Straight boy, London, very curious.

[Straight_ish]

Hi, I am a 24 year old guy in London. I have a girlfriend so discretion is a must - I am a big fan of anal play (on both of us ) I have never been with another man but would really like to give it a try.

I have had very little success posting on gumtree as most of the men that reply seem to be pretty weird. Also, I am a little apprehensive about just heading down to Soho and seeing what happens as I am not experienced in this scene. So, this seems like a safe way to see what happens...

I am a good looking guy, I'd like another (preferably bigger than me) man to show me what it's like to get fucked, hard. I do like giving it to the girlfriend pretty rough (she likes it too don't worry) and I'd really love to be on the receiving end for once.

So, send me your pics - I'll be happy to send some back. And please, no timewasters, I'm genuine so I need you to be too!

Seeing as this is LPSG I feel i should mention that I'm not HUGE at 7" by 5.5" but I'm not small either. But as I said my interest is really in being topped by a larger guy for the first time, not in fucking someone else.

Thanks for reading! Hopefully speak to someone soon.

 

[Straight_ish]

bump!

 

[BiteSize]

What a nice post. Good luck.

 

[9inchcanadian]

Yeah good luck fella shame i no longer live in london i would have enjoyed breaking you in, although you would hae had to have enjoyed threeways, and that might have been a bit much foryour first time. oh well, have fun. where bouts in London are u?

 

[delon79]

Try gaydar? Or a Chariots, though I've not been -

Chariots

Have a friend that has had good experiences there, but I'm too shy to even dream about going in... though I walk by that one twice a day.

G'luck.

 

[~quicksilver~]

Yeah, Gaydar is probably your best bet... You can do a search for exactly the kind of guy that would be your idea. Would help you out myself but tend to go for older guys.... How hairy are you? lol :biggrin1:

 

[Straight_ish]

do you mean chariots on commercial st? yeah that place looks kind of intimidating. cheers for the cool posts guys. i will heed your advice...


oh and 9inchcanadian... the thought of eric cartman 'breaking me in' is hilarious, thx for the image.

 

[darkhorse72]

sauna's arent that scary mind you i always find myself in charriots after a few drinks, all you need is a bit of dutch mate you will be fine. you never know you might find someone here i'm sure you wont have any trouble!
Dx

 

[9inchcanadian]

sauna's arent that scary mind you i always find myself in charriots after a few drinks, all you need is a bit of dutch mate you will be fine. you never know you might find someone here i'm sure you wont have any trouble!
Dx

tottaly agree. go to the weatherspoons at the top of Liverpool st station, Hamilton Hall, and have a few large ones. Chariots is a great place as long as you know what ur lookin for and know how to get it, its worth going just to sus the place out before going straight in and trying to get a shag.
I also agree about gaydar although theres alot of assholes like many other dating sites. especialy if you want to remain in the closet. Dont you have any gay friends that you can trust?

 

[darkhorse72]

where in london are you? there are loads of saunas around town.
think this may be your best option totaly anonamous.
Dx

 

[Straight_ish]

i do have gay friends i feel i can trust, but not in london unfortunately...

so what's the deal with chariots? what actually happens inside? sorry for the n00bish question, kind of interested in how it works now... lol!

 

[darkhorse72]

hmm charriots weel basicly its all about the sex! just cruising around in your towel in a building full of horny (mailny)hot guys more often than not i'll go to the sauna at waterloo its cool there are private rooms a good cruising area pool sauna steam room showers basicly its horny as hell, just likei'm getting thinking about it
there is no pressure to have sex with anyone its a kind of unwritten code no one gets pissed off if you dont find them horny.
all in all a good wholesome night out haha
D

 

[zhivago]

hey buddy, very masculine lad here in london..
am up to do it with u..
wanna do it?

 

[jamie8fatinches]

where in london are you? there are loads of saunas around town.
think this may be your best option totaly anonamous.
Dx

which ones are good for a first time?

 

[huw ginnit]

I think if it is your first time then it might be less harrowing an experience if you fiind the guy through a service like gaydar...the anonymous aspect, tho possibly horny would freak me, I couldn't relax with a guy I knew to be bigger than I and I was unfamiliar with....too intimidating, too tense making, too bad a first go, get my drift?

Your first time if you want it to be a success needs a bit of planning, not a drunken fumble, I can't imagine anyone would get off on an one off encounter- that's just going to get "messy"

Hope your GF's cool with you going behind her back (excuse the pun).... or at least your prepared for the fall-out when she finds out!

 

[omk]

Hi, just wanted to stay that I'm planning on a sauna outing in London soon, so if you want to meet up first and have someone to go with to make your first time less intimidating, feel free to PM me and we'll chat - no strings, no expectations. It'll be fun.

 

[hoodedbilad]

Personally I would recommend the Pleasuredome in Waterloo (google it for details). I've never found this place intimidating and as one of the previous posters said, there is no pressure to go with anyone you don't fancy. A simple shake of the head is enough to tells guys that you're not interested. I have no experience of fucking as I don't do anal, but from a suck/wank point of view, I've never left the place anything other than satisfied. Good luck!

 

[ChicagoWuff]

Not that I'm in ANY way opposed to experimentation... But are you SURE, what you want is to have sex with another man? If you're just looking to get ridden hard and put away wet... Many girls are MORE than happy to don a strap-on!

Rather than go outside your relationship and risk any kind of sexually transmitted, anything... Why not give that a shot first?

 

[Mr. Snakey]

Wecome London....................:smile:

 

[9inchcanadian]

any update on this?