Straight but curious like me

[Rob_81]

I think just the sexual part is what I attracted to. I don't like the relationship aspect of two guys.
-dubstep

i feel exactly like that,

I feel the same way too, not to say I don't approve of a MM relationship, I'm all for equal rights. I just don't think I could be with a guy the way like a woman, but maybe. You never know until you try it.

 

[vlls]

i feel very similarly although ive never given head!

 

[D_Cleasbie Clamskewer]

I'm 18 myself and feel very similar. I love the idea of sharing a sexual experience with a buddy but as an aspect of friendship or just a casual exchange. That being said I've had experiences jacking off to porn with a male friend and swapped bj's(I couldn't actually bring myself to put his cock in my mouth for more than a few seconds but enjoyed recieving and blew several loads in his.) But ultimately I could never be in a relationship with a guy, I love women too much and my main passion revolves around them.

Generally though I think male sexuality nowadays is way too uptight, I don't see any reason why it should be so taboo for a straight guy to touch another man's cock. (With the exception of hiv and stuff) Men are sexual beings, sharing hornyness with another male is a bonding experience.

 

[B_patrickmcc]

"Hey guys I would love to talk to some guys that think the same way as I do. As you see I'm 80% straight and 30% gay. I've done stuff with guys like giving head a couple times but like receiving head better. (it's a in control/power thing) I have fucked a guy once (kinda) but have never been fucked and don't want to. I think just the sexual part is what I attracted to. I don't like the relationship aspect of two guys. I mostly prefer woman and always will. I love it but girls do come mostly easier and it's easier to find a straight girl but it's hard to find a curious guy of my standards so when I do it's just the ultimate turn on. Another thing is I don't like flamboyant guys in any way, because if I wanted that I'd have sex with a girl.. if I'm going to "fondle" with a guy I want it to be a guy with a hot muscular body, good looking dick (don't care for size cause look at me..) and nice face, as long as there not complete assholes then I find my self sexually attracted to them. (straight jocks are becoming a real problem lately... Lol) so yea that's me , I think.. Let me know what you guys think! Would love to hear from everyone but especially the straight(ish) men like me and the closer to 18yrs would be best thanks everyone !!"



Im very similar to you, but I would describe myself as 50/50. If Im going to have sex with a guy, its for hot sex, not for a relationship. I also dont care for flamboyance, but have enjoyed guys that are twinkish in appearance, as long as they werent overtly flamboyant. I have no problem with having a friendship with guys I have sex with, in fact prefer it to anonymous sex, but relationships for me is only with women. I also am not all that caught up in size, and a pretty dick is much more exciting to me than a big ugly one. In fact your pics are pretty much what I like in a guy, nice body, and a nice dick. While i also prefer getting head to giving it, I disagree about the power control thing. I think when a guys nuts are resting on your cheeks, you are the one in control. I think the control thing comes with topping versus bottoming. BTW, how do you "kinda fuck a guy"?

 

[NumberTwentySix]

This seems like a common theme on lpsg. Why is it that there are so many guys who think men are ok for fucking but reject the idea of a relationship? Is it just overt hedonism or does it occupy a different place on the sexual spectrum? I've never seriously considered doing anything sexual with another man, but every once in a while I do wonder what all the fuss is about.

 

[Maxime_]

This seems like a common theme on lpsg. Why is it that there are so many guys who think men are ok for fucking but reject the idea of a relationship? Is it just overt hedonism or does it occupy a different place on the sexual spectrum? I've never seriously considered doing anything sexual with another man, but every once in a while I do wonder what all the fuss is about.

You know,a relationship with a guy is strictly connected to accepting one's sexuality up to the point of avoiding other partners,being ok with the fact that one is bisexual, declaring it aloud and being able to live the feeling that will come out of it. Such people are just scared to see what happens. They're scared to get too involved in something deep and to accept the possibility that one day,they could feel better with a man than with a woman. When the bed is cold,the feeling and all the questions about their sexuality,are over. I am fortunately not afraid to feel anything for anyone. Not everyone is that lucky.

 

[4work]

First off 80% and 30% is 110%. Is that possible? ... Other than that I can sort of relate to that. I've always been attracted only to women,and would never want a true sexual or loving relationship with a guy, but for some reason I get really turned on watching a young guy with a big dick get hard.

