str8t guys are getting bjs from guys

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i noticed this trend, maybe its just because of the internet and people being more free with their sexuality, but more str8t guys are saying they've been sucked off by another guy.

anyone else notice this?
 

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They can't be considered straight if that's the case. The title should say"More bi curious men are following through with their fantasies "
 

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They can't be considered straight if that's the case. The title should say"More bi curious men are following through with their fantasies "

But then the title wouldn't reflect reality...

Whether my opinion is popular or not on this, getting head from another guy once is experimentation, a second time is just making sure your opinion of the first was true and not clouded by the weirdness of a first time, any more than that while calling yourself straight makes you delusional.
 

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Been there, done that... Absolutely nothing wrong with it.

I'm straight but have no problem getting my dick sucked. I'm not bi because I'm not sexually attracted to men. For me, at BJ is a BJ, and it's just a way to get my rocks off.

There is a huge difference between attraction and just wanting a bust a nut. As long as we're both clearly on the same page, why not?
 

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I don't get this either. And to be honest i don't get a whole load of straight guys sitting in a room jerking off either. Maybe it's different in other countries but in the UK if you get a BJ from a guy, you're bi or gay. And no self respecting straight guy is gonna sit around with a bunch of guys watching porn and having a wank. In Britain, if a straight guy wants a BJ, he calls a girl.
 

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I don't get this either. And to be honest i don't get a whole load of straight guys sitting in a room jerking off either. Maybe it's different in other countries but in the UK if you get a BJ from a guy, you're bi or gay. And no self respecting straight guy is gonna sit around with a bunch of guys watching porn and having a wank. In Britain, if a straight guy wants a BJ, he calls a girl.


i have so many straight friends that do group wanks.
 

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i have so many straight friends that do group wanks.

Like i said, maybe it's a cultural thing. But over here it's just not done. I'm not sure if it's because being bi or gay is not even an issue over here, maybe in some places bi or straight guys feel they can't just come out. Anyways, I'm not suggesting people can't wank off or get a BJ from whoever they like, i'm just saying if you are having guys do it, you like guys. Don't be ashamed, just admit it.
 

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Most women, at least in my part of the midwest, think oral is disgusting and flat won't do it.

I've been blown by a guy and returned the favor. We were both in similar situations of not getting any and just needed to nut. When the girlfriends aren't doing it might as well take care of the situation oneself.

You can only jack so much until it gets boring.
 

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Most women, at least in my part of the midwest, think oral is disgusting and flat won't do it.

I've been blown by a guy and returned the favor. We were both in similar situations of not getting any and just needed to nut. When the girlfriends aren't doing it might as well take care of the situation oneself.

You can only jack so much until it gets boring.

I can promise you that if a guy i was seeing said to me "Yeah i was bustin for a BJ so i just got this guy to do it for me" that would be the last thing he said to me! Maybe instead of getting a guy to do it you should find a girlfriend who likes it too. I fail to believe that every woman where you live refuses to give head. Sorry but that seems incredibly far fetched!
 

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Been there, done that... Absolutely nothing wrong with it.

I'm straight but have no problem getting my dick sucked. I'm not bi because I'm not sexually attracted to men. For me, at BJ is a BJ, and it's just a way to get my rocks off.

There is a huge difference between attraction and just wanting a bust a nut. As long as we're both clearly on the same page, why not?

You claim in this post you are straight but your orientation says 20% gay. I don't understand.
 

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Perfectly well said....

I'm a firm believer that no one is 100% ANYTHING. You can't label something as fluid a human personalities are. Think about it.... we've all seen someone who we think is the greatest, kindest person on earth go from saint to asshole in a matter of seconds. I believe the same goes for sex as well.
 

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I can promise you that if a guy i was seeing said to me "Yeah i was bustin for a BJ so i just got this guy to do it for me" that would be the last thing he said to me! Maybe instead of getting a guy to do it you should find a girlfriend who likes it too. I fail to believe that every woman where you live refuses to give head. Sorry but that seems incredibly far fetched!

and why is that? :confused:
 

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and why is that? :confused:

I'm guessing because he's with her, and I'd be the same if there wasn't some already agreed allowances for it.

There is a huge difference between objecting to being with a bisexual man, and objecting to a bisexual man you're with running off and getting head from someone else!
 

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I'm guessing because he's with her, and I'd be the same if there wasn't some already agreed allowances for it.

There is a huge difference between objecting to being with a bisexual man, and objecting to a bisexual man you're with running off and getting head from someone else!

Ugh, you're going to enjoy rubbing my nose in not completely reading through a post thoroughly, aren't you :tongue:

You and lovingit are exactly correct, and may now chastise me in any and all ways you see fit. I swore when I read it, it was a guy posting that, and I didn't see the "a guy I was seeing", and read it in a completely different mode :redface:

I plead exhaustion insanity :frown1:
 

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Ugh, you're going to enjoy rubbing my nose in not completely reading through a post thoroughly, aren't you :tongue:

You and lovingit are exactly correct, and may now chastise me in any and all ways you see fit. I swore when I read it, it was a guy posting that, and I didn't see the "a guy I was seeing", and read it in a completely different mode :redface:

I plead exhaustion insanity :frown1:

I'll let you off, but only because you're punished enough by having to read my bollocks in the mod forum on a daily basis :biggrin1:
 

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I'm guessing because he's with her, and I'd be the same if there wasn't some already agreed allowances for it.

There is a huge difference between objecting to being with a bisexual man, and objecting to a bisexual man you're with running off and getting head from someone else!

Thank you! Like i've said before, be any orientation you like, doesn't concern me in the least, but be honest about it! And thanks Kotch, i have missed you guys too. xx