Straight Guy Show-Offs

Discussion in 'Show Off' started by D_Everette Hunglungfish, Oct 26, 2010.

  1. D_Everette Hunglungfish

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    Hi Guys,

    Just hoping you can satisfy my curiosity;

    For the straight guys who like to show off on here - what do you get out of showing to the rest of the guys?

    I don't deny you're straight, but only about 5% of the people on here, max, are women.

    So why - for the adulation, the ego-boost, a sense of competition?
     
  2. malo

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    Good question. Maybe they're not as straight as they would like to admit or looking for bragging rights.
     
  3. D_Andy Cornholer

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    Truthfully Its a giant Ego boost lol
     
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    I agree i don't understand why 100% str8 guys who on cam in here. Or deny you to view their cams, saying it's for only girls, but none are online. confusing.

    Agree ego boost. Guys are more complimenting to other guys then women are to men, I'ved noticed and experienced.
     
  5. hung9mike

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    I'm not sure I understand what's going on here either, but I always make the assumption that any guy who denies me a chance to see his cam is lying about who he is.
     
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    i think most of the guys love comparing their cocks......since they are children
     
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    There isn't anything gay in itself about comparing, no matter to what extent a man does it. It gets a lot of dudes off, knowing he's bigger/smaller than some other stud out there (straight men watch porn for the boys, too, especially to see their "big" peters, no matter how much they say to the contrary!)

    A man can go look at naked dudes all day in order to size up, and still be very straight. So then the greater question must be asked: "Why is he looking at naked men?" Is it because he's fantasizing of having sex with some of them, or because he want to see their penises to compare and feel superior/inferior (perhaps its both, or just one of the other). Or, are they doing it out of pure curiosity?

    Not sure how looking at naked dudes in itself, either, is a sign that one is gay. I mean, we men all see a naked man everyday -- ourselves! Are we gay if we look at our own penises? Being gay is much more than having your eyes on another nude male:rolleyes:.

    I swear most folks haven't a clue about human sexuality.
     
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  8. B_Hung Jon

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    I've replied to questions like this before on this site. I happen to think that big dicks are very erotic. I also have some of the exhibitionist in me, so I enjoy showing off by body and dick. It's not so much about comparing with other guys for me. Big hard wet cocks are hot.
     
  9. petergroot

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    Hit the nail on the head.

    For me, it is the same as looking at my erection in the mirror. I like to see my own cock, and also like to know where I am on the totem pole of cock size.
    Also, has it grown since the last time I looked?
    Now I have to go play with it again...
     
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    bingo.
     
  11. D_Phil_R_Upp

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    I'm not the showoff, but I am very much a voyeur. I've watched a lot of guys who identified to me as straight....and had absolutely no interest in my penis or any kind of contact.

    For some people, public sex and/or the act of being watched is a huge turn on, regardless of the audience. Being an exhibitionist is about the thrill of the reaction. This is especially true for a well-hung guy - he's going to get either extreme positive reactions (daaaaamn!) or if he's doing it in public....well, let's just say he'll be noticed!

    It *is* an ego boost to hear someone talk about your cock and how much of a stud you are. And most guys need to hear an affirmation of some kind from someone. Straight men still crave acceptance and even affection from their male friends (and their brothers/dads, of course).

    Most of the guys I've watched (and gotten a cum facial from) were married. There was no touching and no contact, but they enjoying being watched and jacking to a porn while I watched them. I think especially with hot, hung men 30 or older (my type) they were getting a little something that wasn't happening at home. These guys were mind-meltingly hot but they didn't feel their wives appreciated them. I sure did.....and didn't mind telling them what a hot big stud they were, and what a hot big breeder pipe that had swinging between their legs.
     
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    I just bless their horny, exhibitionistic little hearts!:tongue::tongue:
     
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    I can't speak for others, but I like to see where I compare. And let's be honest, a compliment is a compliment. If a gay guy says he likes my cock, its just as much of a compliment as if a woman (or straight guy) says I have a nice cock.
     
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    i agree, im straight and just enjoy showing off and the compliments i get, and if a guy enjoys seeing what i have on here then everyone wins. the compliments and ego boost applies no matter the gender
     
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    For the confidence, honestly.
     
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    An ego boost plain and simple.

    On this site I can have up to 100 people look at pictures of my cock and give me positive feedback. It would be great to show 100 woman my cock each day but the only way to do that would be public nudity.

    I'm comfortable enough with my sexuality to let another man see my cock - and I think that I'm big enough (pardon the pun) to take any comments with the good grace and decency with which they were intended.
     
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    I think the answer is fairly straightforward. Women are generally not visually objectifying like men are. The sight of an unfamiliar cock is largely unwelcome to them. That sort of desire from a woman only comes relationally as when you are their boyfriend or husband. On the contrary men, regardless of their orientation are much more stimulated merely by the sight of an attractive specimen of the gender they desire and seek out the chance to observe those they find attractive for its own sake. Think playboy. If men want the sort of validation they are desirable that a young woman may get from posing for playboy they have to turn to men. The consumer demographic targeted by both playboy and playgirl are each men. Doyoulikethemuncut on Skype. Straight exhibitionist.
     
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    Cock size is a male thing. Most women don't care, but men do. Straight, bi or gay. And why is being interested in cock related stuff a gay privilege? Straight men have cocks too ;) and I find it very natural to be interested in something so important in life. :)
    Maybe we are just a little more open than other straight guys?
     
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    It's totally an ego thing. At the end of the day, we all like being complimented and made to feel like someone is interested in us. In the case of this site, placing value on size and being complimented on your size feeds into ego. It's not about where the compliment comes from, it's that you got the compliment.
     
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    A comment from "the other side of the fence" :)

    Straight guys asking opinions, comparing sizes, commenting on other guy's cocks and generally sizing up and indulging in cock talk does not make him any less straight than what he already is.

    The ego boost in receiving compliments also comes into play here. I have given many compliments on straight guy's cocks where it was appreciated but never reciprocated and that's ok. I was just stroking his ego and not his cock ;)
     
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