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I live in Palm Springs Calif. ALOT of gays around here. I am considered good looking and even men notice me. Or check me out. My girlfriend always has to point it out if another man is looking at me. To a point it doesn't bother me. If it's a glance. Yet longer then a glance it feels awkward. No one likes being stared at. And being a man and having another man check you out more then a second. To me it is the feeling of being stared at. All men look one another over. We look to so to speak, measure each other up. See what the competition is. Women do this too. Yet for another guy to look over at my cock at the urinal... HEY... this is my space, look at your own. LOL! It is like being Nosey. I have a nice cock...but I don't show it off or tell people ...look, it's this big. It's my business. Allow me some privacy... specialy in the bathroom or gym!
 

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Quick question, related... On faceparty I get abusive messages from guys telling me to fuck off and stop looking at their pics. I'm of the view that if you put pictures of yourself onto the internet, you should expect people to look. I don't send messages to them all saying "Hey, nice cock, wish you were gay." or anything like that, I look, then move on to the next profile. Am I in the wrong here??
 

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This question always seems a little dishonest to me. You can always turn around and face the wall if you don't want anybody to look at your dick. So why wouldn't you? You can also ignore people or tell them to back off. What you can't do is control them. I really could care less if somebody is checking me out.

I spend a lot of time at the gym and shower in the locker room. I don't mind a glance. I even consider myself a bit of an exhibitionist at times. It is fun to see some peoples reaction to a large cock. I probably enjoy messing with the muscle-bound monsters on ego trips more than anyone. But, I have had people cross the line. Recently, I was in the shower (private stall with curtain) and noticed a man outside peeking in the crack between the curtain and the wall. Later after I was out of the shower, he walked by me, stopped and starred for a considerable time. He acted like he was on his way to the toilet. When he returned it was the same thing all over again. I kept my towel around me as a polite way to say "get lost". He went back to his locker for a short time and then returned once I dropped my towel. He stood there staring until I returned the "death look" to him. I can't imagine anyone gay or straight liking such behavior.

Having someone taking a look is one thing but when someone continues to stare it is like they are in your personal space. Stalking is the next step.

I also had one time where a guy was on his cell phone or at least pretended to be. I think that he was actually trying to get a picture of me. This definitely crosses the line. You just have no idea where the picture may wind up or what it will be used for.
 

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I spend a lot of time at the gym and shower in the locker room. I don't mind a glance. I even consider myself a bit of an exhibitionist at times. It is fun to see some peoples reaction to a large cock. I probably enjoy messing with the muscle-bound monsters on ego trips more than anyone. But, I have had people cross the line. Recently, I was in the shower (private stall with curtain) and noticed a man outside peeking in the crack between the curtain and the wall. Later after I was out of the shower, he walked by me, stopped and starred for a considerable time. He acted like he was on his way to the toilet. When he returned it was the same thing all over again. I kept my towel around me as a polite way to say "get lost". He went back to his locker for a short time and then returned once I dropped my towel. He stood there staring until I returned the "death look" to him. I can't imagine anyone gay or straight liking such behavior.

Having someone taking a look is one thing but when someone continues to stare it is like they are in your personal space. Stalking is the next step.

I also had one time where a guy was on his cell phone or at least pretended to be. I think that he was actually trying to get a picture of me. This definitely crosses the line. You just have no idea where the picture may wind up or what it will be used for.

I totally agree with about when a guy just continues to stare. I to am at the gym and locker room and showers at least three times a week. I is kind of funny to see the reactions of other when in veiw of a bigger dick. But, most of the guys at the gym are used to me and they don't pay much attention much any more. And, I would never want to make anyone feel bad about themselves. We talk about the news and what going on in the world and work more than anything else. I'm probably the youngest in the group and most of them never gave me a second look "down there" that I know of anyway... I have had one guy though, ask me if I was trying to make him feel bad, and at the time I had just showered and dried and only had on a jockstrap and was shaving. I think he was just kidding... but ever since then I wrap a towel around myself to shave. Walking around in the locker room in a jock or nothing isn't any big deal and maybe I do like to show what I got a little, but I never thought about cell phone pictures... I'll probably be more aware now.
 

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Quick question, related... On faceparty I get abusive messages from guys telling me to fuck off and stop looking at their pics. I'm of the view that if you put pictures of yourself onto the internet, you should expect people to look. I don't send messages to them all saying "Hey, nice cock, wish you were gay." or anything like that, I look, then move on to the next profile. Am I in the wrong here??
No you're 100% right.I post photos here because there are some women who enjoy looking at them but I know they are easily outnumbered by men.I welcome compliments from whoever wishes to give them!
I don't understand straight men who get abusive because a gay guy (probably on the other side of the planet!) is getting a kick out of a photo they've posted.I just say good luck to them,it's not like they're going to come knocking on your door!
For me anyone can look but only women get to touch. :smile:
 

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Just wondering if it bothers str8 guys when another guy peeks or looks at them when they are taking a piss or at the gym? I'm a hopless crotch watcher and there have been times that I've been 'busted' or caught looking. ...

It doesn't bother me at all. Depending on my mood, my reaction is going to be anywhere from complete indifference to a little turned on.
 

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Usually prefer when they don't.
Nothing worse than a guy trying to peek into the stalls at public washrooms. Funny incident was one guy peeking in, jerking off... when a cop walked in on him.

Usual responses are "holy shit", or "your GF is REALLY lucky", or "I wish mine was that big"
 
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it also doesn't bother me, my first reason is that i post them for the women, but i do get many compliments from men, i like to get compliments as long as no men is touching it!!...
 

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i like it when a straight guy catches me looking.. especially if its somewhere he cant do anything about it.. like on the street.. i then take another look and eyeball him directly and usually smirk.. that way there no guessing.. yep i was lookin'.. i get a kick out of it !!! hehehehe