Straight Guys Liking Big Cocks`

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  1. Imported

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    tracksuitboy: I have noticed throughout this board that many of you are straight and are having sexual relationships with women (either casual or with a regular partner).  However, many of the straight guys also say they enjoy seeing other guys with large cocks and in some cases enjoy jacking off with other big-dicked guys.

    Maybe it's me, but I just don't get it.

    Gay guys getting off on big dicks is understandable but straight guys?

    Would anyone care to comment?

    PS. This has been touched on in other friends (Checking Each Other Out for instance) but I thought I would start a specific thread for the subject.
     
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    mindseye: I've seen it as a twist on the phenomenon that many straight boys put posters of men on their wall -- sports heroes, rock stars, for example.

    Even if some 14-year-old kid with the Michael Jordan poster on his wall isn't attracted to Michael Jordan, there's a desire on his part to be like him, to have some of his talent and fame.

    I'd expect this is just a variation of that -- straight guys who see better-hung guys as something they want to emulate.
     
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    joe: Of course,there in lies the truth. Men are obsessedwith other guys who are hung. In the locker room, taken a leak, all jokes point to the Big schlong. It is disired by just about everyone. For those who are hung you know what iam talking about. Your dismissed!!!
     
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    Yeah, dick talk is so common among men. Albeit jokes, sex talk, or just calling people 'dicks'

    I think we are perplexed by big cocks cuz we can relate to it? so that's why it gets us excited?
     
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    Hey, I'm one of those guys who checks out other hung guys like me. I'm straight but I think a really big hard dick is sexually arousing. The guy attached to it might not be arousing, but the idea of a big dick fucking a hot pussy is definitely exciting for me. I like to do it & I like to see other guys with big dicks doing it. I don't want to have sex with the guy. I don't think it's "liking" big cocks. It's more about sexual energy or sexual wildness. Does that make sense,dude?
     
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    Ineligible: That makes a lot of sense, black10inches. I find those concepts of sexual energy and sexual wildness fit very well. Thanks!
     
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    I think the attraction among the smaller guys is being envious sometimes of the other guy's dick size, and trying to envision themselves with one.
     
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    drrionelli: All good observations. And all valid.

    Surely, we can all relate to some degree as men, to a penis. In the same way, we can all relate, when we sing in the shower, to Placido Domingo. On the court, we can, in a small way, be Kobe Bryant (preferably on the court, and not in the bedroom..or courtroom!).

    It's just simple admiration of the things that we are not or don't have. And, it's quite natural.
     
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    I have always thought it a little curious that there are so many "str8" guys on this board who seem absolutely facinated by huge cocks. Not just their own, but other guys. True, there are some guys on here who are str8 and truly come across as such, but many claim they are str8 and pratically live on this site. Guess what? In my opinion, if your chat n jack off, look at pictures, oral, compare, show off etc. You're not str8, you're Bi. Nothing wrong with that, but that's the bottom line.

    My two cents
     
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    Dickprint: the only way i can really enjoy porn, the guy has to be packing some serious meat, its nothing like watching a professional go to work with the same amount of meat or more. as a kid i would always skip over the scenes that didnt feaure a guy a big as me. now thanks to the internet & porn boom there is a specific catergory for this particular fetish
     
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    That's not very fair, though. I understand the confusion -- how could a guy self-identyf as straight, but can look at a dude, much less his dick, with admiration? -- but that's not really enough to stay questioning sexuality.

    I think any guy anywhere would prefer a larger-sized penis to the one he's currently packing, unless he's already plenty big enough and/or satisfied with his current equipment (which would include smaller guys who don't really give a damn). I think a big dick will get attention from anybody regardless of their sexuality. Granted, a through-and-through straight guy probably won't saunter up to you and say "Man, nice schlong!" but he's looking. If you ask me, it's on the same principle of a guy admiring another dude's build, talent, writing, what have you. (...though you don't really have to do anything to get the dick size you've got now.)

    On the other hand, if he's sexually intrigued by your package and emotionally longing for you in ways beyond friendship or camaraderie, okay, then he might not be straight. I don't know plenty, but I do know a few dudes that have been cool to compare size and/or jack off with a bud as long as it was under agreeable terms... and they're still straight...
     
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    I'm not spending as much time around here as I once did....no particular reason, either.

    --More than likely, time restraints more than anything else.

    When I do "check in", I'm always heartened to see newcomers to the forum with the same mutual "common-ground" concerns. Looks like most of us men think the same way many times. It's good to remind ourselves of this!

