Straight Friend Jerk Me In Sleep, What Should I Do ?

[2934161]

Hey guys, something happened on Saturday. My best friend and I were out . Later he sleept at my place, with me in my bed as usual. We were both pretty drunk and fell asleep pretty quickly. But then I woke up at night and noticed that someone was playing with my dick. I pretended to be asleep. He jerked me and i think he wanked his cock with the other hand too. The whole thing went like this for 10 minutes, it stopped before I could cum. The next morning everything was as usual, he didn't say anything and neither did I. He is actually straight and has a girlfriend, I wonder if I should speak to him about it?
If I think about it now, I get an extremely erection, he looks very good, muscular, blonde and blue eyes. The thought that he had my dick in his hand. Even now when writing this I have a massive one again.

 

[Tony56]

Say something casual like, "That felt really good last Saturday night." If he acts shocked that you know, or pretends not to know what you are talking about, just say, "It's OK, it was nice that you feel you can trust me that way." If that doesn't break the ice, then drop it.

If you are lucky, you found a new j/o bro, and it doesn't matter that he is straight with a girlfriend.

 

[BradChi]

He is straight and you are gay, so I say don't say anything and wait to see what happens, since it went back to normal, unless you want it to be more of a situation between you both. However, it might have the opposite effect where he is embarrassed because he was drunk and might cause him to shy away from putting himself into that situation again.

 

[batnballs67]

If there is another drunken night with your buddy you could always say you're too horny to fall asleep and need to jack off. That might lead to something fun.

 

[malakos]

I think the first thing you should do is contemplate the ethically problematic aspect that he decided he was in his rights to touch you in a sexually intimate way while you were unconscious (with no prior discussion regarding doing so).

And once you're done with that one, move on to the fact that he was cheating on his girlfriend.

 

[BBB2.5]

Thanks for sharing your situation... It's obvious you have a great relationship with your friend if he is sleeping in your bed. The fact you both were drunk could have helped him explore his curiosity. Perhaps you could casually mention that you had the most vivid dream that night.... "Your were sleeping in your bed and someone was playing with your cock. You could not see what it was, but if felt great... then you woke up before things had progressed further....
Or if your worried about it messing up your friendship say nothing.

 

[Brodie888]

Firstly I'd consider whether pursuing anything would be worth the consequences. Eg the drama with him having a girlfriend, if it would something long term, damage to your friendship because he gets freaked out trying to get back in the straight closet etc.

The most important thing if you go ahead is to make sure he knows you are ok with playing sexually and you are happy to meet him as far as he wants to experiment and it doesn't doesn't need to be anything more.

 

[LilBigWang]

@exxclusiv_ I wouldn't say anything. He already wants you, he is pudding in your hands. Don't fuck it up... LOL

I would do another drunken night. Let him sleep over, if he does it again..While he is jerking you off, start moving your hands caressing his arms and body. Roll onto him and kiss him and say I knew i wasn't dreaming. After that, let the sexual feelings do the talking. It's obvious he wants it, and you do too.

Usually the story is the other way around. "How do i hook up with my best friend"... this is awesome.

PS Don't let the party poopers say he is cheating on his GF guilt you. He is obviously exploring his curiosity and you didn't plan it, it just happened. If he liked it, or not, he can then choose who he dates. all these people acting like "real Christians" in a sex forum is sorta comical. Not today, Satan!

 

[tito21]

@exxclusiv_ I wouldn't say anything. He already wants you, he is pudding in your hands. Don't fuck it up... LOL

I would do another drunken night. Let him sleep over, if he does it again..While he is jerking you off, start moving your hands caressing his arms and body. Roll onto him and kiss him and say I knew i wasnt dreaing. After that, let the sexual feelings do the talking. It's obvious he wants it, and you do too.

Usually the story is the other way around. "How do i hook up with my best friend"... this is awesome.

PS Dont let the party poopers say he is cheating on his GF and guilt you. He is obviously exploring his curiosity and you didnt plan it, it just happened. If he liked it, or not, he can then choose who he dates. all these people acting like "real Christians" in a sex forum is sorta comical. Not today, Satan!

Or Op and his friend could spark a new romance that rivals Brokeback Mountain, spanning over a few decades! Op’s friend lives a double life with wife and kids and have a ‘bucks getaway’ every 3 months with Op. ‘Just a fishing buddy out in the wood’.

