Straight Guys Interested In Trans Girls?

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I am asking this not because I am trolling for straight men but because it seems that as I get further into my transition the less my old gay "friends" have an interest in me. At the same time I seem to get more interest from guys I would consider straight.

I'm just curious how many or what sort of percentage of men who consider themselves straight would want to be with a trans girl.
 

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I'm just curious how many or what sort of percentage of men who consider themselves straight would want to be with a trans girl.
This is a question I don't think that will ever get a truthful answer until the majority or the average cis woman actually considers transwomen to be actual women and not excuses or outlets for the bi and homosexual leanings of heterosexual men. Even then I think it'll take a couple of generations of normalization for heterosexual men to to not fear( nor face) sexual discrimination from ciswomen going forward.
 

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Me ! Absolutely. I've been sexually in involved with two and found them fasenating. I wish I had learned about the long ago. To me they are the ultimate partner in and out of the bedroom. Starting out as a male we have a lot in common and transitioned with boobs,butt,cock and balls they make my ultimate physical partner. You go girl. Lots of .
 
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This is a question I don't think that will ever get a truthful answer until the majority or the average cis woman actually considers transwomen to be actual women and not excuses or outlets for the bi and homosexual leanings of heterosexual men. Even then I think it'll take a couple of generations of normalization for heterosexual men to to not fear( nor face) sexual discrimination from ciswomen going forward.

To be sure we have a long way to go before gaining mainstream acceptance. But I've really been surprised at how many self described straight guys have shown some interest in me. To be fair I suspect most are chasing a fetish but that doesn't offend me. And it's mostly older guys a lot of them married. Ad I am sure that has an awful lot to do with menopause doing what it does.
 
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Me ! Absolutely. I've been sexually in involved with two and found them fasenating. I wish I had learned about the long ago. To me they are the ultimate partner in and out of the bedroom. Starting out as a male we have a lot in common and transitioned with boobs,butt,cock and balls they make my ultimate physical partner. You go girl. Lots of .

Merc, you and I keep crossing paths here. I am starting to think you and I are going to wind up in bed together someday. Hope so anyway. You mention boobs, butt, cock and balls. Better get me quick cuz my balls are going to be gone one day before too long. :blush:
 

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To be sure we have a long way to go before gaining mainstream acceptance. But I've really been surprised at how many self described straight guys have shown some interest in me. To be fair I suspect most are chasing a fetish but that doesn't offend me. And it's mostly older guys a lot of them married. Ad I am sure that has an awful lot to do with menopause doing what it does.
I think you're definitely right, fetishism is probably a primary contributor, and older men with menopausal wives aren't as encumbered by social constructs when they discreetly are nonmonogamous.
I think a lot of what seems to be increasing mainstream acceptance, is really a lot of progressive cis women trying not to be hypocritical, because even with all the talk of what defines a woman, and trying to separate the gender construct away from genitalia and the like(all of which are valid), I'm willing to bet more than would like to admit get really TERFy internally when one of their partners or men they desire has dated or is willing to date transwomen. A lot of ciswomen are allies right up until the point they may possibly be competing with transwomen for cis men. It wouldn't surprise me if a lot of cis men are aware of that inner conflict and are seeing how this corner is going to be painted out of, or if the hypocrisy will come forth.
 
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I think you're definitely right, fetishism is probably a primary contributor, and older men with menopausal wives aren't as encumbered by social constructs when they discreetly are nonmonogamous.
I think a lot of what seems to be increasing mainstream acceptance, is really a lot of progressive cis women trying not to be hypocritical, because even with all the talk of what defines a woman, and trying to separate the gender construct away from genitalia and the like(all of which are valid), I'm willing to bet more than would like to admit get really TERFy internally when one of their partners or men they desire has dated or is willing to date transwomen. A lot of ciswomen are allies right up until the point they may possibly be competing with transwomen for cis men. It wouldn't surprise me if a lot of cis men are aware of that inner conflict and are seeing how this corner is going to be painted out of, or if the hypocrisy will come forth.

I'm likely one of the odd ones in that I seek no validation from anyone other than myself. Should my anatomy ever become a non-issue amongst the general public I'll quietly celebrate briefly. But in the end it isn't a thing I truly care about. In fact, becoming socially acceptable would take away some of the excitement.

But I am also one that does not debate that there will always be a part, and no small part, of me that is male. I refer to myself as trans femme rather than trans woman. Always best to temper enthusiasm so as to stay within the bounds of reality. But I do understand there are those that truly suffer with gender dysphoria and respect their struggle.

As to terfy women. I take some dirty pleasure from taking their men from them and making them mine if even for a brief time. I certainly win that one. I get the romance and passion and send them home for their wives to clean their underwear. I might have to get t shirts printed. lol
 
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as a straight man. i can enjoy looking at femenine looking trans girls, those you can't believe are trans. i may not date but i like to watch them. probably be fwb but im married probably on another life,
 
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I've often wondered about that as well. My theory is that, while they are interested in dicks, they find it easier with a fem person than they would a very masculine one. Maybe it just feels less like homosexuality when there are boobs attached to the body with a dick. But idk really.
 
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I am asking this not because I am trolling for straight men but because it seems that as I get further into my transition the less my old gay "friends" have an interest in me. At the same time I seem to get more interest from guys I would consider straight.

I'm just curious how many or what sort of percentage of men who consider themselves straight would want to be with a trans girl.
No girls are allowed here if you are minor on the transition you wait until you come to age to come back.
Based on that i would expect 0 percentage.
Correcting the age issue no one can answer for all straight men. Whatever change you are you making make it for you not because there is “market” for it, if you find love with only one soul it’s perfect.
What do you mean by trans if you final transition is a woman with male genitals, I wouldn't even consider it, for a penis I would look for a man.
If you mean that your final transition is a woman with reconstructed female genitals I could consider it but I always wanted to be a parent.
The few examples I encounter of people married to trans sent a bi/gay energy but I can’t realize how they consider just by looking, if I had a friend on that situation I would just ask him.
 
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No girls are allowed here if you are minor on the transition you wait until you come to age to come back.
Based on that i would expect 0 percentage.
Correcting the age issue no one can answer for all straight men.

Am I missing something here - Why do you think she is a minor?

Regarding OP’s question - I think that the percentage is really low and almost certainly under 10% for straight millennials and gen z guys. As a straight cis millennial, I’m still surprised to see how much latent transphobia exists among my peers, even in those who claim to support lgbtq causes.
 
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Am I missing something here - Why do you think she is a minor?
I think he's highlighting that in his particular neck of the woods the idea of trans female peers can't even be normalized like it can in the US(or other places) so it's far less likely that grown heterosexual men will be as attracted or accepting to transwomen.
 
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Regarding OP’s question - I think that the percentage is really low and almost certainly under 10% for straight millennials and gen z guys.
I'd be more interested in seeing the stats of rated attractiveness of a mix of cis and transwomen pre disclosure, even maybe a nude evaluation of customer and post op transwomen.
I do think there is a valid aversion at play once disclosure is in play, but I think this question has such a cyclical nature because of how attraction, specifically initial visual attraction works for the majority of men; inadvertently misleading a lot of transwomen