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Hi,
I'm new here (first post I think) and I have a small question :)
Im a straight guy (engaged and super happy with my straight sex life).
The thing is that I love porn (really, like Sami addicted) and sometimes I switch from straight to gay porn ("straight" guys in gay porn).
I just love the seduction (yeah yeah I know it's fake, it's still hot).

Also when I'm watching straight porn, I'm more turn on on stuff like BJ, big cocks, big balls and rimjob (of course that the hot female that endorse this has a big part of this).

So.. my question is:
Is that means that there is a gay side in me that I'm unaware of?

Need to clearly: never had any gay experienced and don't like something like that in real life (maybe in fantasy).


Thanks for listening (reading) this, great site BTW
 

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Most people are on the bisexual spectrum. So a degree of same sex attraction is common.

You might be someone who has 10% same sex tendencies. So you have arousal but not enough to act upon it.

There's nothing wrong with living a straight sexual lifestyle for the rest of your life but obviously you have some fantasies about being seduced by a gay man in your porn choice so that option is there too.
 

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Hi,
I'm new here (first post I think) and I have a small question :)
Im a straight guy (engaged and super happy with my straight sex life).
The thing is that I love porn (really, like Sami addicted) and sometimes I switch from straight to gay porn ("straight" guys in gay porn).
I just love the seduction (yeah yeah I know it's fake, it's still hot).

Also when I'm watching straight porn, I'm more turn on on stuff like BJ, big cocks, big balls and rimjob (of course that the hot female that endorse this has a big part of this).

So.. my question is:
Is that means that there is a gay side in me that I'm unaware of?

Need to clearly: never had any gay experienced and don't like something like that in real life (maybe in fantasy).


Thanks for listening (reading) this, great site BTW
No big deal, I'm gay and watch straight/bi porn.
 

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*shrug* It is what it is. People are so hung up on labels and rules for what each person is and such.

You're a guy who enjoys sexual content. That's fairly common. I'd say about 99.5% of people enjoy sexual content. ;)

If you really want to go into it; as others have pointed out, most people are really somewhere on a spectrum and not just on the extreme ends and absolute middle. If even .1% of you is into what's labeled "gay" porn, you're really not alone and there's much more people than you realize out there who are similar but ashamed to reveal because of the aforementioned people who label things and make arbitrary rules. Despite what people say, they and others still have a negative connotation with any sexuality other than heterosexuality or whatever matches their own personal sexuality. If not, they wouldn't be so adamant about making clear distinctions, in my opinion.
 

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I am 100% gay, never even seen a naked woman in person. However, at times, I watch straight porn. Obviously, it is mostly to watch the man ( has to be hot, not ugly as some porn movies feature), but I occasionally watch merely out of curiosity. I have been interested in seeing a guy eat out a woman, a woman rimming a man, but mostly seeing a good -looking man, who would never do gay porn, having sex. I could see a straight man being fascinated by gay porn and seeing how voraciously men can gobble down another's cock or how anal sex can provide a man with so much pleasure. Maybe a bit of curiosity about how it would feel. A large percentage of gay porn viewers are straight women, so why not men? Nothing to be ashamed of, so welcome to the legions of lovers of man on man sex.
 

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I think that if you're actively seeking gay porn, then you are bi. I think that maybe you are afraid that your wife won't approve, so that's why you get extra turned on when a woman is encouraging it?

I've already made a few loooong posts about why I don't like when guys call themselves straight but keep doing gay things... that's my personal feelings on the matter but I don't want you to be against your own urges.

You like gay porn... who cares? Only you should care about what turns you on about it and why. I would try to think about WHY you get so turned on by big cocks... maybe you're forgetting someone you used to be attracted to? Someone that had a huge bulge? Or maybe a gay guy came on to you and you werent ready to do anything with a guy and it left you traumatized?

