Straight guys like girls with strap ons?

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I was watching Attack of the Show on G4 and during the sex advice segment, they had a guy who asked if he was gay because he would like his girlfriend to wear a strap on. And one of the hosts said "If a guy wants it up the butt, he's gay. You're gay." The other host said it was borderline.

What do you guys think?

I don't think it's necessarily gay at all. If a certain spot on your body feels good when it's stimulated, how does that define your sexual orientation if you want it touched? However, if your girlfriend is doing you in the butt and you're imagining her to be a guy, then yeah, kinda gay. But if you just like the way it feels, not gay at all.
 

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I remember seeing this and thinking how dumb the host was but, anyway it's de facto not gay to let a girl do you with a strap on. For me I like the look of cock but would not want to anal with a guy but, a girl with a strap on would be cool because the dynamic of being dominatied by a girl and it would feel good. I would say I am kind of bi so it would be intrested to hear what straight guys feel about this.
 

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I remember seeing this and thinking how dumb the host was but, anyway it's de facto not gay to let a girl do you with a strap on. For me I like the look of cock but would not want to anal with a guy but, a girl with a strap on would be cool because the dynamic of being dominatied by a girl and it would feel good. I would say I am kind of bi so it would be intrested to hear what straight guys feel about this.
I also didn't like how they jumped right to "you're gay" instead of "Could be bi"
 

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Probably because the host is a dumbass who doesn't understand much more than typical societal norms.

Personally, (and this opinion is shared by many) my opinion is that the prostate is something that can be stimulated. If you are open minded at all, it's something to try. \

It's not gay. Merely exploring your own body and learning what satisfies you.
 

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I've had my fingers, tongue, and toys in guys asses and none were gay.
My thoughts--only gay if a guy is working you out, and even then, it could be more bi or bi-curious.
 

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I would say that it is defiantly not a gay activity, a gay or bi activity is being intimate with some of the same sex, as it is a female on the driving end in my view it therefore is not gay. Too many guys are anally retentive about anal play our G spot is located in our rectum and a strapon if used right is an excellent stimulator.
 

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yeah and I feel it's irresponsible for G4 to offer a segment of "expert sex advice" and then make guys feel like there is something wrong with them for enjoying a certain part of their own body.
 

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Probably because the host is a dumbass who doesn't understand much more than typical societal norms.

Personally, (and this opinion is shared by many) my opinion is that the prostate is something that can be stimulated. If you are open minded at all, it's something to try. \

It's not gay. Merely exploring your own body and learning what satisfies you.

Yeh I do agree..plus I do not have a prostate and just by lightly finger play my little entrace it does feels amazing! I'm pretty much sure lots of people are asses sensitives.

To most regular guys , I think, the thought of a strapon may be scary..many does not even alow a little finger near by..my approach would be go slow and hide the strapon until he graduates..the virgins ( in ass or other) are like a babies, their feedings starting with milk, in between those gerber foods.. and than later: solids..lol...I think..what do I know right?

Well, myself would not enjoy any strapon on me at all..but the motive maybe I am the top or would be one in a lesbian or other situation, pretty much sure I would be the one wearing the strapons.

Anyways..will be waiting for the straight guys feedback.
 
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homosexuality has nothing to do with wether o not you like something up your ass. it has to do with sexual attraction to the same sex.

fuck people can be ignorant sometimes.

and all that said, olivia munn is hot
 

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Pegging. That's what it's called when someone, usually a female, straps on a phallus and shoves it up another persons rectum. Neither pegging or being pegged is gay nor does it follow that either person is gay. By happenstance, either or both persons (the peger or pegee) might be gay or bi or transgendered.

Pegging (sexual practice) - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Dan Savage (Savage Love) and his readers coined this term several years ago.

I'd love to plug him, but he's married and that's another story.
 

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um- gay is loving men, more than fucking men.


But its definitely bisexual...

