All my friends are male and straight. Never got around to being friends with another gay or befriending a woman. But I imagine if I ever did have a gay friend this is what it would be like.
My straight best friend, we’ll call him Adam, are probably as close as two friends can get. We’ve known each other for years. We naturally became friends I guess you could say. He was the first guy I ever came out to which I think made us very close. I still have an extremely tough time acknowledging my sexuality so for me that was a big deal. At this point, sexuality wise, he’s sent me sex tapes of him fucking his girl and I’ve told him all about my Grindr hook ups. (he was actually there texting me for my first one lol). We’re extremely open about our sexualities!
There were a lot of lows during our friendship, almost like a relationship, I remember distinctly we blocked each other on everything over the usual nonsense. It reminded me a lot like he was my boyfriend and that was very overwhelming. Maybe one time I cried? Idk Now that we’re older though I think he’s past that behavior as well as I am
How we become close besides that, I would say seeing each other every day at school and always talking on Xbox. We recently reconnected after a pause and now he always jokes that we were “dating”, which annoys me but I completely understand.
He’s a good looking guy, but, I would never fuck or date him and the thought of it kind of grosses me out. My other friend jokes I have a crush on him but in reality we just share a good bond.
genuinely I think straight men make the best friends… just my two cents lol. I’ve met a gay guy in a friendly situation and was best friends with a woman both bad experiences
