Ok...so my wife and I have this dildo. It is a Julian's Private Parts model. It's freakin huge. My wife loves it. I love when she sticks a finger or two up my anus. I'm sure you know where this is going...I have had the desire for her to use the dildo on me. But I have some questions. Is this thing too big, it's like 6.5 inches around? Once we use it, will my hole be permanently stretched? I know this is a weird question, but do you guys who have anal sex have problems holding "it" in? I would appreciate any help and advice!!