Straight but curious like me

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Hey guys I would love to talk to some guys that think the same way as I do. As you see I'm 80% straight and 30% gay. I've done stuff with guys like giving head a couple times but like receiving head better. (it's a in control/power thing) I have fucked a guy once (kinda) but have never been fucked and don't want to. I think just the sexual part is what I attracted to. I don't like the relationship aspect of two guys. I mostly prefer woman and always will. I love it but girls do come mostly easier and it's easier to find a straight girl but it's hard to find a curious guy of my standards so when I do it's just the ultimate turn on. Another thing is I don't like flamboyant guys in any way, because if I wanted that I'd have sex with a girl.. if I'm going to "fondle" with a guy I want it to be a guy with a hot muscular body, good looking dick (don't care for size cause look at me..) and nice face, as long as there not complete assholes then I find my self sexually attracted to them. (straight jocks are becoming a real problem lately... Lol) so yea that's me , I think.. Let me know what you guys think! Would love to hear from everyone but especially the straight(ish) men like me and the closer to 18yrs would be best :) thanks everyone !!

-dubstep
they really hammer you around here for bad math. lol

why not have them both in the same package? ;-)
 

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I am similar in the 80/20% category. I have no emotional interest in guys and physically I am attracted to very few. I fooled around with 3 guys when I was growing up.. meaning mutual jerking off and blow jobs (giving and receiving) which I really enjoyed. I haven't been with a guy since I was 19 (which is >10 yrs ago). However I look at this site and gay porn and would love to suck some of the cocks I see. I also still fantasize about my experiences when I was younger. However in reality I look at people in daily life and I am just not attracted to any of the men around me (friends and strangers). Basically I am straight with an oral fixation for really great cocks! I know everyone likes to label guys like me as bi, but I really think there is a difference between me and guys who feel more emotionally and sexually towards guys and girls. To be honest I don't agree with the whole label thing, as the three categories of gay/bi/straight do not cover the complexity of the scale. I prefer the percentages but even that doesn't account for the difference between physical and emotional attraction (which also not everyone agrees are different but I think is the case).

From chatting to guys on LPSG I have come across many who are similar to me (and the OP) in being "basically straight" but keen on some sexual interaction with a cock.

By the way, to the OP.. you have one amazing torso dude!
 

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I am similar in the 80/20% category. I have no emotional interest in guys and physically I am attracted to very few. I fooled around with 3 guys when I was growing up.. meaning mutual jerking off and blow jobs (giving and receiving) which I really enjoyed. I haven't been with a guy since I was 19 (which is >10 yrs ago). However I look at this site and gay porn and would love to suck some of the cocks I see. I also still fantasize about my experiences when I was younger. However in reality I look at people in daily life and I am just not attracted to any of the men around me (friends and strangers). Basically I am straight with an oral fixation for really great cocks! I know everyone likes to label guys like me as bi, but I really think there is a difference between me and guys who feel more emotionally and sexually towards guys and girls. To be honest I don't agree with the whole label thing, as the three categories of gay/bi/straight do not cover the complexity of the scale. I prefer the percentages but even that doesn't account for the difference between physical and emotional attraction (which also not everyone agrees are different but I think is the case).

From chatting to guys on LPSG I have come across many who are similar to me (and the OP) in being "basically straight" but keen on some sexual interaction with a cock.

By the way, to the OP.. you have one amazing torso dude!

That may as well have been my posting. I'm exactly like you, Jules.

Sexuality is a complex continuum.
 

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Hmm, I feel myself in kind of the same situation. I've never been attracted to a man physically, I but do find cocks a huge turn on.
That's my situation exactly. I love women and I love cocks. I'm not attracted to men, but women with cocks are my thing. I've sucked some ladyboy cocks. And I love that !!
I have no emotional interest in guys and physically I am attracted to very few. . . . However I look at this site and gay porn and would love to suck some of the cocks I see. . . . Basically I am straight with an oral fixation for really great cocks! . . . From chatting to guys on LPSG I have come across many who are similar to me (and the OP) in being "basically straight" but keen on some sexual interaction with a cock.
Girls rule. Big dicks are cool too. Relationship with a guy/kissing/hugging a guy - ewww.