I just don't think that continuing to try to call yourself straight will help you. You're into gay sex. I recommend exploring that. Maybe watch porn where the scenario isn't "straight guy gets seduced" Or maybe even watch MORE of that if it helps you come to terms with what you like. Something is mentally blocking you from saying that you are bi, so that is definitely something that you will eventually have to deal with, and pretty much everyone here (me too) will help you through that journey, whenever you're ready.
 

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*shrug* It is what it is. People are so hung up on labels and rules for what each person is and such.

You're a guy who enjoys sexual content. That's fairly common. I'd say about 99.5% of people enjoy sexual content. ;)

If you really want to go into it; as others have pointed out, most people are really somewhere on a spectrum and not just on the extreme ends and absolute middle. If even .1% of you is into what's labeled "gay" porn, you're really not alone and there's much more people than you realize out there who are similar but ashamed to reveal because of the aforementioned people who label things and make arbitrary rules. Despite what people say, they and others still have a negative connotation with any sexuality other than heterosexuality or whatever matches their own personal sexuality. If not, they wouldn't be so adamant about making clear distinctions, in my opinion.
100% this
 

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In my humble opinion, Porn is mostly about fantasy.. Not always what you actually do in your real life or who you do it with, in fact some of us Im sure wish it were;) It can be a way to explore things, and play with all kinds of ideas. I agree with most of the posters, I think people get too hung up on labels, and just be who you are and enjoy what you want when you want. I been with men and women, I prefer men now almost exclusively but still watch straight porn every now and again. Everyone's journey is personal and their own, you shouldnt have to answer to anyone, about what goes through your own mind.
 

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Another thing," porn does not determine your orientation.
If it did straight men would only watch girl on girl porn.
Straight men do like watching lesbian porn but I think watching a woman being fucked by a man is them imagining themselves fucking that woman. I don't think they'd be appreciating the man in it in any way.
 
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It's complicated for me. I feel like you didn't give me enough information in the OP to really come to a conclusion. You are probably straight but just not 100% (whatever that really means). But I'm not sure exactly what you're into tbh. I still find the OP a bit vague in some ways
 

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i have watched straight porn--not to watch the pussy---but because theres alot of good looking guys in straight porn--i am the age i am now and never seen a pussy except for in a porn--and that was enough in my opinion---

i know a guy did same thing you did ----watched gay porn as well as straight and he never can find a woman that will do things like rim his ass--swallow his load--let him spank her and fuck her as hard as he wanted--said all the women he been with always tell him to slow down or stop-----time goes by and he asked me how did i know i was gay and all--then i told him any time you wanna do anything a woman wont let you go--come to my house and i will make it happen--he smiled and says he wasnt gay-- but then he started talking about being rimmed says he wants to feel a tongue inside his hole i said you can get your hole wet and open enough that the person can fuck your hole with their tongue --he was like really i said really

few days later we got off work and he tells me he brought some clothes and stuff decided to hang out for the weekend i said sure no problem--it was later that evening i showed him few gay clips where the guy is rimming and fucking the guy with his tonguee--then i asked him how much was he wanting to get into paddling and stuff--- and he takes me to a site with a clip with a guy whipping a guy--says he never seen women taking a spanking or whipping like this--

i told him follow me and we went to basement locked the door turned on the lights and he saw my play room--he asked who uses this stuff and on who--i pulled my shirt off showed him the marks on my back he was like damn---then i asked him how far is he wanting to go with it---he said as far as lome one would let him--

well the early part of the fun was we stripped naked i looked at him and he looked at me-- and i hugged him began kissing his neck and he says he didnt know what to do---i said the only thing different is when it comes to fucking---a woman youd fuck her pussy --a guy youd fuck his ass other than that its all the same--so he started kissing my neck as i did his then we kissed each other and he was breathing hard so i told him calm down ---he went down my neck kissed my chest and began sucking my nipples --they were sticking out and hard as can be

