dc9, you are on target as far as I am concerned. Having discovered how great it was to be with a man, he was 15 as was, we learned by doing and the doing was wonderful. It all seemed so natural and right. Yet, we never thought of ourselves as anything but regular guys. He was gone the summer after our junior year in high school and that summer was to be the summer of my awakening to the joys of a relationship with a dear lady. That sex was also totally satisfying. Thanks to that dear lady I had a very comprehensive introduction to that side of my sexuality, Somehow, I was pleased to know that I could relate to a male as well as a female and I had wonderful partners, male and female, in loving and extended relationships before I finally met the lady I was willing to bet the rest of my life with. I am glad I have had exposure to both sides of my sexuality. I think I know where it is at; and ,deep down, though I am a very faithful husband, I could never declare that I am 100% straight; I am not.