Solis24: It's an interesting question although one that I can't reply to because I'm not keen on drawing a precise portrait of what I would like my future to be like. I just find that any amount of expectations just increases the chance of you turning out to be disappointed in the end so I avoid expectations while still setting myself directions in which i wish to evolve. The only goals I have right now are to do the best i can about myself, to eventually have children and to get a job that will satisfy me. C'est tout.
As for the previous part of the thread, I consider myself to be gay, although I believe that the only fixed aspect of these bloody labels is in our minds. "Once you put a label on something, it becomes an 'it', like it's no longer alive...". I kinda like that quote. In my late teens, after i came out and assumed my sexuality,I used to be awfully turned off at the thought of a naked woman or worse even, at the thought of having sex with a woman. In those times, I twice had the opportunity of having sex with a woman (just needed to reach out and grab) and seriously did not feel like it. Now I feel different. Although my feelings for women now are nowhere strong enough for me to go out there and seek out a woman, I am not turned off my the idea at all anymore and could even picture myself trying it out someday, not having the slightest clue where that might lead me. I might be bi someday, I might fall in love with a woman, who knows. One thing's for sure, if ever I want to have kids, it'll make things a heck of a lot easier! lol
And finally, I think that bisexuality rocks. I just think it's more evolved. The kind where you can potentially be attracted to a man or a woman, basically falling for the human being, regardless of what genitals they have. Tear down the fuckin' fence! Build some roads with paths branching off every inch of the way!! lol
