Straight but curious about bj with guy

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Mate, I cane to the same position from the other side. I'd never even seen pussy till I was 21. Did a MMF 3 way with a couple to get him. He wanted me in her first so I thought what the heck??
It was a revelation mate...I fuckin loved it! I'm a gay man but I love pussy !!
My emotional connection is MM but to have kissed the MF phsicak for so long was a mistake. In short, don't deny yourself the chance...

This is totally what I want to try (traditionally gay while growing up), but I don't know how to find a couple to have sex with...I would imagine I'd enjoy a nice vagina. SO far I've had sex with a transman and played with his vagina. That was fun (and different, no boobs).
 

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I'm with you on that. Married since 94, and still would love to give head and swallow. Wow, I said it. Funny thing is, when I was younger, before I got married, the opportunity was there numerous times, and I turned them down.

Don't know what I was thinking?:confused:

Very similar scenario here...
Can't mess up a great marriage and had (and still have) many offers...
 

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I've only been with a girl, and that is not likely to change any time soon, but I think it's only natural to wonder what it would be like... I'm not bicurious, it's more of a "what if" thing for me. So I think I get where the OP is coming from, although he sounds a bit more willing to act on it than I am.

At the same time my brain can't comprehend why anyone with a dick wouldn't like pussy haha. It feels too good to not want to stick it in there, even if you're not attracted to the woman that it's attached to. Same reason many dudes will have sex with girls they're not attracted to if there's nothing else available (not me).
 

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specifically with oral, i think a lot of straight guys minds would be blown if they got their cock sucked by a guy...it's very differen when the person goig down on you has a dick an knows what feels good...it's also an intense male bonding thing in a weird way
 

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I'm the same way- I've had bj's from dudes and they are incredible- a million times better than the sucky (pun intended) ones that I get from my gf. I've wondered what it would be like to suck a dudes dick. I can see how others say that it is an intense form of male bonding, because it is- you are making them feel the best that they can- one of the most pleasurable sensations that they can experience. I don't think I would want to get into the kissing/romantic part of it and have no desire to do anal at all, but there's something about sucking a dick that intrigues me.

Maybe someday I'll give it a try. Not sure I want to try the sperm part though...
 

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There are some cultures where the younger guys of the clan suck off the older guys and its no big deal like it is in the "evolved" societies
 

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I've only been with a girl, and that is not likely to change any time soon, but I think it's only natural to wonder what it would be like... I'm not bicurious, it's more of a "what if" thing for me. So I think I get where the OP is coming from, although he sounds a bit more willing to act on it than I am.

At the same time my brain can't comprehend why anyone with a dick wouldn't like pussy haha. It feels too good to not want to stick it in there, even if you're not attracted to the woman that it's attached to. Same reason many dudes will have sex with girls they're not attracted to if there's nothing else available (not me).

ha, see, that is why i listed myself as 10% straight. enough of you guys say that, and it makes me curious not attracted to women really thugh
 

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I've had some experience and don't recommend experimenting with a friend beyond your early teens. Things can get a little weird and nobody really needs the extra baggage. It's a big world out there.
 

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The cock is just naturally arousing. You see a dick, you think sex.

I'm the same way, I've often wondered what it would be like to have a dick in my mouth. It's not a sexuality thing or an emotional thing, it's....a cock thing!:tongue:
 

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First, it always bugs me that it is automatically assumed that
ALL gays (Bi in my case) like anal sex.
Of all the gays or Bis I have known, very few, if any, were into
anal sex.

I appreciate a good looking ass, be it on a woman or a man...but
that is as far as it goes. But I have no problems with others
enjoying anal sex...it's just not for me.

I agree with all who have said that a man gives the best head. Yes, I have enjoyed receiving head from women, but none have been as good as male head. Btw...all of the deepthroating has
been from men....never had a satisfactory deepthroat from a woman (for me..strong sucking, teeth, and hearing them gag is a turn-off).

I also agree that you have to have some person-to-person connection or...as it was mentioned...you might as well use a dildo....:yup:

Go for it...but practice safe sex (it is a shame but necessary these days)...and you might find it a pleasant experience.

Keep us posted on how it turned out...
 
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I love frottage and bj's. I can't imagine anyone having a problem dropping their pants and showing their cock. It almost always an immediate big erection for me and cum is not far behind.
 

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i would never turn down a pussy. EVER

but i do love dicks too. overall, sex with guys is hotter, but if guys had a pussy instead of an ass, id be gay no looking back (dick and pussy together haha). love the male body more, love pussy more than ass though. dick can make up for lacking a pussy though
 

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Im Bi and enjoy sex with both for the very reason of what each sex has. I think there is nothing hotter than a beautifully curvy woman with a really wet pussy. Having been in relationships with both (girls and guys), its hard being fully gay bc ass in general does not really turn me on. I do like the look of them, but with guys, I have NO desire to fuck them (anally). I dont really desire women in that way either, esp bc pussy is perfect for that. That being said, there is nothing better to me than oral sex! Nothing. Esp if its done very slowly and sensually. And hands down, guys do it WAY better, but Ive had some hot chicks too. But there is something to the male bonding aspect, I agree. Its weird, yet intriguing to me particularly when the guy is bi or "straight". I am more comfortable then bc most of the time I dont have to worry about the anal thing coming up. But Ive been told by gay guys that its such a waste to have such a big dick and not want to fuck a hot ass with it. Eh....maybe someday.
 

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I am in the boat that pussy is as good as it gets, but then again I've only had half-assed blow jobs by women. I think i'd be way better at it and would like to give and receive at some point with a guy. My biggest dilemma is finding that guy
 

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I am in the boat that pussy is as good as it gets, but then again I've only had half-assed blow jobs by women. I think i'd be way better at it and would like to give and receive at some point with a guy. My biggest dilemma is finding that guy

It sucks you live so far away--I'd totally lend a hand, I mean if we hit it off anyway
 

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If a man desires sexual servicing from a fellow man, he is not straight for this a sexual attraction to one's own gender. The denial runs deep, but you must not blame them.
 

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If a man desires sexual servicing from a fellow man, he is not straight for this a sexual attraction to one's own gender. The denial runs deep, but you must not blame them.

Sexual activity does not automatically equate sexual attraction. They are two separate events which have partial overlap.
I will agree, a lot of men are repressing themselves or in denial. However, some men are simply comfortable enough with their sexual orientation to realize sex by itself is meaningless at times...and that's okay.