Straight guys... Let's talk bedroom "moves."

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  1. ting

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    Hey there Dudes,

    I am curious to know what others have to say about special "moves" in bed. I hear about them all the time, but never find books or videos demonstrating these magic tricks. What's up?

    Personally, I don't have any moves. I have many fun and interesting positions that I am good at. Also, I can read a woman pretty well to see if she wants it harder, softer, faster, slower, deeper, etc. I'm good at varying my pace and angle of penetration. I can even get most women to squirt by licking and fingering them a certain way. However, I wouldn't classify these traits as "moves" per se. It's more in the good-technique/sensitive-lover category.

    So do others feel the same way? Are special moves out there to be discovered, or is it just school boy mythology? Is great sex all about technique, or am I missing out on some crucial secret skills? Please post your thoughts, and especially your best "moves" if you have some! I'm always looking to get better in bed! Let's get to the bottom of the "move" folklore.

    EDIT: Forgot there are a few women on here- my apologies. Please feel free to chime in if a guy has put any special moves on you!
     
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    Wow. :confused: Posted over 20 hours ago and 300 views, and no one has something to add? Was I too vague... or have I uncovered some truth here? With all the horny sex-loving folks on this board surely someone must have some thoughts on the topic.

    O.k. I'll broaden the request. Who has something which could be considered uncommon (meaning not run of the mill, everyday porn) technique which gets results for them in bed? For example, I've found that when a girl is riding on top, it's great to reach around and push her ass cheeks together downwards really tightly around my shaft. More sensation for her, and tighter for me. Good times had by all! Anyone else got something in that category?
     
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    push her back if shes ontop so the clit rubs hard against the top of your shaft...and when you're deep do the pc flex or w/e it's called to kinda "flex" your member. my girl loves that it can make her go in seconds
     
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    First mistake, asking straight guys. Lots of str8 guys are AWFUL in bed but their girlfriends never tell them so you may be asking the wrong crowd. Their "moves" are really awful but the girlfriends don't have the heart to tell 'em.

    The girlfriends tell their gay friends what they like in bed and how awful their boyfriends are. If you wanna know what women like in bed, here's the list of who you should ask in order of priority:

    #1. Women
    #2. A sex expert
    #3. A gay person
    #4. Your sister
    #5. Your german shepherd
    #6. GW Bush
    #7. Barbara Walters
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    #1,467. Other straight guys.

    :stups:

    (this was all in fun, relax)
     
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    What a kinky threesome. :eek:
     
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    I know you're wondering "why is GWB so high up on the list, isn't he straight?" Ask yourself. Is he? He be huggin' Mccain kinda tight sometimes. I bet they be playin' "Capture The POW" with fuzzy handcuffs.
     
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    You keep this up and I'm going to have nightmares.:eek::eek::eek:
     
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    I think you may have hit on something. Perhaps the guys who brag about their moves are a bit lacking in technique, and therefore want to think they have a "magic bullet" (not the vibrator) to make up for it.

    Still, there must be a few tricks of the trade worth talking about beyond the common stuff, right?
     
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    Thinking about it from the pov of "moves" is pretty old school. A woman isn't a car or a piece of machinery that you can tinker around with to see what happens. You need to have some chemistry with the girl if you want to make her happy in bed. The same goes for her. Wake up and smell the vagina.
     
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    The best one I can think of is anticipation. Trust is at the same level. Those are secrets for any guy that has not opened up to a woman.

    Beyond emotions it sounds like you have a magic touch. Perhaps you are the one that should be sharing secrets with us if you are getting the majority of women to squirt. I believe that requires relaxation, trust and a lot of turned on juices.
     
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    honestly i think that the only secret is: TO FUCK A WOMAN BECAUSE YOU WANT TO GIVE HER PLEASURE. women can smell when you're fucking them just to get off. so fuck her with her orgasms in mind, let her cum at least 2-3 times and only then u can let go...
    obviously u got to be able to keep up with this kind of sex and be fit enough, having a big cock is also an additional plus, but not necessary.
    don't worry about positions, they're all cool
     
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    Hi Gang - First post from a newbie! Please be gentle with me.

    My main technique is slower movement. The size brings thrills of its own. The worst thing a guy with a big cock can do is do 'rabbit strokes,' or worse yet, steady pounding.