it was when he got to my stomach and stopped and i figured he wouldnt go any further--- but to my surprise he put head of my dick in his mouth and went down on it some--he started gagging a little and i told him relax and dont take so much in his mouth--he does this and quits gagging

it was my turn to make out with him suck his nipples and work my way to his cock which was a good71/2 maybe 8 incches long and thick--when i began sucking it and taking more of it in my mouth and throat he was sitting back watching as i did it--i then lifted his legs up ran my tongue over his hole few times and he grabs he ankles pulls back and i rimmed his hole a while then tongue fucked it a while--he then says he was about to cum--i went up grabbed his dick and put it in my mouth just in times as he began shooting--he came so hard and so much i thought i was going to drown from it

once quit shooting he lets his legs go and l et his legs go down and we laid there he was breathing hard trying to catch his breath and begins apologizing for getting off so quick--i told him it wasnt too quick as he lasted a good 40 minutes with me enjoying his body

he then says so much for spanking and stuff---i said is one round all you can go--he said that was usually all he ever did--it was then i told him 1 round 3 or 5 rounds--we dont stop until both are satisfied-- so he smiled and say awesome

the rest of this story is little pain and brutal so the story stops here

but basically alot of straight guys watch gay porn--ive had circlejerks with guys while watching gay p orn--few things happened like touching each others dicks and seeing what sucking was like for few seconds-- but the thing is --if it is something you think is curious about--do so --we only live once
 

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i have watched straight porn--not to watch the pussy---but because theres alot of good looking guys in straight porn--i am the age i am now and never seen a pussy except for in a porn--and that was enough in my opinion---

i know a guy did same thing you did ----watched gay porn as well as straight and he never can find a woman that will do things like rim his ass--swallow his load--let him spank her and fuck her as hard as he wanted--said all the women he been with always tell him to slow down or stop-----time goes by and he asked me how did i know i was gay and all--then i told him any time you wanna do anything a woman wont let you go--come to my house and i will make it happen--he smiled and says he wasnt gay-- but then he started talking about being rimmed says he wants to feel a tongue inside his hole i said you can get your hole wet and open enough that the person can fuck your hole with their tongue --he was like really i said really

few days later we got off work and he tells me he brought some clothes and stuff decided to hang out for the weekend i said sure no problem--it was later that evening i showed him few gay clips where the guy is rimming and fucking the guy with his tonguee--then i asked him how much was he wanting to get into paddling and stuff--- and he takes me to a site with a clip with a guy whipping a guy--says he never seen women taking a spanking or whipping like this--

i told him follow me and we went to basement locked the door turned on the lights and he saw my play room--he asked who uses this stuff and on who--i pulled my shirt off showed him the marks on my back he was like damn---then i asked him how far is he wanting to go with it---he said as far as lome one would let him--

well the early part of the fun was we stripped naked i looked at him and he looked at me-- and i hugged him began kissing his neck and he says he didnt know what to do---i said the only thing different is when it comes to fucking---a woman youd fuck her pussy --a guy youd fuck his ass other than that its all the same--so he started kissing my neck as i did his then we kissed each other and he was breathing hard so i told him calm down ---he went down my neck kissed my chest and began sucking my nipples --they were sticking out and hard as can be

it was when he got to my stomach and stopped and i figured he wouldnt go any further--- but to my surprise he put head of my dick in his mouth and went down on it some--he started gagging a little and i told him relax and dont take so much in his mouth--he does this and quits gagging

it was my turn to make out with him suck his nipples and work my way to his cock which was a good71/2 maybe 8 incches long and thick--when i began sucking it and taking more of it in my mouth and throat he was sitting back watching as i did it--i then lifted his legs up ran my tongue over his hole few times and he grabs he ankles pulls back and i rimmed his hole a while then tongue fucked it a while--he then says he was about to cum--i went up grabbed his dick and put it in my mouth just in times as he began shooting--he came so hard and so much i thought i was going to drown from it

