straight guys being hit on by gay guys

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How could I get offended from someone finding me attractive.

How could anyone? I take any compliments that I can get... :biggrin1:

hi men. I am Gay. I have occasionally expressed my interest in a man who I later learned to be straight. The best reaction I received of those came from someone who I now count among my closest friends. He replied simply, "Thanks, sorry but I'm not interested in you. Do you have a sister?" That was so cool, confident, and comfortable that I replied no and bought him a beer.

You owe me a beer; that's exactly what I've said before.

When I'd finished my meal, the gorgeous waiter boy came and asked me if I wanted anything else. I said no thanks. He said to me, "I bet you wouldn't mind a bit of that, eh?" nodding towards the blonde girl. I said, perfectly clearly, "Actually, no, I'd much rather have you." He just went kinda blank and walked away with no response.

If I were him (of course, I'd have to be gorgeous first, and enough of a pig to make a comment like that to a customer), I'd have to try my hardest to not bust out laughing.

Just last night, I met a friend of a friend who was gay (well, my friend is straight, and her friend is a gay guy) and, among other things, we talked about being presidents of our condo boards. We got along just fine. If he (or anyone else) was hitting on me, I was either oblivious or feigning obliviousness -- it makes no sense to ruin an evening by suddenly saying, "Dude, I'm not interested in you."

Tangent -- and also mentioned briefly in this thread --

My friend gets frisky when she's alcohol-affected. I mean very physically frisky; she's even had her hands deep down my own jeans pockets after some wine. Last night, she was practically hanging all over every one of the gay guys. At one point, while she was in a neighboring room having a smoke, our mutual friend told me that he'd never seen her like this, and that it bothers him when she gets so cuddly -- like, what can she possibly expect him to do?

I volunteered the idea that maybe she feels "safer" by having that kind of overtly-flirtatious fun with gay guys because she knows that they're not going to try to take her home afterwards like any straight guy. -- Is that at all valid?
 

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Yes, I do... ALL THE TIME. And not just on here, I mean in real life too. Seriously, I don't get this, I'm probably the least gay-looking man ever, lol... I usually respond well (I mean, it IS flattering) unless someone is really rude.

Eh, I've seen gay men that look like you.


Me too, especially in college. What was really surprising--he looked like burns1de with the hip hop gear and chinstrap and all. He had the bigger dick and loved for me to fuck him in the butt. He was a college footballer. (Not rugby but gridiron American style collegiate ball). What an ass on that guy. He dumped me for a girl. But he sucked my cock on occasion. I would see him on campus kissing his girlfriend and thinking about those stress relieving exam week sessions at night from him. :wink: Bi men are so fucking hot.
 

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then again..ive known straight guys that went to gay bars,got drunk and went home with a gay man.then got pissed when some suggested they were bi-sexual.as always..they blamed the booze.i for one believe,when someone gets drunk...THE TRUTH COMES OUT!
 

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I've been hit on by gay guys. It don't bother me. Like others said, I find it flattering and it boosts my ego-I don't think I'm that good looking and don't have much experience with the ladies (A.K.A. still a virgin never even been kissed) but I just respond by saying "thanks. I'm honored that you think of me like that but I'm straight." But I always make sure that our friendship doesn't get weird or awkward.
 

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Straight guys are unpredictable. I used to go to straight bars and pick up guys. Was kind of a hobby. Anyway, after evaluating the guys there, I'd go up to one and start to work. Sometimes it ended with a success, other times the guy wasn't interested. In one case, the guy grabbed my arm and pulled me to the back of the bar...I thought I was getting my ass kicked....he took me to his friends and told them that he was the hottest guy in the bar. His friends asked why and he pointed to me and said this gay guy was flirting with me and tried to take me home.

What a night that was.
 

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i know of one gay guy in particular who,always picked up straight guys at strip clubs.they'd get drunk and strike out over and over with the strippers,and as everyone knows..A HARD DICK DOESNT KNOW THE DIFFERENCE!
 

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When I was in college, all the dang time. I was dating this girl who was theater major and at their parties I was always getting hit on when I went with her.

I politely told them I was with someone and in a serious relationship and usually that was that, although there was this swishy queen who would not take no for an answer. He was always telling me that he could make me turn gay with one blowjob. Carl was his name, he was too much. I usually just avoided him.
 

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Straight guys are unpredictable. I used to go to straight bars and pick up guys. Was kind of a hobby. Anyway, after evaluating the guys there, I'd go up to one and start to work. Sometimes it ended with a success, other times the guy wasn't interested. In one case, the guy grabbed my arm and pulled me to the back of the bar...I thought I was getting my ass kicked....he took me to his friends and told them that he was the hottest guy in the bar. His friends asked why and he pointed to me and said this gay guy was flirting with me and tried to take me home.

What a night that was.



I had to read this like fourteen times before I actually got what you were saying. LO fucking L!!!!

That's so embarassing that it's funny, and then embarassing again!

And I love the way you said "You evaluate the guys, find one and then go to work." That's exactly how i do it!
 

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I have been hit on by a "so called str8 guy" before. He said that his wife wasn't putting out so he thought that he would go "the other way" to see what it was like. I told him that I wasn't interrested and walked away.
 

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When I was in college, all the dang time. I was dating this girl who was theater major and at their parties I was always getting hit on when I went with her.

I politely told them I was with someone and in a serious relationship and usually that was that, although there was this swishy queen who would not take no for an answer. He was always telling me that he could make me turn gay with one blowjob. Carl was his name, he was too much. I usually just avoided him.
you gotta admit that takes balls!
 

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i recently had a guy proposition me in a public restroom.obviously he had been checking my package out at the urinal,this fucker didnt like hearing no,as he started offering cash!guess he was just horny as hell.
 

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Straight guys are unpredictable. I used to go to straight bars and pick up guys. Was kind of a hobby. Anyway, after evaluating the guys there, I'd go up to one and start to work. Sometimes it ended with a success, other times the guy wasn't interested. In one case, the guy grabbed my arm and pulled me to the back of the bar...I thought I was getting my ass kicked....he took me to his friends and told them that he was the hottest guy in the bar. His friends asked why and he pointed to me and said this gay guy was flirting with me and tried to take me home.

What a night that was.



LMFAO!!!! That's beautiful! :biggrin1:


I've had straight friends tell me before that they consider it even more of a compliment if a gay guy hits on them..... way to go, ye reasoning minds... ^_^



You know... this makes me feel better about sticking a toe in the water to see what it's like.... I'm usually afraid to flirt with guys I don't know aren't straight since I worry about the bad reactions... but this has given me hope for people taking things in stride. :biggrin1:


Wouldn't want someone attacking me for a compliment.... Wouldn't wanna have to hurt someone... :tongue:
 

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LMFAO!!!! That's beautiful! :biggrin1:


I've had straight friends tell me before that they consider it even more of a compliment if a gay guy hits on them..... way to go, ye reasoning minds... ^_^



You know... this makes me feel better about sticking a toe in the water to see what it's like.... I'm usually afraid to flirt with guys I don't know aren't straight since I worry about the bad reactions... but this has given me hope for people taking things in stride. :biggrin1:


Wouldn't want someone attacking me for a compliment.... Wouldn't wanna have to hurt someone... :tongue:
life is but a dream,live it!
 

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He has a girlfriend, though... *sigh*


But I figure he could use the self-esteem pick-me-up when he said I wasn't fat but then said he has thought of himself as fat.... when he happens to be maybe half my freakin' size! lol And he referred to himself as kinda girly.... meanwhile I really wouldn't find him sexy if he was that girly. :tongue: He's just kinda arty. LOL