A girl who joined a few nights ago pm'd me (lucky she saw and liked my pics in the gallery) and I got to talking to her, we switched to yahoo messenger and have since added each other on myspace. She is super nice, super intelligent and pretty, she is also interested in large cocks, obviously, but the 18 pms she got within the first 3 hours of being on the site really put her off! She was watching her inbox fill up as we chatted on yahoo. The 'hey wanna see my big dick?' 'you like 3 cocks in all your holes' and 'i bet youre a dirty whore arent you' and the 'will you make fun of my little dick' crap that she was bombarded has pretty much ruined her for the site. I did my best to convince her that it really is a cool site and that not every guy on here is like that and that there are several really cool women she might like, but I think shes done for she logged in again and there were 12 more pms saying nothing more than what I exampled above. I get loads of pms from gay men on here despite being 100% straight, but it doesn't put me off, you know why? because they dont act like fucking retarded gangbangers! I've a new friend in her and someone that will cam with me, only because I acted like a normal fucking human being before I ever offered her to cam. I wonder how many hot, intelligent women, who would eventually be up for explicit sex talk and camming but have been driven off before they could even explore the site! You dont get laid in real life acting like that so what makes you think youll get some dirty talk and cam action on a forum acting like that? Gay men help me out on this one, lets teach some tact.