once quit shooting he lets his legs go and l et his legs go down and we laid there he was breathing hard trying to catch his breath and begins apologizing for getting off so quick--i told him it wasnt too quick as he lasted a good 40 minutes with me enjoying his body

he then says so much for spanking and stuff---i said is one round all you can go--he said that was usually all he ever did--it was then i told him 1 round 3 or 5 rounds--we dont stop until both are satisfied-- so he smiled and say awesome

the rest of this story is little pain and brutal so the story stops here

but basically alot of straight guys watch gay porn--ive had circlejerks with guys while watching gay p orn--few things happened like touching each others dicks and seeing what sucking was like for few seconds-- but the thing is --if it is something you think is curious about--do so --we only live once
I can agree with lots of what you say, thou I must point out, I am pretty sure their are female dominatrix out there, and women who spank men etc, that is not exclusively a gay thing, maybe he just couldn't find them, or anyone willing. Same thing with rimming, having been with women in my younger life, my experience is if a woman loves you enough you would be amazed at what they are willing to do, where as my experience with men, have been more like if they are horny enough youd be amazed at what they want to do or talked into doing. I was with a lot of "straight" guys in my life, and have messed around with a few here and there and inbetween, sometimes when they are desperate, sometimes when they are curious, and mostly cause they were horny, does that make them gay? I don't think so, maybe due to that specific situation. How much gay sex occurs in jail? does that make them all gay? I just think men's sexual drive sometimes overrides their labels.

Since you gave so many examples Ill give you one of mine, maybe someone will identify with it or even like it. I was with my 2nd girlfriend just out of college, and just after being with my fraternity and lot of men, so I was pretty sure that I was gay, so I did the right thing and told my girlfriend at the time. Shockingly enough, it didnt bother her, as long as I stayed committed to her. Since I was still figuring things out, I thought id give it a try. I ended up doing an ad, asking for a third guy to come in, i figured best of both worlds. I assumed I would get a bi guy or somewhere on that spectrum, since they would have to be into both of us. When I opened the door, I was in shock, cause the guy was model stunning, young, and very nervous. After some small talk, I asked what he was into, and he said he was straight, but he was always curious if there was more. I asked him what he felt comfortable doing? He said you two start, and ill figure it out. So Im like ok, so my GF and I started, and all of sudden like in a flash of an eye he was completely naked and entertaining himself. As we went on, he got braver, had his dick an inch from my face, right when we were all about to get off, he just shoved it in my mouth, and at the same time groped my balls while I was fucking her. We all got off, and I was in shock. I asked him at the end what he thought. He was very polite, and he thanked me, but he said I would probably be the last guy he ever touched, he said it wasn't bad, but just wasn't for him. I had no reason not to believe him, part of me was honored that he experienced it with em and I might really be his last or possibly upset that I didn't do my job lol. Either way fun was had by all, noone was hurt, and we go about our lives. I commend him wherever he is, to having been brave enough to face his curiosity and be honest.
 

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Hi,
I'm new here (first post I think) and I have a small question :)
Im a straight guy (engaged and super happy with my straight sex life).
The thing is that I love porn (really, like Sami addicted) and sometimes I switch from straight to gay porn ("straight" guys in gay porn).
I just love the seduction (yeah yeah I know it's fake, it's still hot).

Also when I'm watching straight porn, I'm more turn on on stuff like BJ, big cocks, big balls and rimjob (of course that the hot female that endorse this has a big part of this).

So.. my question is:
Is that means that there is a gay side in me that I'm unaware of?

Need to clearly: never had any gay experienced and don't like something like that in real life (maybe in fantasy).


Thanks for listening (reading) this, great site BTW
I suspect the only way to find out is to try it. You may be curious, bisexual or just intellectually interested, so, if you are single, go ahead and try it. But do it long before you get married. Too many guys wait until after they marry. It is natural for a man to enjoy sex with another man. It's not for everyone, but it might be for you. And then, it might not. But I say, try it, you'll like it.
 
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