 

[bigtool4u]

Im curious but it would HAVE to be bigger than mine,

 

[D_Peverell Piledriver]

Try the term "Hetroflexible".

 

[sandiasky9]

yippee! i like that sooooo much "heteroflexible"...

i have only had relationships with woman... yet so many of my fantasies will have a mmf theme and the guy kind of pushes the "we are all together" aspect of it and i eagerly accept... i have yet to have a sexual encounter with a guy most simply due to fact that i have yet to go out of way to do so and pretty much wish it would just happen

the odd twist to me is that with woman i am very much "in charge", a very aggressive and giving lover and in my thoughts and fantasies want to meet a guy that "turns me into the chick" ha ha on me i presume

 

[deleted5501621]

Playing with a dick is different than kissing, don't you think?

Interacting sexually is different than interacting romantically.

I know girls who won't kiss girls....got to be the same with guys also.....I wouldn't kiss a guy but a girl?....hell yeah!.... as for sucking a cock....have seen plenty ....the rest would remain to be seen and I have chatted with those who do suck and the way they put it....an orgasm is just that...man to man....without feelings a relief!

 

[JonSomebody]

I have a lot of straight friends ....more so than gay male friends..but what I do is when I know that the friendship is getting close...I like to be upfront with them and let them first hand that I am gay and if they have a problem with it..then we can go our separate ways...however, no one has denied my friendship because they got to know me as an individual prior to me making it known to them that I am gay and they respect me even more for being honest and upfront.

One guy in particular would question me all the time about my sexuality especially when it was just me and him alone. One evening ...he asked me did I find him attractive and if so..why I never made a pass at him and did I ever checked him out???...Unfortunately...he was not the only straight friend that I have that had asked me those questions...I never make a pass at any straight friends because I am showing them respect and most of them have girlfriends or wives and I like them all as well. When I told this guy that although I do find him as well as many of my straight friends attractive...I do not make passes at any of them due to me respecting them.

What I began to notice is that this guy hung around me a lot and would cancel a lot of his dates just to spend time with me. Finally..while smoking a blunt one night...he confessed that he was curious and wanted to know if I would give him a blowjob if I consented to it..I told him that I would do it but he had to promise me that it would not change the dynamics of our friendship and he would not start acting funny or strange around me. He agreed...He got totally naked and I preceded to give him the best blowjob he ever had...(his words..not mine!!!).

I knew he was a ladies man and I did not expect or anticipate anything happening between us in that manner again...However...I was totally wrong..we started meeting up at least three times a week and many times he would spend the night. Things went from blowjobs to kissing and jerking me off to dry humping to full on sex...and every time we got together was his initiation...not mine.

One day...he asked to come by later that night and told me that he was beginning to feel uncomfortable and wanted to start getting back to dating women like he used to. I respected his feelings and had no problem with his decision..although..deep down ...I was a little disappointed because I had groomed him to perform sexually to my liking and developed a connection with him. However, I had to put myself in check and understand that this was just something of an experiment and nothing more.

Two days later after his decision...one night while in bed sleeping...my doorbell was ringing like crazy...I jumped out of bed and went to the door and there he was standing there. I opened the door and asked him if he was okay...he did not answer...he just grabbed me and started kissing me right there ...we made our to the bedroom and started having sex. Things were hot and heavy between us once again for a little over two months...then all of a sudden...he got back into that uncomfortable zone and wanted to venture out with women again. This time...I broke it off completely and he got upset because I started dating other guys and moving on with my life. He moved away and I never saw or heard from him again.

 

[needtonut]

I have a lot of straight friends ....more so than gay male friends..but what I do is when I know that the friendship is getting close...I like to be upfront with them and let them first hand that I am gay and if they have a problem with it..then we can go our separate ways...however, no one has denied my friendship because they got to know me as an individual prior to me making it known to them that I am gay and they respect me even more for being honest and upfront.

One guy in particular would question me all the time about my sexuality especially when it was just me and him alone. One evening ...he asked me did I find him attractive and if so..why I never made a pass at him and did I ever checked him out???...Unfortunately...he was not the only straight friend that I have that had asked me those questions...I never make a pass at any straight friends because I am showing them respect and most of them have girlfriends or wives and I like them all as well. When I told this guy that although I do find him as well as many of my straight friends attractive...I do not make passes at any of them due to me respecting them.