Sucking a big one...I could see that being fun.
Imported from another thread:
I get it: love the penis, reject its life support system.
Could not have said it better. Classic.

 

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kissing/hugging a guy - ewww.

I think straight men get a lot more psychologically from hugging other men and being hugged by other men than they usually will admit.

And if you're a man and not at least kissing/hugging with your father, son, brother, and at least occasionally (such as special occasions) hugging your best friend, well that is :frown1:
 

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Playing with a dick is different than kissing, don't you think?

Interacting sexually is different than interacting romantically.


In my experience there's no difference between them. With my psychological make-up, I can't "play with a dick" and not have some attraction and some interest in the guy I'm with. Otherwise why be with him? A human male isn't a detached penis. While I may not feel a depth of romance with guys I've been intimate with, I have felt some emotional connection with them. There are other ways to interact romantically without kissing someone. For instance "how" you touch another guy's dick can say a lot about your feelings for him. If you want to give him a deeper level of pleasure, then that says something about your interest in him. I think it's pretty hard to separate sexuality and some emotional reaction (romance) in the real world, unless you're having sex with a robot.
 

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Hung John, I see your position on this (and I think I have read you say this before on other posts.) I admire that you don't seperate the two, but the reality for me is different. I have slept with a couple of strippers before, and several one night stands with girls and some threesomes with strangers, where I only feel a raw sexual attraction to the person, nothing more. This is also generally what I feel for guys. It is not to say that I couldn't feel more for guys (and one of the good friends I blew when I was at school I did have some feelings for).. but if I was in a MMF threesome and I was attracted to the guys cock, I would love to suck it even if I don't know the guy or will never see him again. It may be shallow of me but that's the way it is!
 

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Hung John, I see your position on this (and I think I have read you say this before on other posts.) I admire that you don't seperate the two, but the reality for me is different. I have slept with a couple of strippers before, and several one night stands with girls and some threesomes with strangers, where I only feel a raw sexual attraction to the person, nothing more. This is also generally what I feel for guys. It is not to say that I couldn't feel more for guys (and one of the good friends I blew when I was at school I did have some feelings for).. but if I was in a MMF threesome and I was attracted to the guys cock, I would love to suck it even if I don't know the guy or will never see him again. It may be shallow of me but that's the way it is!

Jules - I feel similarly. It's strange, because I can't even get it hard for a girl unless I love her. Even just feeling very in-love with her will get me hard. But when it comes to dicks, I'll end up hard just seeing a random one.
 

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I was once all "ewww" to male lips. That was, until I got fucked real good and I just wanted to drag him down and show him what a real kiss is like. Then I was able to bring the sexiness of my straight kissability into my gay life.
 

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Kissing another guy while fucking is so hot!

I was once all "ewww" to male lips. That was, until I got fucked real good and I just wanted to drag him down and show him what a real kiss is like. Then I was able to bring the sexiness of my straight kissability into my gay life.
 

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Is the someone who can explain to me how it is possible to love cocks and not love the guy who owns the cock?

My own experience tells me that it is healthier when the interest and love for the guy comes before any contact with the guy's cock.

Of course, as my own life bears out. you will have fewere cocks to get close to if you insist on being up close and personal in friendship and love with a guy before you get intimate with his cock.

One benefit of "loving the guy before sucking his cock" is that the love that prompts the sucking endures long past the times of sucking .

If this all strikes you as odd, just lay it to the wisdom of old age.
 

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Is the someone who can explain to me how it is possible to love cocks and not love the guy who owns the cock?

My own experience tells me that it is healthier when the interest and love for the guy comes before any contact with the guy's cock.

Of course, as my own life bears out. you will have fewere cocks to get close to if you insist on being up close and personal in friendship and love with a guy before you get intimate with his cock.

One benefit of "loving the guy before sucking his cock" is that the love that prompts the sucking endures long past the times of sucking .

If this all strikes you as odd, just lay it to the wisdom of old age.
Never equate love with sex. Seriously, you will get really fucked up if you do.