    Pounding with a big cock should be limited to occasional short bursts UNLESS the lady happens to enjoy getting hammered with a baseball bat (a few do). Most ladies are thrilled by brief bursts of hard strokes just to remind her what she is dealing with! I find that this 'formula' of slower movement, where the size can be better felt and appreciated without pain, punctuated by occasional hard stokes to the very bottom, is accepted and appreciated by most ladies, many of whom would normally say they don't like a big cock.

    There are some ladies who enjoy the stretching, IF it is not accompanied by pain. Then there are those who say that stretching is not a problem - "It hurts so good!"

    In summary, the size should be used in ways that the lady loves, and that is largely a matter of individual taste.
     
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    A few of you need to reread the original question. I'm not asking how to best please a woman in bed. I'd like to think I'm pretty good at that already, and the feedback I've had would confirm that... and yes, it does have A LOT to do with sensitivity and the intellectual side of lovemaking. I don't want to discuss that side of things here.

    I'm attempting to get to the bottom of a certain sexual myth/reality. Namely, are there really certain physical techniques which you use to send a woman way over the top. As I originally proposed, I personally don't think that there are- at least not in a universal sense. At the same time, I thought it could be a cool discussion in which we got to learn some fun new things to try. New ideas to spice things up.

    Who knows, perhaps there are forum members here who are experts in physiology and pressure points and chakras, and... before we know it we get to find out that if you stoke between the big toe and the pointer that it will cause many women to get wet. :biggrin1: Yes, a bit far fetched, but what the hell. Let's have some fun and not take things too seriously. One drawback of the feminist movement is that too many men are afraid to talk shit and have a sense of humor. Can't we be sensitive to a woman's emotional needs and still wag our hard units around like the animals we are? I don't think they are mutually exclusive. It's just a fun discussion, that's all. :tongue:
     
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    Well put, I agree. I know I'm doing well if I start slow, and my girl is literally begging for a pounding by the end.

    Now we are on the right path. :wink:
     
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    You hit the nail on the head. All extremely important ingredients... as long as you combine the right physical techniques- namely lots of foreplay, a nice soft slow build-up stoking the g spot with two fingers (back to front), stay away from too much clit play, and then build to a firmer faster stroke towards the very end. Sometimes helps to press on the pelvis lightly with your other hand as she is about to cum. Perhaps the most important part though... if somebody believes they can do something, they generally find out that they can. Convince her she can, and she will. This is a good principal for life in general. It's how faith healers, psychologists, shamans and even pharmaseutical companies all tend to operate! :smile: If you are interested in learning more, I highly recommend a book called "Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot" by Deborah Sundahl.
     
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    When the little voice in side my head chimes in saying Finish Her, I do this one where just before I shoot my load I yell "SHOWGUN FIRE" and lunge into a thrust. This seems to ignite my semen with passion causing them to fire in a firry spray of lust. I call it my finisher.
     
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    Brilliant!:firedevil:

    Sometimes if I cum in a really acrobatic position a little voice in my head says, "Eddie Gordo wins!"
     
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    Yeah, some women exaggerate the magic of these "moves" so guys heads get inflated and they think they're hittin' somethin when they're really not.

    That's very true, from what I hear that are positions, techniques, etc.... that have an impact. The general concensus I get from female friends is that it's about VARIETY VARIETY VARIETY. Few females wanna be on their back everytime with the same leg thrown over the same shoulder.

    The "magic" can sometimes be spontaneity, location, position, etc.. little nuances that can make a big difference, not so much these magic moves.
     
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    Every woman is different, and when they talk about bf's being bad, they don't know how bad, because they don't know what good is. You even ask them what they like, and they're vague - definite indicator they're used to Johny-5-minute.

    As for variety, the younger you are, the more acrobatic you can be - once the participants get to a certain age, the less creative or gymnastic it can be (although it would be fun to try if I could find a young gymnist again) and you settle into the same old thing. I think I did more positions with my first gf than all the women I've been with since combined - an insane amount of experimentation, but probably normal for 18 year olds with time on their hands.

    One girl was crazy about the wave method (7 strokes, different depths, repeat or reverse and repeat). We discovered it on our own, and it didn't matter what position we were in, that's how she wanted it. Next girl looks at you like "WTF are you doing!?"
     
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