What I began to notice is that this guy hung around me a lot and would cancel a lot of his dates just to spend time with me. Finally..while smoking a blunt one night...he confessed that he was curious and wanted to know if I would give him a blowjob if I consented to it..I told him that I would do it but he had to promise me that it would not change the dynamics of our friendship and he would not start acting funny or strange around me. He agreed...He got totally naked and I preceded to give him the best blowjob he ever had...(his words..not mine!!!).

I knew he was a ladies man and I did not expect or anticipate anything happening between us in that manner again...However...I was totally wrong..we started meeting up at least three times a week and many times he would spend the night. Things went from blowjobs to kissing and jerking me off to dry humping to full on sex...and every time we got together was his initiation...not mine.

One day...he asked to come by later that night and told me that he was beginning to feel uncomfortable and wanted to start getting back to dating women like he used to. I respected his feelings and had no problem with his decision..although..deep down ...I was a little disappointed because I had groomed him to perform sexually to my liking and developed a connection with him. However, I had to put myself in check and understand that this was just something of an experiment and nothing more.

Two days later after his decision...one night while in bed sleeping...my doorbell was ringing like crazy...I jumped out of bed and went to the door and there he was standing there. I opened the door and asked him if he was okay...he did not answer...he just grabbed me and started kissing me right there ...we made our to the bedroom and started having sex. Things were hot and heavy between us once again for a little over two months...then all of a sudden...he got back into that uncomfortable zone and wanted to venture out with women again. This time...I broke it off completely and he got upset because I started dating other guys and moving on with my life. He moved away and I never saw or heard from him again.

Very sad story but it potentially has a great plot for a movie! Dealing with sexuality can be a long and painful process and the worst part, and sometimes unavoidable, is hurting others during the process. The best part is the level of self respect you showed by breaking it off completely.

 

[cedarizzo]

I have a lot of straight friends ....more so than gay male friends..but what I do is when I know that the friendship is getting close...I like to be upfront with them and let them first hand that I am gay and if they have a problem with it..then we can go our separate ways...however, no one has denied my friendship because they got to know me as an individual prior to me making it known to them that I am gay and they respect me even more for being honest and upfront.

One guy in particular would question me all the time about my sexuality especially when it was just me and him alone. One evening ...he asked me did I find him attractive and if so..why I never made a pass at him and did I ever checked him out???...Unfortunately...he was not the only straight friend that I have that had asked me those questions...I never make a pass at any straight friends because I am showing them respect and most of them have girlfriends or wives and I like them all as well. When I told this guy that although I do find him as well as many of my straight friends attractive...I do not make passes at any of them due to me respecting them.

What I began to notice is that this guy hung around me a lot and would cancel a lot of his dates just to spend time with me. Finally..while smoking a blunt one night...he confessed that he was curious and wanted to know if I would give him a blowjob if I consented to it..I told him that I would do it but he had to promise me that it would not change the dynamics of our friendship and he would not start acting funny or strange around me. He agreed...He got totally naked and I preceded to give him the best blowjob he ever had...(his words..not mine!!!).

I knew he was a ladies man and I did not expect or anticipate anything happening between us in that manner again...However...I was totally wrong..we started meeting up at least three times a week and many times he would spend the night. Things went from blowjobs to kissing and jerking me off to dry humping to full on sex...and every time we got together was his initiation...not mine.

One day...he asked to come by later that night and told me that he was beginning to feel uncomfortable and wanted to start getting back to dating women like he used to. I respected his feelings and had no problem with his decision..although..deep down ...I was a little disappointed because I had groomed him to perform sexually to my liking and developed a connection with him. However, I had to put myself in check and understand that this was just something of an experiment and nothing more.

Two days later after his decision...one night while in bed sleeping...my doorbell was ringing like crazy...I jumped out of bed and went to the door and there he was standing there. I opened the door and asked him if he was okay...he did not answer...he just grabbed me and started kissing me right there ...we made our to the bedroom and started having sex. Things were hot and heavy between us once again for a little over two months...then all of a sudden...he got back into that uncomfortable zone and wanted to venture out with women again. This time...I broke it off completely and he got upset because I started dating other guys and moving on with my life. He moved away and I never saw or heard from him again.

