get over yourselves. I mean, really?

    I understand that you don't have to be gay or bi to be on this site and interact with others- I totally get that. But when you start jerking off to a gay guy on webcam and he asks you if you want to fuck him, DO NOT get on the defensive and start spilling that "I'm straight" bullshit. I mean, really? You're so used to lying to everyone else that you're starting believe your lies? hmmm

    OH! Something else that I enjoy are the straight men who message you and tell you how hot you are, how beautiful your big black pierced cock is (yeah, I'm getting a little personal here), and how they would totally suck it, and the moment you tell them that you'd let them fuck you, they're fucking offended! I mean, really? You sexually harassed me to start with- lets establish that. You're pissy because it's just so gay for me to get duke'd up the butt by you, but you gagging on my cock is acceptable? No ma'am. I'm sure your wife would agree.

    And one last thing. Straight Men, I appreciate what you do. I really do. I mean, hell- I've slept with a few of you, and let me tell you- you can tear a piece of ass up! And some of you can take my cock like champs- gotta give it to you. But I saw something yesterday, and it bothered the hell out of me, so I have to call it out. I'm not going to say any names, but, I witnessed a straight man jerk off, and he was about to shove a cucumber that I had to have been about 9x7 inches up his ass while quite a few openly gay men watched him. He even asked if we were ready to watch- Bitch, HELL YEAH! And then one person made a joke and he went ape shit about how this person seems to make him feel uncomfortable. I mean, really? I didn't see one drop of lube on that monstrosity of a vegetable, and you want to talk about feeling uncomfortable? I'm not trying to upset the apple cart, I'm just sayin'- when you start creating salads in your anus in front of a live audience, expect commentary, say please and thank you, and shut the hell up.

    Smooches!

    Dante'
     
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    oh come on, that cuke was more than 9x7, his hand didnt fit around it with like an inch and a half to spare, that had to be at least an 8.5" girth at the middle and closer to 10" length. And yes, I know, that wasn't your point.
     
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    I was just trying to give him credit so that he didn't seem like a gaping slut.
     
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    Where was this video? Holy crap, a cucumber?
     
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    He was doing it live on cam.
     
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    Dr. Dantex- I totally agree with you. I did not see this last situation, but in the past I expressed some comments on having a few of my JO buddies over and watching some porn and JO. A few of the "Straight guys" on the site began giving me some nasty comments and calling me "GAY" because of this.
    Don't let it get to you. We all deal with many different types of people every day. I try and make the best of it and not let them or their attitudes get me down. Have fun, enjoy your time and if some idiot wants to go off on a rant....let him/her.
    Peace out!
     
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    Straight? I'd say probably bi. I don't know who you were refering to.. but, your point is valid.

    I've had MANY guys who say that they're "100% straight, and never done this before" crap saying they want to a) blow me, b) get blown by me, c) do me up the ass, or d) get done up the ass by me. The "100% straight" thing just doesn't fly like that. I know my limits, even for women would be no ass play, either side. I _THINK_ myself as tolerant (Maybe just putting up with a whole bunch of crap I don't like), but, thankfully, I havn't had to test my limits too far as of yet. Yes. I visit gay bars. (I tend to get left alone there/have limits well respected by the clientel/staff (a straight guy's money is still money) and generally have less hastles). Anyways... as limits go... I don't know... I Guess, strictly speaking, gay is liking other men, in a sexual connotation, excluding women. bi/metro would be both. and straight would be having your panties in a bunch (And, damnit.. what's the best way to untangle these bloody things: It chaffs going commando!!!!)
    As for our friend getting uppity... hell, if he's going to be playing with fruits on camera... on a site like this... come on... (but, seriously, something over 8" girth? In the butt? Hmmm... Maybe I should re-think my 100% here... ;P)



    :jester: Hmmm.. salads? Guess it was a Greek salad, with Greek dressing??? :yuck::puke:
     
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    FTlauderdale: I'm all for straight men doing what they do, but the moment the words gay or bi come into play, don't get pissy. Sexually, I can say that I'm bisexual- I can get sexual with either gender, I prefer men, and I can't be with a woman in a romantic sense- it's not happening. So yes, sweetheart- don't let people upset you and bother you- you do your thing as long as you're honest and open about yourself.