THing is, if your girl fucks you with a rubber dick...and you get to love it ( which you will) and you end up without a girlfriend... then what you want is to be fucked in the ass...
whether the cock up your ass is rubber, or real, is really not that big a difference... and, if you are between girlfriends, or have a girlfriend who is not accommodating in this regard...
... then, if you really want it in the ass.. and the only one offering is a guy... you will try out the guy...


Not because you want the guy... but because you want the assfucking.

Are you gay?
No.

Are you being assfucked?
Yes...

At the very least it is homoerotic to take a rubber cock up the ass... and certainly homosexual to some degree...

Truth is, for men, Bisexual is the norm.
Its just that a lot of guys either don't admit to it.... or haven't discovered it, yet.
 

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um- gay is loving men, more than fucking men.


But its definitely bisexual...

THing is, if your girl fucks you with a rubber dick...and you get to love it ( which you will) and you end up without a girlfriend... then what you want is to be fucked in the ass...
whether the cock up your ass is rubber, or real, is really not that big a difference... and, if you are between girlfriends, or have a girlfriend who is not accommodating in this regard...
... then, if you really want it in the ass.. and the only one offering is a guy... you will try out the guy...


Not because you want the guy... but because you want the assfucking.

Are you gay?
No.

Are you being assfucked?
Yes...

At the very least it is homoerotic to take a rubber cock up the ass... and certainly homosexual to some degree...

Truth is, for men, Bisexual is the norm.
Its just that a lot of guys either don't admit to it.... or haven't discovered it, yet.


Dude. That has got to be one of the largest load of crap generalizations I've seen on here. Seriously. And from a usually perceptive poster.
 

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um- gay is loving men, more than fucking men. But its definitely bisexual...

THing is, if your girl fucks you with a rubber dick...and you get to love it (which you will) and you end up without a girlfriend... then what you want is to be fucked in the ass...
whether the cock up your ass is rubber, or real, is really not that big a difference...
:261: Wrong again, oh great one. :tongue:
and, if you are between girlfriends, or have a girlfriend who is not accommodating in this regard...
then, if you really want it in the ass.. and the only one offering is a guy... you will try out the guy...
No, sorry but you are totally wrong. A truly straight man who is between women and enjoys ass play is not going to just 'try a guy' cause he's there and available. He's gonna buy a dildo and use it on himself.

Not because you want the guy... but because you want the assfucking.
Are you gay?
No.
Are you being assfucked?
Yes...
At the very least it is homoerotic to take a rubber cock up the ass... and certainly homosexual to some degree...

Truth is, for men, Bisexual is the norm.
Its just that a lot of guys either don't admit to it.... or haven't discovered it, yet.
:bsflag: Just because it's your norm don't go applying it so freely to everyone else. :irked:

I love having my pussy licked, yet it has never ocurred to me to go to a lesbian bar and get a girl to do it between bf's. Your 'logic' is beyond fuzzy, it's just all fucked up. :12:
 

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um- gay is loving men, more than fucking men.


But its definitely bisexual...

THing is, if your girl fucks you with a rubber dick...and you get to love it ( which you will) and you end up without a girlfriend... then what you want is to be fucked in the ass...
whether the cock up your ass is rubber, or real, is really not that big a difference... and, if you are between girlfriends, or have a girlfriend who is not accommodating in this regard...
... then, if you really want it in the ass.. and the only one offering is a guy... you will try out the guy...


Not because you want the guy... but because you want the assfucking.

Are you gay?
No.

Are you being assfucked?
Yes...

At the very least it is homoerotic to take a rubber cock up the ass... and certainly homosexual to some degree...

Truth is, for men, Bisexual is the norm.
Its just that a lot of guys either don't admit to it.... or haven't discovered it, yet.

I disagee completely. I think if a guy is straight, he wants to have sex with women. Not men. And he may want his ass played with...by women.

I'm gay. I like guys to play with my ass. If a woman started playing with my ass I think it'd be a turn off because...well..I'm gay