The story you mentioned Dante somewhat reminds me of myself. Perhaps that person was just as I was and wasn't truly comfortable with realizing who they were. But at the same time, it's also rare for me to get on cam and show anything other than my chest, and I sure as fuck wouldn't be shoving shit up my ass. I don't understand that at all, if you're comfortable enough to shove large vegetables up yer bum, then what else is there other than denial? That's like being plowed in the ass while blowing another guy and still saying you're straight. (Or as Incocknito said str8 lol). Anywho, I'm not sure if it's denial as much as it is something else, if only I knew what that something else was. It's obvious they're not shy or hiding something, just more or less hiding behind a label and hoping people believe them. Lets be honest with ourselves here, labels aren't anywhere near as powerful as our actions, perhaps there's some that believe the opposite to be true, who knows. But again as someone else said, it's hard to label something as complex as human sexuality. You can point to teal or even sea colors and say blue, but this guy is pointing at red and saying blue.