    Drac: You are just so silly! Lmao! I just adore you! And if you want to rethink your 100%, please do by all means because that person is not the only one who can take large things- you may enjoy yourself more than you thought ;) And from what I remember, you're just an overall nice guy-- I appreciate that about you. It was so nice speaking to you today, and I hope to do it again soon!!! And you're absolutely right about people getting uppity and bent out of shape. People just need to calm the hell down- and when you think about it? How the hell are you going to be 100% straight on a website devoted to penis?!
     
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    The people you described aren't straight then. They're bisexual or gay men who are in denial or ashamed to admit it I guess.

    If a man is willing to stick a fruit up his butt while other men watch, or offers to perform sexual acts on another man, then he stops being straight somewhere in between the cucumber and the blowjob.

    And if they're that mentally screwed that they want to have sex with other men but can't even admit to themselves what they are, then you probably shouldn't be surprised that it expresses itself as them sounding like wackos lol.
     
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    So What?, why do people have to label everything??. Sex is enjoyment for whoever and whatever you want to do or are doing at that time. Leave the labelling to the tins for Gods sake.
     
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    Personally, I believe you are who you are. You can do your thing, just like I'm going to do mine, but don't flip out when you decide to dance on the line of your boundaries but I decide to cross it. That's my point with it. And since you're speaking of labels- gay, bi, and straight- those are all labels. And I feel that the moment a guy decides to put all of my beautiful, thick inches in his mouth, the last label better not be the first one he reaches for. But that's on him.
     
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    It is not only that. many people seem to have a weird boiling point. Instead of a calm, that isn't really turning me on, or that is starting to cross the line. It is this is great then nuke the bastard.

    I was on another site and a girl posted some pictures of herself. I complemented her on them and how beautiful she was. She was oh thank you blah blah blah over a month or so she posted several more and I commented on most of them. She always responded positively to everything I said.

    Then one day I made a post like I wish I would be lucky enough to be her boyfriend, knowng that she had a boyfriend as we had discussed him before. Nothing stronger than that, it might not have even been that forward.

    The next thing she said, was something along the lines of I have a boyfriend, I don't need creeps like you talking to me like that.

    Could have said nicely, that crosses the line for me, but no she had to go postal.

    Proper intercourse between people is severly lacking in today's world.
     
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    I like you already. You actually get it! We're all so self-absorbed that we're becoming socially dysfunctional.
     
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    When are these idiots going to figure out that a simple "No Thanks" will suffice?? The theatrics of screamin "I'm straight" just ain't necessary :rolleyes:
     
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    I know right?! Or your situation is "complicated", let people know up front, ya know?
     
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    I can see your point but for one thing, men really are terrified of coming across as "gay" for good reason. When you're hateful towards a man what do you call him? "Fag". There is a lot of social pressure to be "straight" so you can't really blame them for being paranoid.

    Anyone who logs into a big dick site men or women can expect a certain level of perversion and really shouldnt be offended by anything that is said here. I mean this isn't exactly the Washington Post.
     
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    This site has helped me to see that labels aren't all that useful.

     
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    When you are on a web cam doing what is normally considered to be a gay activity, you lose protection of I am straight.
     
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    This really is one of those crazy topics, because all of you are right. And I'm focusing on the last 3 posts to this right now because there's more protection in saying you're straight than stating that one is unsure about their sexuality. At that point, the label is then moot because there's no honesty about it. But I will say that the moment you decide to jerk off on cam, put a dildo or a vibrator in your mouth as part of your seduction and anal preparation, calling yourself straight is a story only you can tell; and everyone viewing you will tell another.

    Thanks for your input!

    Dante'
     
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    Str8 men are by definition not entirely straight.

    Whereas straight men like myself are.

    If str8 meant straight then it wouldn't be str8.

    Straight up
     
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