I think some guys in college go about being curious like it's a science experiment: for example, they may actively look for the right guy or even try putting ads on Craigslist. But for most guys, they just meet someone who they like and feel comfortable with and go from there. In my own life I've had buddies say that if they wanted to experiment they would want to do it with me because I'm mellow and relaxed about sexuality, and wouldn't play games with them around the whole thing. I've always taken that as a compliment. I think guys may act on their curiosity but they generally fall into these situations more casually.
