Just curious on the straight male perspective here. DO you guys generally see butch guys as more acceptable than the feminine ones? Have more respect for tops over bottoms? Do you feel a certain level of disdain for anything feminine (unless of course it is a woman)? I guess I'm trying to gauge my own level of misogyny. I am sexually as gay as you can get. I have never been with a woman. But I'm basically an average punk rock, video game geek, kind of guy. I work on cars, drink beer, and burn one down when I can. I'm open at work and I am one of the most well like both among the garage and the front of the house staff. However I often find myself become hostile and defensive when someone makes a crack at my "femininity." I feel like I always have to hold up this hardcore standard to "Prove" not all gay guys are drag queens. Why the hell do I get so offended? I have nothing against feminine men.Trust me I'm not all butch, I really dig techno, have 4 cats, love arts and crafts. In the past most of my friends where artists and or women so there wasn't all of the pressure of the wolf pack mentality. However now I live in the burbs now and most of my aquantices are straight males. I think some of their unfavorable attitudes are rubbing off on me. I guess I need to learn to be tough when I need to be with out the need to dishonor my soft side(or anyone else's.) Any thoughts from the alpha dudes out there?
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