Straight guys ever ask to see your cock?

[FRE]

I think all males, gay or straight, have an interest in penis size and in particular a penis that is bigger than their own. I believe it is perfectly normal, and a relatively safe way for younger guys to explore their sexuality with others without feeling like a pervert. It is all part of growing up and being a guy who enjoys their own body. I’m sure every guy does this to some level, I know I did. Seeing a larger penis, either flaccid or erect, doesn’t make me envious or want to touch it; I simply enjoy seeing the beauty of the human body.

That makes sense. As I've written elsewhere, we all enjoy a beautiful sunset, a beautiful painting, etc. So why shouldn't we also enjoy a good looking body and penis? It's not necessarily erotic, but it can be, and there is no reason for that to be a problem.

 

[D_Portelay Porquesword]

I've been asked to pull my pants down more than once, and it has led to things with gay guys (duh), but not yet with a straight guy. I should probably trying to hang out with more breeders and see what happens.

Breeders? LOL

 

[OCMuscleJock]

oh yah...a few times.

 

[sinbad1]

It has happened occasionally but it is very rare.

I suspect that most truly straight guys are simply not going to admit that they want to see your cock no matter what they may have hear about your size from friends. They are more likely to sneak a peak at the beach, at the pool or standing at a urinal.

When it does happened there is often alcohol involved and it comes about almost as if it is a dare.

 

[coolhungluke]

This situation is a current dilemma. A good str8 friend of mine seriously wants to see my cock fully erect. Through jokes and hearsay, he has known that I have an above average tool. Since he is str8 and a friend from childhood, I downplayed it-- just to avoid any talk of homoerotic tendencies (as I am not interested in him that way).

The full confession is the result of a good year, where he has consistently brought up the subject of my cock. It all started when my aggressive and very blunt GF went into detail on how she only dates men with large cocks and how my size and shape makes it very easy for her to cum (she prefers to be on top). Since then he has managed to see my hard through my pants after getting a lap dance at a strip club. Both incidents has led him to steer our conversations back to my cock.

So.. the question. Show I just pull down my pants and show him? JO with him? Or just keep it a mystery?

 

[BigDallasDick8x6]

yes,at the liquor store,at a wall mart parking lot,at 3 bbq's,at the loading dock of my old job,and at two different shopping malls.
oh yeah...one time at a resturant.

DETAILS!! We need details! (And there are BBQ's in Philadelphia??)

 

[beltboy]

Cool, I say go for it. You list yourself at seventy percent, so there is some room there to explore. Best to explore with a friend. Let me tell ya, its going to bond the two of you ever so much more....Been there with THREE of my close friends so far...

 

[BigDallasDick8x6]

This situation is a current dilemma. A good str8 friend of mine seriously wants to see my cock fully erect. Through jokes and hearsay, he has known that I have an above average tool. Since he is str8 and a friend from childhood, I downplayed it-- just to avoid any talk of homoerotic tendencies (as I am not interested in him that way).

The full confession is the result of a good year, where he has consistently brought up the subject of my cock. It all started when my aggressive and very blunt GF went into detail on how she only dates men with large cocks and how my size and shape makes it very easy for her to cum (she prefers to be on top). Since then he has managed to see my hard through my pants after getting a lap dance at a strip club. Both incidents has led him to steer our conversations back to my cock.

So.. the question. Show I just pull down my pants and show him? JO with him? Or just keep it a mystery?

Show it! Show it!

 

[Countryguy63]

This situation is a current dilemma. A good str8 friend of mine seriously wants to see my cock fully erect. Through jokes and hearsay, he has known that I have an above average tool. Since he is str8 and a friend from childhood, I downplayed it-- just to avoid any talk of homoerotic tendencies (as I am not interested in him that way).

The full confession is the result of a good year, where he has consistently brought up the subject of my cock. It all started when my aggressive and very blunt GF went into detail on how she only dates men with large cocks and how my size and shape makes it very easy for her to cum (she prefers to be on top). Since then he has managed to see my hard through my pants after getting a lap dance at a strip club. Both incidents has led him to steer our conversations back to my cock.

So.. the question. Show I just pull down my pants and show him? JO with him? Or just keep it a mystery?

Hey Luke,

Really depends on your relationship with this guy. "If" it went as far as say, a mutual j/o, would you be comfortable with that/ Would he? If you have any doubts or reservations that it might negatively affect your friendship, keep it in your pants and let the mystery remain. If it's just a "show and tell", no biggy. Let him look,and it's done with.

However, if you are comfortable that it won't, or maybe even can establish beforehand that you are concerned and don't want it to have a negative effect on it, then what the heck! At the least, it may stop the enfatuation once it's out there.

