Straight guy - my first time going gay

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  1. D_Lasinbie Longhorne

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    Hi. Whether I'm straight or bi is irrelevant. I love women. But I've always had a thing about really well hung guys and I met one eventually. We've had a few drunken fumbles and I really want to try anal sex with this guy but I reckon he's 8"-9" long and I can only really manage about half that. Even then it's difficult for him to pump as that motion often hurts as well. I'd really love to get all of him inside me and have him screw me hard so has anyone got any tips on positions etc.
    I know lube and time are probably the best solution but any help would be appreciated.
     
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    I would suggest long anal foreplay with rimming, if you guys are into that because it does help loosen you up for more. Ask him to finger fuck you with lub and maybe even a toy or two like a dildo which is smaller than his cock or a butt plug. Anything to loosen up your ass. And just take it slow and know that the pain will soon pass and you will be begging for more.
     
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    ride it. then missionary and then doggie. doggie i find the hardest.
     
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    Is 9" a bit much for the first time ?
     
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    not if you're ready for it and know that it will hurt like hell at first for a couple of minutes until you relax your ass muscles. Trust me...you will be begging for more. Agree with the guy who suggested sitting on it...that allows you control over how much you and how fast to take him in.
     
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    Gallons of lube and defo sitting on it is easiest imho. Above all, relax and have fun.:smile:
     
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    Definitely agree with assplay and rimming first, and riding him nice and slow. Nine rockhard inches is gonna feel sooo good!
     
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    You DO know how to Squat dont you?
    You control it all
    and if not successful in consuming the whole
    then you only have yourself .. to blame
    enz

    Is 9" a bit much for the first time ?

    Only you will know that, once you have tried it matey..
     
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    I read here that the spooning position is the easiest first.

    This won't help much, but I never have been able to take it. I want to feel what everyone is talking about regarding the pleasure, but so far, it has not relaxed enough for it not to be constant pain.

    For me, it's very frustrating :frown1:
     
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    Yes, you definitely should play with your ass on your own for a while before you try to go jumbo on the first round. Get a smallish dildo and lube and just go easy while edging in front of porn. Work your way up to a good size dildo and i reckon that soon you'll be finding yourself busting your own ass for pleasure. When you do do it with your buddy, be sure to take it easy and relax. I buttfucked my girlfriend once without any lube and I just lay on top of her and fed it in real slowly , like naturally, at a tectonic pace. Good fucking!
     
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    Cleanliness is heavenly-ness

    I agree with you CountryGuy - It's extremely painful for me too.
     
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    It's just like anything else, from quitting smoking to winning an Olympic gold medal... when you want it badly enough, you will make it happen. Lots of good advice here, and I agree, lots of lube, twice as much vodka, riding it on top at first. Patience and time are your friends.
     
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    I would start with a nice butt plug, that will get your hole to relax more. You can do this while jacking at home and walk around with it in you. There is also and expanding one. I have one and love it. The sensations of it inflated inside me are tremendous.
    As far as 9'' is concerned....you have shit bigger turds than that, so I know that won't be a problem. How wide is he???? THAT will be an issue, but one adressed by the expanding butt plug. Enjoy what is going to happen to you. I would either start by spooning and him coming into you from behind or sitting/squatting over him and lowering yourself onto it to start. YOU have to remain in charge.
     
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    #15 petite, Mar 11, 2010
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