Been there before. Once they realize how much they enjoy it and they don't have a problem with it, they want more and more. They are okay with getting off, having sex with a guy as long as it is all behind bedroom doors. But when they realize it won't work in their "Straight" life, they get super confused and then they go back to the women.

 

[deleted875903]

I have a lot of straight friends ....more so than gay male friends..but what I do is when I know that the friendship is getting close...I like to be upfront with them and let them first hand that I am gay and if they have a problem with it..then we can go our separate ways...however, no one has denied my friendship because they got to know me as an individual prior to me making it known to them that I am gay and they respect me even more for being honest and upfront.

One guy in particular would question me all the time about my sexuality especially when it was just me and him alone. One evening ...he asked me did I find him attractive and if so..why I never made a pass at him and did I ever checked him out???...Unfortunately...he was not the only straight friend that I have that had asked me those questions...I never make a pass at any straight friends because I am showing them respect and most of them have girlfriends or wives and I like them all as well. When I told this guy that although I do find him as well as many of my straight friends attractive...I do not make passes at any of them due to me respecting them.

What I began to notice is that this guy hung around me a lot and would cancel a lot of his dates just to spend time with me. Finally..while smoking a blunt one night...he confessed that he was curious and wanted to know if I would give him a blowjob if I consented to it..I told him that I would do it but he had to promise me that it would not change the dynamics of our friendship and he would not start acting funny or strange around me. He agreed...He got totally naked and I preceded to give him the best blowjob he ever had...(his words..not mine!!!).

I knew he was a ladies man and I did not expect or anticipate anything happening between us in that manner again...However...I was totally wrong..we started meeting up at least three times a week and many times he would spend the night. Things went from blowjobs to kissing and jerking me off to dry humping to full on sex...and every time we got together was his initiation...not mine.

One day...he asked to come by later that night and told me that he was beginning to feel uncomfortable and wanted to start getting back to dating women like he used to. I respected his feelings and had no problem with his decision..although..deep down ...I was a little disappointed because I had groomed him to perform sexually to my liking and developed a connection with him. However, I had to put myself in check and understand that this was just something of an experiment and nothing more.

Two days later after his decision...one night while in bed sleeping...my doorbell was ringing like crazy...I jumped out of bed and went to the door and there he was standing there. I opened the door and asked him if he was okay...he did not answer...he just grabbed me and started kissing me right there ...we made our to the bedroom and started having sex. Things were hot and heavy between us once again for a little over two months...then all of a sudden...he got back into that uncomfortable zone and wanted to venture out with women again. This time...I broke it off completely and he got upset because I started dating other guys and moving on with my life. He moved away and I never saw or heard from him again.

I’ve read your post twice and each time I’ve come to the same conclusion and that is he had fallen in love with you. But unlike you he was not mature enough emotionally to deal with it.

I admire and respect the fact that you were always open and honest with all your friends.

 

[JonSomebody]

I’ve read your post twice and each time I’ve come to the same conclusion and that is he had fallen in love with you. But unlike you he was not mature enough emotionally to deal with it.

I admire and respect the fact that you were always open and honest with all your friends.

Thank you so much for saying that because I am open and honest with all of my friends..gay or straight and I believe that is why I get so much respect from all of them...so for you to say that it means a lot and I really appreciate it..JS

 

[Ace117]

That's my situation exactly. I love women and I love cocks. I'm not attracted to men, but women with cocks are my thing. I've sucked some ladyboy cocks. And I love that !!

Really

 

[Ace117]

Sounds interesting

 

[hzs3fg]

I'd love to suck a cock at least once in my life but I fear it will never happen.

I'm older than the average guy and way more particular than I have a right to be. For example, I wouldn't want to mess around with anyone in my own age group (too old) nor with anyone who wasn't in at least decent physical condition. And, of course, he needs to have a nice cock.

So, like I said, probably never...

 

[igotthebigone]

Enjoy yourself dude,as long as you and your partner are both happy after the sex is over, it's a win win situation