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Does that something else need a name? For me, no...
I think that's the crux of my argument. People didn't even start making distinctions on sexuality until morality policing started to become more in vogue in modern history.

In Roman society for example: in their society gay, straight, cis, trans were not a consent though though had more sexual fluidity than most societies. These terms were man created distinctions because Christians colonization and other religions decided to otherize LGBTQ and ethnically diverse people and tame any further sexual or identity exploration into submission.

People were afforded the right of diverse sexual and identity expressions. They were able to experience what we would call queerness without the stigmatization or labeling that right leaning people tend to perscribe.
 
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This is not directed at anyone in particular...

Petty devisiveness over a word definition... has once AGAIN brought complete ruination to yet another perfectly good thread!

Moderator's - Please address these continually never-ending, thead-destroying "Straight" "Bi" "Gay" rants about title/label definitions!
 

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My point exactly. Straight guys DO NOT suck dick. Maybe denial is not a river in Egypt.
If I eat vegetable soup once or twice, it doesn't make me vegetarian. If u wanna limit the straight guys in your life to such a boring diet, that's on you. But, the straight guys in my life have evolved past the mentality of one set pattern of behavior for all in order to belong.
 

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I didn’t write the definitions. Therefore I haven’t defined anyone. You fellas are so sensitive. Have a fantastic day.
Having a difference of opinion isn't "sensitive". Plus, the meaning of the word is not really what is being argued. The argument seems to me to be about when it is fair to apply it to a person. Yes, sleeping with a person of one's gender is a homosexual act but that doesn't make a person have to continue to engage in those acts if they didnt enjoy it enough to have the epiphany that most of the rest of us have. I'm very proud to be gay and though I participate in homosexual acts, my gayness is so much more than that. But, if you hear something about me having kissed a girl a few times in college, take a breath and worry not for it was only in a play.
you may now eviscerate my comments with "forum thread hate" all you like.
 

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Oh, please. Gay is gay. Straight is straight. Bi is Bi. All are awesome. There is no grey area. BUT. Men who have sex with men are either gay or bi. Period. Call it what you want. Deny all you want. But men having sex with men is HOMOSEXUAL behavior…ie GAY. The fact that all you guys are so sensitive, argumentative, and defensive only confirms and strengthens your position of denial. I don’t care what your orientation is, but it’s truly baffling as to how this is even a debate.
I see it just as the difference between masc and feminine. If your below a 3 on the kinsey scale, you're mostly straight, therfore you're called straight. If above a 3, you're gay, and 3's are bi. Whatever you say you are I believe you. Don't believe that just because you're willing to attempt to start exploring some curiosities you're caring that automatically make you gay.
 

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This is not directed at anyone in particular...

Petty devisiveness over a word definition... has once AGAIN brought complete ruination to yet another perfectly good thread!

Moderator's - Please address these continually never-ending, thead-destroying "Straight" "Bi" "Gay" rants about title/label definitions!
I am so beyond tired of every thread about str8 men exploring their sexuality coming to a screeching halt because another str8 guy barges in and essentially calls the fist guy a f*g. What other purpose is there to jump in and say shit like "straight men do not suck dick" if it's not to make sure that any experimenting men know that if you suck one dick you're a f*g for life?

This shitty behavior is homophobic, biphobic and condescending. Rude, bigoted and overly aggressive str8 people (usually men) here have been going unchallenged in queer spaces for years and it's probably the primary reason I don't purchase a membership here anymore.
 

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I start this threat so we can share the first time we get into dude/dude action
feel free to share your stories ...and remember this is for fun and know about those hot experiences ..and keep it civil if you comment on the stories and remember to enjoy it reading them

so here is mine:

