I have a buddy that works at an adult video/theatre store here in town and he and I were discussing this topic. He told me that MOST of his customers are straight guys that come in and either go into the theatres (one shows straight porn, the other gay) or goes into the individual viewing booths (which all have gloryholes). He has caught a number of these guys getting head, and upon striking up a conversation with them, they would all state that they are 100% straight, they do not touch other guys and just comes up there to GET what their WIVES would no longer do. Not sure if these guys actually believe what they are saying but my friend said that it is almost the same exact story by every "straight" guy that he chats with.
str8t guys are getting bjs from guys
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Don't forget, in many states you can also be fired, on the spot, end of story, no recourse.
I understand your views that everyone should be honest with each other (and I am with you on guys cheating), but it just doesn't work out that way in real life.
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Ok and i understand that but why then are there men on this site claiming that they're not bi when they get bjs from guys frequently? This site and others like it are places where people come to be honest about their sex lives. Btw i am absolutely AMAZED that this is still the case in some places in the USA. That kind of thing would be unacceptable over here. I wonder when the world will realise that whether you like men or woman has no bearing on whether you can do your job properly. Sad.
Two reasons. 1) Because sometimes its easier to get a blow job from a guy. 2) It is sad that stereotyping and descrimination take place, and there is still a stigma related to men who have any level of same-sex attraction...many claim that bisexuality "is one station stop away from Gayville". Even in private, its hard for some guys to identify with gay stereotypes that are presented by our culture, so they chose to identify as straight.
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Denial is a terrible thing. I don't think we can be truly happy until we admit what we like and don't like.
It will take me my entire lifetime to learn exactly what I like and don't like. :biggrin1:
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But these guys have tried the male bj on many, many ocassions so they know by now that they like it. We're talking about a specific act here, not our entire range of things we like or don't. So in their cases i still say, denial is a terrible thing.
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In my opinion people are too anxious to classify others and put them in a box.
Individuals should be free to self identify as they please without being judged, condemned or second guessed.
Individuals should be free to self identify as they please without being judged, condemned or second guessed.
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i think everyone is bisexual. some just choose to practice homosexual/heterosexual acts exclusively and others choose to be more open.
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i think everyone is bisexual. some just choose to practice homosexual/heterosexual acts exclusively and others choose to be more open.
Have been of the exact same opinion for many years
just cant be bothered forever stating it matey
folk often come back with the ole standard
'Kinseys report said' .. fr fcks sake, has nothing superseded Knseys report
in all these years of super intelligent? beings ..
Have been of the exact same opinion for many years
just cant be bothered forever stating it matey
folk often come back with the ole standard
'Kinseys report said' .. fr fcks sake, has nothing superseded Knseys report
in all these years of super intelligent? beings ..
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I wonder what the % of "straight" men is who ever accepted a bj from a male (or repeatedly) and how much it has changed from when I was young and wishing I could find a "friend" like this. I was convinced I was totally and exclusively straight til I was about 22, then became what would be most truly accurately termed "bi curious," and think I would have satisfied that curiosity had I found a partner like this. When I tried sexual encounters with gay men, it never felt right. They always were on a totally different wavelength than me. The few times I did luck into having some interaction with other bi curious or straight and just trying it once or twice, it felt much more right for me. We could relate to each other way better. I always had zero interest in anal sex, just wanted to go down on the other guy but the way he thought of it was a big part of what made it work for me or not, feel exciting or boring, feel like a meaningful or at least fun experience versus some mechanical act or two incompatible minds getting nothing but a bad fit in terms of how the physical interaction played out, and usually not getting off at all (no orgasm--for me, at least).
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i dont think just because a straight guy gets sucked by another guy makes him gay. a guy born straight regardless of his sexual activities will die straight.
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and i think everyone's sexuality is their own and making any sweeping statements of this type is pretty retarded
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Straight guys, if you're being serious about it and the meaning of the word, don't receive BJs from guys. Period. Full stop. Or, for that matter, engage in direct sexual activity with men at all.
This is a tired old argument here, but it mostly comes down to:
1. One set of people, probably mostly heterosexuals, who seem to think that any sort of sex activity with someone of the same sex makes someone "gay", which is pretty patently a very binary way of looking at things and as it happens, not a very accurate way of looking at things.
2. Another set of people, probably mostly gay men and very strongly male-leaning bisexuals, who have a particular fantasy, not all that different to many straight guys' lesbian conversion fantasies, of "turning" a straight guy gay for them. Just from being here and elsewhere, there's obviously a sizable market for this niche.
3. More my own view, that there's probably a lot less "straight" people out there, in my understanding of people sticking to exclusive heterosexual relations and sexual desires, than has been thought, but there are at least a number of people of any sex, who are pretty much about 100% on the straight side, and a large number who have varying degrees of sex and sexual desire for both sexes (it occurs to me that transsexuals are a tricky area of gray for any schema), and then probably the last and least numerous group, of those who are exclusively gay as far as sex goes.
Half-formed, 3 a.m. thoughts. I've left out societal pressure on those in groups 2 and 3 above to become group 1: complete heteros. This is obviously a huge influence historically and into the present, and also calls into question the very individualistic view of sexual orientation that I usually see, where sex is down to the individual and their choices and ignores what is below or more correctly underlying, the level of the rational, choice-making individual (genetics, hormones, the very base levels of "nature") and that which is above or overlying and influencing the individual (society from the family, media, institutions, etc. etc.).
Just thoughts. And now it's time for me to get ready for the day.
This is a tired old argument here, but it mostly comes down to:
1. One set of people, probably mostly heterosexuals, who seem to think that any sort of sex activity with someone of the same sex makes someone "gay", which is pretty patently a very binary way of looking at things and as it happens, not a very accurate way of looking at things.
2. Another set of people, probably mostly gay men and very strongly male-leaning bisexuals, who have a particular fantasy, not all that different to many straight guys' lesbian conversion fantasies, of "turning" a straight guy gay for them. Just from being here and elsewhere, there's obviously a sizable market for this niche.
3. More my own view, that there's probably a lot less "straight" people out there, in my understanding of people sticking to exclusive heterosexual relations and sexual desires, than has been thought, but there are at least a number of people of any sex, who are pretty much about 100% on the straight side, and a large number who have varying degrees of sex and sexual desire for both sexes (it occurs to me that transsexuals are a tricky area of gray for any schema), and then probably the last and least numerous group, of those who are exclusively gay as far as sex goes.
Half-formed, 3 a.m. thoughts. I've left out societal pressure on those in groups 2 and 3 above to become group 1: complete heteros. This is obviously a huge influence historically and into the present, and also calls into question the very individualistic view of sexual orientation that I usually see, where sex is down to the individual and their choices and ignores what is below or more correctly underlying, the level of the rational, choice-making individual (genetics, hormones, the very base levels of "nature") and that which is above or overlying and influencing the individual (society from the family, media, institutions, etc. etc.).
Just thoughts. And now it's time for me to get ready for the day.
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