 

[deleted679701]

Try to recreate the circumstances to see if it happens again. This time make sure you cum. When you do, reveal that you've been awake and tell him it's his turn to cum, and offer your mouth/ass/hand.

 

[2934161]

UPDATE:


Yesterday we were at his home after the gym. To play some ps4 and Chillin. He wanted to take a quick shower (he never takes a shower in the gym) so I wasn't surprised. When he was finished he came into the living room with underwear in his Hand and only a towel around his waist. We talkt a little until he dropped the towel to put on the underwear. I saw that he was semi hard. I immediately got stone Hard in my pants, but didn't show anything. I joked and asked if the shower was so erotic. He then said he was always horny after the gym, I replied that I know this problem and that only wanking helps. And then hold on tight he asked me if I want to join in he doesn't want to jerk off alone. We then wanked together, but only side by side without touching each other.
It was so hot to see him squirt. I also felt like he was just waiting to ask me. I briefly considered whether I should speak to him about the night, but didn't want to destroy the situation. It's funny, we've known each other for 10 years and nothing has ever happened. We have often seen each other naked, but that's all.

 

[chrisrobin]

UPDATE:


Yesterday we were at his home after the gym. To play some ps4 and Chillin. He wanted to take a quick shower (he never takes a shower in the gym) so I wasn't surprised. When he was finished he came into the living room with underwear in his Hand and only a towel around his waist. We talkt a little until he dropped the towel to put on the underwear. I saw that he was semi hard. I immediately got stone Hard in my pants, but didn't show anything. I joked and asked if the shower was so erotic. He then said he was always horny after the gym, I replied that I know this problem and that only wanking helps. And then hold on tight he asked me if I want to join in he doesn't want to jerk off alone. We then wanked together, but only side by side without touching each other.
It was so hot to see him squirt. I also felt like he was just waiting to ask me. I briefly considered whether I should speak to him about the night, but didn't want to destroy the situation. It's funny, we've known each other for 10 years and nothing has ever happened. We have often seen each other naked, but that's all.

Can quite see why he'd try to wank you when you were sleeping, cute little guy and a nice cock - certainly I wouldn't want to miss out!
As for the mutual wanking session he sure is curious - does he know you are gay - any guy that wants to wank with a bud and see him climax must be curious, incidentally where did you shoot spunk?

 

[2934161]

Can quite see why he'd try to wank you when you were sleeping, cute little guy and a nice cock - certainly I wouldn't want to miss out!
As for the mutual wanking session he sure is curious - does he know you are gay - any guy that wants to wank with a bud and see him climax must be curious, incidentally where did you shoot spunk?

yeah he knows that im gay and it was never a problem. i shoot on my body, he also.
Bro i want his dick in my mouth so much hes a little bigger than me, would guess a 8

 

[622675]

You report that “he asked me if I want to join in he doesn't want to jerk off alone”. You now have an open invitation to ask just about any question you wanted to or to bring up any subject you want.

If he already knows you are gay, then he knows what you are interested in doing. You have an open invitation to discuss what excites you. After 10 years of being friends you should be able to gauge his reactions.

You might begin by telling him how great it was to J/O with him and how meaningful that kind of connection is to a gay guy. That you two had been friends for a long time and that you had been afraid to do anything that might have interfered with being friends.

If you two JO again, then it is time to consider if you want to move to second base and stroke each other off. If he is into that, then oral might be the next thing.

 

[ray007]

Ich würde ihn einfach fragen, wenn sich das nächste Mal eine Gelegenheit ergibt.

 

[2934161]

Ich würde ihn einfach fragen, wenn sich das nächste Mal eine Gelegenheit ergibt.

Hat sich schon was ergeben

 

[ray007]

na, siehste!

 

[BiteSize]

I think the first thing you should do is contemplate the ethically problematic aspect that he decided he was in his rights to touch you in a sexually intimate way while you were unconscious (with no prior discussion regarding doing so).
And once you're done with that one, move on to the fact that he was cheating on his girlfriend.

Oh come on, don't be so judgemental. Best buddies fall into bed together drunk and horny, what do you think is going to happen? The supposedly straight guy is the protagonist, the gay guy the surprised but not unwilling recipient of his buddy's attentions. If they work out their relationship and it looks like becoming a regular thing, at that point it'll become an issue with the girlfriend. In the meantime, I wish them all a good time.

 

[622675]

Hat sich schon was ergeben

So what has already happened?

 

[LilBigWang]

So what has already happened?

they jerked off together, see post #11