So this happened when I was 22 (Im 35 now), Im 6.1" latin muscle beef, tattooed arms and chest, I worked on a restaurant as a manager and one of the employees there he was 19 (33 now ) (5.10" latin withe muscle beef) became one of my best friends and we where like brothers we bother in to each others and play wrestling after closing ..It was pretty normal for us ..but the others employees always make jokes that every time we wrestle it looks like a soft gay porn ..which always makes us laugh

so one day after closing the restaurant we gather in a group and went to a club so we were drinking and party all night and at some point in the night we both dancing with this girls that we meet there but being honest there where not very good dancers and regetton start to play at the club (we are latin guys btw and this was back in the early 2000´s so was the good reggeton) and in some point my friend and I start dancing together way ...way to sensual that in some point I felt his hard dick agains my leg and we both look shocked and surprised, and he was a little embarrassed and I went to the bathroom to refresh a little cuz I was pretty hot for the dancing and the situation and I cant stop thing about him getting hard which makes me hard as I washing my face in the bathroom, as Im getting out the bathroom and back to our table I see him coming to the bathroom holding two beers he handle me the beers and said wait for me, so I wait for him outside the bathroom .....and I start to dancing by myself cuz the music was at his peak and I cant control myself, in that moment he came out of the bathroom and gave him his beer and pull him to start dancing with me and he hesitate a little but immediately goes for it ...so we dancing pretty close and way way to steamy that was inevitable and we start to kissing each other hard

and when I said we went for it ... I mean it ....i remember when our lips touched and how good it felt and we were all hands on each other and then he went for my neck and start kissing sucking and licking and I just lost it ...he proved that he knows me cuz in one of out many talks I mentioned that when a girl does that is like when Zeus scream "Release the Kraken" ... but I remember that we were in a public place and I stoped him...cuz hands were already in the pants ...he looked shocked and start to apologies I told him shut up .. I just want a more private place and give a quick kiss and we fix each other and said good bye to our friends and make stupid excuse to left ....and we to a taxi to the restaurant cuz I have to pick up somethings that I left there ... but in the way there I felt that something change and the moment have pass and nothing will follow cuz a little silence in the way to the restaurant ... once we get there, I went to the office and he went to break room so I pick up my thing and went to find him there and I told him we were ready to go ...so he stand up he comes to me and start kissing me I drop what I have in my hands and respond to his kiss .. I dont know how but a second latter our clothes were in the floor we were sweeting, moaning and way to hard ..we have seeing each other naked before but never hard I was surprised to see he had a really big dick not as thick as mine but in the same length ( 8.5" ) so we start to jerk off each other while we kiss ...and dont know what came over me that let go of his dick and get in to my knees and start sucking him ...i dont even hesitate and i was surprised on how much I enjoy blowing him and he start moaning and saying how much he enjoy it ...so he took me from my shoulders to stand up and he went for it put me agains the table and he star to blow me and damn he was good he took it all the way in lick my balls and I was in heaven with my hand in his head , so he stand up and pull him to kiss me and continue jerking off kissing and sucking until both came over each other ...we end up over the table all sweat breathing heavy ...so we calm down ..we stand up and pick up our clothes and clean the mess ...that when it hit me that he may regret what happened ...for my part I was trilled I enjoyed way to much and hopping this doesnt hurt out friendship so once we finish cleaning and all drees up ...told him we need to go and we walk to the door but not before he grab me by the hip and pull me to kiss me again .. and said know I get why they said it looks a soft porn when we wrestle and I just start to laugh and kiss him again ... we continue as best friends as always ...with all the normal benefits and a very enjoyable new ones
And thanks a lot for sharing this story, it was really really good and really exciting !!!!

does anyone have an other similar story ? Or in this area ?
 
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And thanks a lot for sharing this story, it was really really good and really exciting !!!!

does anyone have an other similar story ? Or in this area ?
Thanks for getting back on topic...

How many close "straight friends" you suspect or confirmed that are bi curious ?

I talked to him on the phone on Monday just to see how things were going, because I'm aware that experimenting and all the mental things that lead up to it are hard work to process. After talking about all sorts of things relating to his work and another friend's stuff, he openly told me that he could see why guys liked sucking cock. I asked him if he would do it again and his reply was "already have"; turns out they met on Sunday afternoon for a mutual session and again on Monday. I asked him how he felt about his experiences to date and he told me a lot of things had fallen into place so far and they had arranged another session on Tuesday after work; he has messaged me to call him so I guess he has new questions.
 

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Thanks for getting back on topic...

How many close "straight friends" you suspect or confirmed that are bi curious ?

