str8t guys are getting bjs from guys
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If you perform a homosexual act then you are interested in homosexuality. I don't understand what you're trying to say here. If you have one act of homosexuality and realise it's not for you then that is experimentation and you are not gay. If you like the homosexual act and continue to do it, you can use all the excuses you like but the bottom line is, you enjoy homosexual activity therefore you are bisexual or gay. How are people not understanding what gay means?
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Webster's defines 'gay' as a SEXUAL ATTRACTION to members of the same sex. 'Bi' is defined as a sexual attraction to members of both sexes.
In my case, there is ABSOLUTELY ZERO sexual attraction to men. It's entirely about just getting stimulated enough to shoot my load... period.... by something other than doing it myself.
When my buddy and I get together we have no more attraction for one another than a woman would have for her vibrator - but both fulfill the same purpose.
I thought this thread was about a trend for straight guys to be getting or receiving blow jobs from other guys. Labels are ridiculous. And the answer to the thread-starter is YES.
I don't really mind what people do.
But it does seem a bit odd to claim to be 100% straight, and then have sex - of any kind - with men.
It's like the very meaning of some of the words is being ...well ...bent ?
I might try being a war-mongering pacifist. Or a deeply religious atheist.
Just to make sure it's all clear.
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But it does seem a bit odd to claim to be 100% straight, and then have sex - of any kind - with men.
It's like the very meaning of some of the words is being ...well ...bent ?
I might try being a war-mongering pacifist. Or a deeply religious atheist.
Just to make sure it's all clear.
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I would say "more" straight guys are.I think "most" or even a "substantial minority" of straight guys is a gross exaggeration.
I'm willing to accept that some guys like blow jobs so much that they just want a blow job and don't have to be attracted to the gender of the person performing it. So they are straight but will get a blowjob from a guy because it is available. I have friends who are basically sex addicts and while they won't admit to doing this, I can see them doing it because goddamn it they just love blowjobs. However, and I can't ever imagine wanting a blow job from a guy or even caring enough about a blow job to get one from just any girl, and my sex drive is fairly normal for my age (ie: I need to cum once or twice a day to feel normal). So do I think this happens? Yes. Does it happen a lot? Only in certain in crowds/people's fantasies.
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I think your sex drive is hyper active (or you are a bisexual and filled with a sense of shame about it that is bizarre in 2012) because my sex drive and the way I react in social situations couldn't be more different. I can be kin one minute and an asshole the next because the situation that triggers either response is immediate. To be horny, on the other hand, and not just bang my girlfriend or jo but sit down and call some dude so I can go somewhere and meet him for a blow job is a level of time commitment I can't imagine ever putting in.
Of course some people are 100% one way or the other because otherwise we wouldn't have a continuum. Your sexuality may be in flux, but you speak for only your sexuality. It's the same reason that I, who am only attracted to women, don't say, "Oh man, men who fuck men are lying to themselves. Women are where it's at." Are more people bisexual than admit it? Sure. Does culture matter? Obviously. But you don't get to define how other people experience their sexuality. You come across as delusional and arrogant when you do so.
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Also, I don't agree with you comparing a blowjob from a guy as the same as a woman using a vibrator. It's not. I promise you.
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I think being gay or bi is being attracted to the same sex. Because i get head from guys and I'm not attracted to them, I just like the act of getting a bj. I could get head from guys that most gay men wouldn't find attractive just for the fact that i am not attracted to any guy. I know it sounds weird, It's like for gay men, I'm sure they wouldnt eat a pussy like i wouldnt suck a dick. But they def lay back and get their dick sucked too I'm sure and they still wouldnt be considered straight. Then again I need a little incentive for me to get head from a guy
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don't you and a girlfriend ever eat each other's pussies when a guy isn't around? Please say yes.
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Jesus Christ...
I swear, this is one of the main reasons why I hate posting here. If you sit down and start to read through the threads, it turns out to be the exact same shit posted by different people with a spin on the approach of the subject matter.
