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1, 33 m, have recently gotten back in touch with an acquaintance from high school. We were definitely not close friends in high school, I believe the most words he ever spoke to me was him asking me to suck his dick before a football game (being heavily in the closet, I declined), but I definitely wanted to.


Fast forward to a few months ago, he reached out on Facebook to congratulate me on my wife's pregnancy. We get to talking a little bit and bring up a lot of our past. I admit to him about being bi but was always afraid to act on it in school. He says that he's straight as hell but respects everyone.


We talk on and off every couple of weeks (messenger and snap) but I notice that our conversations always end up very sexual, him asking about why I'm bi, different things I've done sexually and he says it's just because he's curious about all of stuff I've done dudes and he shares his experiences with women.


This week the same situation happens. He's telling me he wants to be tatted up and finish his chest plate. So I ask how many tatts he has, he sends me a snap back with the message that says, "Don't take this the wrong way, just wanted to shoot you my tatts and I trust you cause we're bros" and it's him in the shower playing with his dick a little bit. Well damn, his dick is huge!! I comment that his tatts are nice and that he has a very nice dick as well.


Since that night, I haven't heard from him at all. I reached out a few times just to say hi and he reads the message but doesn't respond. Why do you think that is?
 

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He may be straight but bi-curious. Maybe it’s just me, but I can’t imagine any “straight” guy asking or caring about your bi lifestyle and experiences.

He probably sent the dick pic and then had second thoughts, especially when you commented on it.

He’ll probably come around and start responding again. Make sure any messaging You have with him is totally not on this subject and non-sexual. That will probably set him at ease and will illicit a response from him.

If, after a while, he starts the sexual discussions again, let him take the lead and see what happens.
 

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He may be straight but bi-curious. Maybe it’s just me, but I can’t imagine any “straight” guy asking or caring about your bi lifestyle and experiences.

He probably sent the dick pic and then had second thoughts, especially when you commented on it.

He’ll probably come around and start responding again. Make sure any messaging You have with him is totally not on this subject and non-sexual. That will probably set him at ease and will illicit a response from him.

If, after a while, he starts the sexual discussions again, let him take the lead and see what happens.
I totally agree with this response. Leaving the ball completely in his court might help him feel more relaxed with you on the issue.

Good luck man!! Let us know how things turn out.
 

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A little bit of an update….we have started talking a little. Just a quick hey, how’s it going every now and then, but nothing more really. I can also tell that he’s not as quick to respond as he was before and not as frequent. The pic that he originally sent on snap, he saved it in our chat with each other. It stayed there for about 2 weeks and then he deleted it before he started talking to me again. Neither of us have spoken about the picture or anything sexual that we spoke about before.
 

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A little bit of an update….we have started talking a little. Just a quick hey, how’s it going every now and then, but nothing more really. I can also tell that he’s not as quick to respond as he was before and not as frequent. The pic that he originally sent on snap, he saved it in our chat with each other. It stayed there for about 2 weeks and then he deleted it before he started talking to me again. Neither of us have spoken about the picture or anything sexual that we spoke about before.
Pls keep us updated. I guess, that he knew how far it could go after you complementing his dick or maybe realized that he thought the same way and freaked out about it. Never give up an stay in touch with him. One final day it'll pay out. In the end you have nothing to loose, only to win. ✌
 
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