As I said in my intro note, I'm hardly the biggest guy here, but I can put up a pretty respectable bulge if I want to. What's the best way for straight guys to capitalize on that? I can't just walk around commando in sweatpants -- I'm thinking it's got to be more subtle than that, and I'm just not an exhibitionist. And does it work? I mean, I know some nice cleavage can cause a guy meltdown, but I hear conflicting things about how women respond visually.