str8 or not?

[D_Percival Puddleford Pukehorn]

K, i need some advice here. I know this person but not for too long. I can't seem to figure out if he's str8 or not. he is young early 20's and goes a lot to college parties but doesn't seem to nail a lot of pussy. and he is cute so i don't see why his looks would be a problem.
Everytime I see him my gaydar goes completely haywire but he's never admitted to me anything about being str8 or not. Never did he mention about having a girlfriend or not. Don't college guys brag about such things?
I'll admit that I am intrigued by him.
And his fav. tv show is sex and the city! Never have i heard of a hetero dude admit that so openly. One day he even sends me this song where the song boldly suggests that there's a boy one is wondering about but can't seem to figure out. I was like hmmmm.
so based on these little details that I've mentioned here, what do you guys think?

 

[nudeyorker]

gay

 

[D_Chaumbrelayne_Copprehead]

gay

... and begging you to make the first move.

 

[B_josh762]

Sex and the City and he admitted it ? He was telling you he is available. I have had a couple of friends that let the cat out of the bag that way. Yes, they do give out clues. Maybe not just gay but bi and interested in you. Maybe you should invite him over for some beer and a movie ?

 

[D_Percival Puddleford Pukehorn]

yeah and on his facebook profile, he doesn't state that he wants to meet girls. He leaves that part blank. For someone in college, wouldn't that give mixed signals especially to girls at least. I mean wouldn't you want to make it clear that you're into girls if you're in college and looking to get laid non-stop?

 

[Joseph]

perhaps he's just straight and just behaving gay..... damn that would make look extremely straight!

 

[D_Percival Puddleford Pukehorn]

yeah that's where i'm confused. I think that there are str8 boys who behave gay too. hmmmm

 

[deleted15807]

Find his porn stash

 

[ohhhey]

If you like him, just make an effort to spend more time alone with him. It should all work out by itself.

 

[killerb]

K, i need some advice here. I know this person but not for too long. I can't seem to figure out if he's str8 or not. he is young early 20's and goes a lot to college parties but doesn't seem to nail a lot of pussy. and he is cute so i don't see why his looks would be a problem.
Everytime I see him my gaydar goes completely haywire but he's never admitted to me anything about being str8 or not. Never did he mention about having a girlfriend or not. Don't college guys brag about such things?
I'll admit that I am intrigued by him.
And his fav. tv show is sex and the city! Never have i heard of a hetero dude admit that so openly. One day he even sends me this song where the song boldly suggests that there's a boy one is wondering about but can't seem to figure out. I was like hmmmm.
so based on these little details that I've mentioned here, what do you guys think?

maybe you could ASK him? :dunno:

 

[D_Percival Puddleford Pukehorn]

then what if he gets all self concious and just denies it? I've seen that before.

 

[dustin7]

Maybe he wants to concentrate on his studies while in college. There is a cost (time and money) of having girls around you.

 

[killerb]

then what if he gets all self concious and just denies it? I've seen that before.

and what if he freely admits that he is gay?
the point is, you'll never know until you ask...
anything else is speculation, which is worthless...

 

[D_Percival Puddleford Pukehorn]

Maybe he wants to concentrate on his studies while in college. There is a cost (time and money) of having girls around you.

not really cuz he parties hard too but funny thing is that i never hear of stories of banging pussy from left to right.

 

[B_cigarbabe]

Perhaps he's a virgin?
I think asking is the best way to find out.
If he's embarrassed well that is on him not your fault.
C.B.:saevil:

 

[kilteddong]

Does he know you are gay?

There are a bunch of reasons it might seem like he isn't "nailing pussy left and right". Morals, conscience, faith, pride in discretion ...

If he's cool that you're gay and hangs with you then just ask. Seriously... just ask the man. I've been asked more than once and felt a bit flattered. :redface:

 

[D_Percival Puddleford Pukehorn]

yes he knows i'm gay and he has other gay friends but str8 too mostly women. hmmmmm

 

[B_josh762]

Well he could just be shy when it comes to women. Maybe he is curious and he is waiting for you to make a move. Just spend some alone time with him. Ask him if he ever watches porn and if he says yes, offer to let him come over and watch some. Ask him what he is into. Even if he says str8 porn he could still get turned on by watching cock. Then you can make a move. A few beers and he might open (pardon the pun) up for you. He may be interested in you and don't know how to approach the subject. Let him catch you checking out his crotch. Lots of ways to go at it.

 

[D_Percival Puddleford Pukehorn]

yeah, the other day i mailed hijm a postcard thanking him for a favor he did for me and I felt it was kind of gay to do such a thing especially to a "str8" guy and his reply was "thanks, that made me smile." then some other time i asked him to participate in an event that means a lot to me and his reply again was "that made my day and you made me smile". How un-str8 is a comment like that??

 

[LittleDude]

He's gay. Str8 guys always tell you and/or make it obvious.