Tough call

**edit** I've actually got one guy at work that shows serious bulge, sometimes down the leg. I would love to "see" the cause, but don't want anything sexual from him. It's just a curiousity thing. I've never had "the balls" to ask anyone, "Hey dude, lemme see whatchur packin", lol.

 

[coolhungluke]

Does it change a friendship? Or am I over thinking the issue?

 

[buzzrider7]

I dunno. If you have no interest in stroking one out together or something of the sort, it might be a bit awkward, don't you think? I mean, there you are, pants down, full-on woody, and there he is, staring at it.
"There it is, bro."
"Wow, it IS huge!"
Then what? You just zip up and play some wii?
How about compromising by sending him one of the hot cock pics you have on your profile?

This situation is a current dilemma. A good str8 friend of mine seriously wants to see my cock fully erect. Through jokes and hearsay, he has known that I have an above average tool. Since he is str8 and a friend from childhood, I downplayed it-- just to avoid any talk of homoerotic tendencies (as I am not interested in him that way).

The full confession is the result of a good year, where he has consistently brought up the subject of my cock. It all started when my aggressive and very blunt GF went into detail on how she only dates men with large cocks and how my size and shape makes it very easy for her to cum (she prefers to be on top). Since then he has managed to see my hard through my pants after getting a lap dance at a strip club. Both incidents has led him to steer our conversations back to my cock.

So.. the question. Show I just pull down my pants and show him? JO with him? Or just keep it a mystery?

 

[FRE]

Cool, I say go for it. You list yourself at seventy percent, so there is some room there to explore. Best to explore with a friend. Let me tell ya, its going to bond the two of you ever so much more....Been there with THREE of my close friends so far...

Perhaps. However, the results are highly unpredictable. It could have no effect on the relationship, it could strengthen the relationship, or it could destroy the relationship. It is not without risk.

 

[luckyp]

Does it change a friendship? Or am I over thinking the issue?

In my experience, it really depends. If it's just curiosity or maybe some horniness, "I wanna see this guy's big dick". it won't do any harm. I've had straight buddies show me theirs and I show them mine and everything is fine afterwards.

If he's actually really interested in you in a full-out "I want this guy as my boyfriend" way -- yeah, it can mess stuff up, especially if you do more than just show him it.

 

[BigDallasDick8x6]

I've had straight buddies show me theirs and I show them mine and everything is fine afterwards.

Tell us how that happens. What do they say to get you to do it? What do you do? What do they say afterwards? Thanks.

 

[LSebastien]

Yeah. A friend of mine found some pics on my phone when I'd left it one time, and then later confessed to noticing it through my pants. One night when I was pretty buzzed, he saw an opportunity and kept talking about it. I was wearing some really light(weight) shorts, and when I sat down they kinda just outlined my cock. He kept talking about it and how it looked big, and when I didn't seem objected to him talking about it, he started touching it. When I didn't stop that, and started to get hard from the touching, he started to jerk it through my pants. And when I didn't stop that, he eventually gave me one of the best blowjobs I've ever had. Kinda cool. Definitely my most emphatic experience of cock worship thus far. I don't really consider myself "bi-sexual," in that I couldn't have a relationship with a guy, and I don't find myself interested in having sex with one, but I will say that it seems guys have much more of an appreciation for a cock than most girls do. It was nice.

So your straight friend gave you a blowjob? That's interesting....

 

[D_gigby002794]

The most it has gone and will ever go for me is my friend was saying how big he was and started walking around naked at a friends house and bet me he was bigger so I whipped it out and let's just say I won that bet!
Oh and glances at the urinal ofcoarse.

 

[amirk]

it happend to me once in early high school, a friend in the same class saw me naked once and a few weeks later he asked me to show him and another friend my cock, no big deal they laughed and were stunned nothing happend i put it away after a minute

 

[LetsGo2007]

This situation is a current dilemma. A good str8 friend of mine seriously wants to see my cock fully erect. Through jokes and hearsay, he has known that I have an above average tool. Since he is str8 and a friend from childhood, I downplayed it-- just to avoid any talk of homoerotic tendencies (as I am not interested in him that way).

The full confession is the result of a good year, where he has consistently brought up the subject of my cock. It all started when my aggressive and very blunt GF went into detail on how she only dates men with large cocks and how my size and shape makes it very easy for her to cum (she prefers to be on top). Since then he has managed to see my hard through my pants after getting a lap dance at a strip club. Both incidents has led him to steer our conversations back to my cock.

So.. the question. Show I just pull down my pants and show him? JO with him? Or just keep it a mystery?

Go for it. Do it all. He'll chill after that.