Fact, we have men in the world who just can't come to terms with their sexuality. Why? Because the truth can be painful, whether it's painful for them as individuals and/or painful for their families. Do I think it's bullshit and that some of them are just being pussies because they won't deal with the consequences of the lives that they've been leading or the bullshit that they've been feeding people for years? Absolutely, but really, who gives a shit? Maybe their wives? girlfriends? children? Doesn't bother me, because I'm not fucking them, so fuck it.
Also, you can notice a trend in "str8" men blowing guys too, but again, who gives a shit? You can call yourself whatever you choose, and hide behind whatever label you choose- if it helps you sleep better at night, you go for it. As long as they're swallowing my cock or I benefit in some way, they can hide behind whatever label they choose.
So, I guess what I'm saying is... I wish all of these fucking threads would stop. "Is it gay if I..." or "str8 guys who enjoy...with other guys, is it acceptable?" or "I'm straight, but I only like to jack with other guys, so it's not gay right?"
Answer: If you have to ask, then it's probably pretty fucking queer. Because let's be real, you already know the answer. And the majority of the people responding and stating "no dude, it's not gay at all" are the same fucks in your position who are seeking the same fucking reassurance you are, and are quite pleased that they're not the only ones in the world who are trying steer clear of any labels such as gay, bi, bi-curious, heteroflexible. So stop asking these dumb fucking questions when the answer that should be provided is not the one that suits the LI(f)ESTYLE you choose.
And this is not a slap to the original poster by any means, just what I felt should be expressed.
I swear, this is one of the main reasons why I hate posting here. If you sit down and start to read through the threads, it turns out to be the exact same shit posted by different people with a spin on the approach of the subject matter.
Fact, we have men in the world who just can't come to terms with their sexuality. Why? Because the truth can be painful, whether it's painful for them as individuals and/or painful for their families. Do I think it's bullshit and that some of them are just being pussies because they won't deal with the consequences of the lives that they've been leading or the bullshit that they've been feeding people for years? Absolutely, but really, who gives a shit? Maybe their wives? girlfriends? children? Doesn't bother me, because I'm not fucking them, so fuck it.
Also, you can notice a trend in "str8" men blowing guys too, but again, who gives a shit? You can call yourself whatever you choose, and hide behind whatever label you choose- if it helps you sleep better at night, you go for it. As long as they're swallowing my cock or I benefit in some way, they can hide behind whatever label they choose.
So, I guess what I'm saying is... I wish all of these fucking threads would stop. "Is it gay if I..." or "str8 guys who enjoy...with other guys, is it acceptable?" or "I'm straight, but I only like to jack with other guys, so it's not gay right?"
Answer: If you have to ask, then it's probably pretty fucking queer. Because let's be real, you already know the answer. And the majority of the people responding and stating "no dude, it's not gay at all" are the same fucks in your position who are seeking the same fucking reassurance you are, and are quite pleased that they're not the only ones in the world who are trying steer clear of any labels such as gay, bi, bi-curious, heteroflexible. So stop asking these dumb fucking questions when the answer that should be provided is not the one that suits the LI(f)ESTYLE you choose.
And this is not a slap to the original poster by any means, just what I felt should be expressed.
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I agree with the above. A BJ is a BJ. In my past I have sucked a straight guy. We were both on the same page that it was just about getting him off. End of. Does not make a straight guy gay or bi if he lets a guy suck his cock, he is just get his needs met.
I am from the UK and well. Be aware you do not speak for the whole of the UK. You are not the only person who lives here. Your humble opinion is not shared by everyone as I know neither is mine. I will be honest your little rant there seems very narrow minded.
Take it easy
beantownxo822
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If your attracted to the same sex your gay or bi. A sexual act isnt something that happens everyday. But when you walk down the street and see a guy and think of getting head from him or doing a sexual act. Then your prob gay or bi
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My opinion is based on my experience and is just as valid as yours. Again i say i have no problems with anyones sexuality, just be honest about it. Dante said it perfectly. But if people wish to live a lie then carry on! Just don't ask me for my opinion or post it on a public forum because you are going to get reponses you won't like.
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