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I know I know, another thread about a straight guy and a gay guy.
I just wanted to air out a long brewing co fusing relationship I've had with my best friend, I'll try to keep to bullet points.
So we've been very close friend now, going on 12 years I think. We met at work and there was an instant connection with the two of us (he even says that as well) he was the first person I came out to and he said he already knew when he met me. I got gay vibes but I thought I was just maybe being hopeful, but after working together for a bit, a lot of our coworkers thought he was gay and thought we were a thing because of how close we got. He's also always had his girlfriend and he always brings up how he met his girlfriend one day and then me the next.
He's always been a very open guy, very comfortable with, just sex in general, like asking me stuff, talking about attractive men and has always said he's the gayest straight guy I'll meet and has even joked that his gf has made the joke, "oh I'm just waiting for you to come out as gay"
Anyways, skip ahead a couple years now of me always having confusing feelings for him, I also have a partner of 7 years, he knows about my friend and mentions, if my friend ever wants to do something I have the go ahead.
But what I've been struggling with his the weird back and fourth my friend seems to have. Sometimes he seems very curious and kind of really leans into it but then will back track like it's never happened. He's sent me nudes (his ass only) a handful of times, one time we ended up taking about gah reflex and he mentioned he doesn't think he has one. So I joked and said, you should see, and so he said he grabbed his gf vibrator and he could get a lot of it down and I said, where's the proof and then proceeded to send me a video. But whenever I jokingly bring it up again he shoots it down and doesn't want to talk about it.
Recently he came down for a visit (he moved to the other side of the country a couple years ago. And he kept saying things like "I really wonder what it would be like being with you, I couldn't say your my boyfriend...life partners? Or is that just my toxic thinking, thinking I couldn't say that. No but I love my gf, I couldn't" a lot of that and then at the end of our hang I jokingly said "oh no blowjob to end the night?" And he replies "Not yet, I didn't clean my dick and I wouldn't want that to be your first experience with me"
So...I don't know what I'm asking for here lol am I crazy? Just continue with what we do and enjoy the friendship? Am I making things up that aren't there and it's just nice gay/straight guy banter or would it be confusing for you too
Apologizes if this is in the wrong area, I realized some similar stuff are in Ask a straight man
I just wanted to air out a long brewing co fusing relationship I've had with my best friend, I'll try to keep to bullet points.
So we've been very close friend now, going on 12 years I think. We met at work and there was an instant connection with the two of us (he even says that as well) he was the first person I came out to and he said he already knew when he met me. I got gay vibes but I thought I was just maybe being hopeful, but after working together for a bit, a lot of our coworkers thought he was gay and thought we were a thing because of how close we got. He's also always had his girlfriend and he always brings up how he met his girlfriend one day and then me the next.
He's always been a very open guy, very comfortable with, just sex in general, like asking me stuff, talking about attractive men and has always said he's the gayest straight guy I'll meet and has even joked that his gf has made the joke, "oh I'm just waiting for you to come out as gay"
Anyways, skip ahead a couple years now of me always having confusing feelings for him, I also have a partner of 7 years, he knows about my friend and mentions, if my friend ever wants to do something I have the go ahead.
But what I've been struggling with his the weird back and fourth my friend seems to have. Sometimes he seems very curious and kind of really leans into it but then will back track like it's never happened. He's sent me nudes (his ass only) a handful of times, one time we ended up taking about gah reflex and he mentioned he doesn't think he has one. So I joked and said, you should see, and so he said he grabbed his gf vibrator and he could get a lot of it down and I said, where's the proof and then proceeded to send me a video. But whenever I jokingly bring it up again he shoots it down and doesn't want to talk about it.
Recently he came down for a visit (he moved to the other side of the country a couple years ago. And he kept saying things like "I really wonder what it would be like being with you, I couldn't say your my boyfriend...life partners? Or is that just my toxic thinking, thinking I couldn't say that. No but I love my gf, I couldn't" a lot of that and then at the end of our hang I jokingly said "oh no blowjob to end the night?" And he replies "Not yet, I didn't clean my dick and I wouldn't want that to be your first experience with me"
So...I don't know what I'm asking for here lol am I crazy? Just continue with what we do and enjoy the friendship? Am I making things up that aren't there and it's just nice gay/straight guy banter or would it be confusing for you too
Apologizes if this is in the wrong area, I realized some similar stuff are in Ask a straight man