so, random question of the day, I posted and didn't get any thoughts in chat. likely too deep? :-/
Why is it guys who are straight feel threatened by bi or gay guys seeing them on cam or in person? Why is it that I hear from gay guys that you can't be bi?
My experience has been straight guys who get i'm not trying to get into their pants are more receptive to being dominant in a friendship based on being bigger than I. [That's something I've learned i like thanks to a college best friend -- and have been nonsexually dominated by open minded hung guys since] Those that refuse to even chat with a guy totally baffle me. And 3somes i've had where two of us guys are focused on pleasing a woman seem to always be with guys who could care less if there's an accidenal bump of hardons.
Likewise, I've also been accused of being gay and just not wanting to admit it by many gay guys ... to the point of being told if i can't admit it they dont want anything to do with me.
You'd think there would be more acceptance to my stance of "do what makes you feel good, admire and play with all you like" from both sides, yes? Especially on a site that has a pretty broad mixing of guys and gals of all sexual identities.
I can't speak for women due to lack of experience there, but I am curious about your perspective on women/woman interactions like this?
Debate (please no personal attacks) welcome. Educate me as to the thinking, I really want to understand better! Cast your vote in the poll if nothing else!
Why is it guys who are straight feel threatened by bi or gay guys seeing them on cam or in person? Why is it that I hear from gay guys that you can't be bi?
My experience has been straight guys who get i'm not trying to get into their pants are more receptive to being dominant in a friendship based on being bigger than I. [That's something I've learned i like thanks to a college best friend -- and have been nonsexually dominated by open minded hung guys since] Those that refuse to even chat with a guy totally baffle me. And 3somes i've had where two of us guys are focused on pleasing a woman seem to always be with guys who could care less if there's an accidenal bump of hardons.
Likewise, I've also been accused of being gay and just not wanting to admit it by many gay guys ... to the point of being told if i can't admit it they dont want anything to do with me.
You'd think there would be more acceptance to my stance of "do what makes you feel good, admire and play with all you like" from both sides, yes? Especially on a site that has a pretty broad mixing of guys and gals of all sexual identities.
I can't speak for women due to lack of experience there, but I am curious about your perspective on women/woman interactions like this?
Debate (please no personal attacks) welcome. Educate me as to the thinking, I really want to understand better! Cast your vote in the poll if nothing else!
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