I talked to him on the phone on Monday just to see how things were going, because I'm aware that experimenting and all the mental things that lead up to it are hard work to process. After talking about all sorts of things relating to his work and another friend's stuff, he openly told me that he could see why guys liked sucking cock. I asked him if he would do it again and his reply was "already have"; turns out they met on Sunday afternoon for a mutual session and again on Monday. I asked him how he felt about his experiences to date and he told me a lot of things had fallen into place so far and they had arranged another session on Tuesday after work; he has messaged me to call him so I guess he has new questions.
Very interesting (and sexy !) ! I so want to know what will happen next !
 
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I called him this morning to see what was up and was surprised by what he described to me and his reaction- I've told him he doesn't have to tell me anything but he was so excited I had to slow him down; it seems he went to his partners place after work and they got busy on the couch, sucking each other before they showered together and headed for the bedroom. I told him I didn't want to know any more, but he told me about their marathon rimming session before telling me that he was surprised how easily he took partners cock after the rimming, and by how much he wanted it at the time.
I asked him how he felt about it now and he admitted being penetrated was different but his physical reaction was impossible to ignore and he had thought about the experience all night.
It seems he is going back after work today so I'll keep out of it, but he did ask why I hadn't told him about MM stuff before. My answer was that the interest had to come from within him and it was up to him to explore it or not.
 

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I called him this morning to see what was up and was surprised by what he described to me and his reaction- I've told him he doesn't have to tell me anything but he was so excited I had to slow him down; it seems he went to his partners place after work and they got busy on the couch, sucking each other before they showered together and headed for the bedroom. I told him I didn't want to know any more, but he told me about their marathon rimming session before telling me that he was surprised how easily he took partners cock after the rimming, and by how much he wanted it at the time.
I asked him how he felt about it now and he admitted being penetrated was different but his physical reaction was impossible to ignore and he had thought about the experience all night.
It seems he is going back after work today so I'll keep out of it, but he did ask why I hadn't told him about MM stuff before. My answer was that the interest had to come from within him and it was up to him to explore it or not.
wow he is having a great time ....and enjoy the ride niceee... congrats to your mate bro
 

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No one here has a closed mind and we are firm believers in whatever someone likes is great. Just stating facts that straight guys don't suck dick or have sex with other men. And remember, Denial is a river in Egypt. Happy Gratituesday!
There is a wooded area near where I live. Lots of married guys looking for a blow job. I assume that their wives won't look after their needs. Will they give you anything in return? NO. Ask them and they will say, "what, you think I'm gay? No effing way am I sucking cock. Oh, and will you be here next week at this time?"
 

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There is a wooded area near where I live. Lots of married guys looking for a blow job. I assume that their wives won't look after their needs. Will they give you anything in return? NO. Ask them and they will say, "what, you think I'm gay? No effing way am I sucking cock. Oh, and will you be here next week at this time?"
Exactly. Denial runs deep in some folks. Happy Friday.
 
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Yeah, just like the dude who lets a random other dude cuck him and fuck his girl in front of him and get off on it? Then that girl goes around telling people who they are sexually when by her own parameters her man is a raging homo.

Yep, "De Nile" is not just a river in Egypt. Lol

What a silly person.
 
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Yeah, just like the dude who lets a random other dude cuck him and fuck his girl in front of him and get off on it? Then that girl goes around telling people who they are sexually when by her own parameters her man is a raging homo.

Yep, "De Nile" is not just a river in Egypt. Lol

What a silly person.
And she's been told... in more ways than one.
 
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Why are gay males so obsessed with the idea of getting with a straight man when it's literally unobtainable to them? Stop letting gay porn plots give you brain rot because you get mad when its called out. Male-on-male sexual interactions will never be straight, how fucking hard is that to comprehend? Bisexual men exist, stop erasing them to fitful your weird mental gymnastics, it's sad.
 
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feel free to share your stories ...and remember this is for fun and know about those hot experiences ..and keep it civil if you comment on the stories and remember to enjoy it reading them
It’s a damn shame people are too into themselves and their own opinions to respect the request of the person who started this thread and honor the spirit of what it was made for. This is why we can’t have nice things.
 

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This is not the thread for your ego. Honestly, he sets it up pretty clearly—you are a dude, you’ve never done anything with dudes and suddenly find yourself with a dude doing stuff…fill in the details. Take your theories on human sexuality somewhere else. You want to debate heterosexuality vs bisexuality vs homosexuality, start your own thread (looking mostly at you @

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