    I'm not "as fascinated with other men's equipment" so much as being fascinated with the premise that we ALL (as men) fret over whether we deem ourselves as "gay or bi" when we look at, admire, and otherwise take notice to guys who just might be hung large. (Yes, we even make note of those not so hung.)

    --IMHO, I think it's such a shame when we associate an unfounded concern over one's sexual identity to all of this. Ridiculous, really.

    Truth be known, as men, we simply can't help our fascination over penis size.

    I agree with many of the other posters here.Some men simply admire seeing big ones.And, granted, others imagine "life with a big penis" and what it must be like to live with and "put it to use"--whatever that might mean. And, yes, there are those guys who might even desire (consciously or not) to get "intimately involved" with another fella who's packing.

    --I'm not here to pass any judgments.

    I want to reiterate though, what I have contended all along here (and, I've been a part of this forum for a mightly long time!) We're men and we can't help our interest and our intrigue with our penises---our own or the next man's.

    Let's quit complicating our lives worrying about that fact and drawing wrong conclusions about ourselves (or others!) over this whole matter.

    i.e.--------It's okay to be curious. :)

    "Checking out another man" is an natural as breathing.
    As men, (I think if we're really honest here) we either do it, or we (try) to coyly conceal we do it.

    I'm nearing 50 years old so I suppose I am "fessing up" that I've always been curious by nature. ;)

    ...And, I'm learning (finally!) as I go along in life NOT to worry about it so much.

    Men: We're all "wired" the same way in many regards.

    And, you know what?

    It's okay.
     
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    Benderten,

    On the money and put very gently as always ... lpsg has been much the poorer for your absence!
     
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    [quote author=Max link=board=relationships;num=1068545111;start=0#12 date=11/15/03 at 10:42:06]

    "Benderten,

    On the money and put very gently as always ... lpsg has been much the poorer for your absence!"

    [/quote]

    My heartfelt thanks!

    I've missed being here via written responses!

    I do try to "read and catch up" whenever I can.

    We have a good thing going here in this community. We NEED to help and encourage others-- however we can.

    'Makes life easier for both men and women when we can better understand each other!

    (Particularly in these kinds of issues in life) :)
     
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    digibacker: [quote author=black10inches link=board=relationships;num=1068545111;start=0#4 date=11/11/03 at 20:42:02]I'm straight but I think a really big hard dick is sexually arousing...Does that make sense,dude?[/quote]

    Absolutely. There's so much stigmatism about being labelled "queer" that most straight guys are afraid to admit when male sexuality is arousing. It's completely normal -- SEX is what is arousing, and that involves both masculine and feminine elements.

    Bravo to black10inches for having the balls to be open about this.
     
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    pippi: Im pretty straight I guess. I have sexually kissed men and it dint give me a lot. It was fun and arousing too but didnt give me the same kick as with women.
    With cocks its totally anoter story. As many other men im very visuallly, so just seeing it is nice. If the dick is smooth and big its even better. Actually i would like to touch or even do somthing else with a beautiful penis, but what is hindering me bit is that its atachted to man.
    So my fascination lives most in mind.

    (Forgive any errors im drunken and english is not my 1st language)
     
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    tracksuitboy: [quote author=pippi link=board=relationships;num=1068545111;start=0#15 date=11/15/03 at 17:15:57]Actually i would like to touch or even do somthing else with a beautiful penis, but what is hindering me bit is that its atachted to man.
    So my fascination lives most in mind.

    (Forgive any errors im drunken and english is not my 1st language)[/quote]

    Pippi your English is fine! (I bet the majority on this board have English as their primary or only language and couldn't write "I've got a big dick" in any other language! (That includes me! "J'ai un grand zizi? ???)

    As for wanting to play around with another man's cock, all I will advise is that if the opportunity arises and the situation feels comfortable then do it.  What is the worst that could happen?  You may not like it; if so, then don't do it again.  On the other hand, it may open a whole new realm of experiences for you!

    Someone (perhaps Oscar Wilde, I'm not sure) said that it is better to regret the things you have done rather than the things you haven't.
     
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    hugeUKmeat: well said tracksuitboy!
     
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    pghcyclist:
    As with any sexual encounter: HIV, herpes, hepatitis, chlamydiae, etc... This is not to say don't do it. It is a reminder to play safe, understand the risks and take precautions.

    Scott
     
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    drrionelli: True, pghcyclist. And one can NEVER hear it enough! 8)

    And, benderten, as always, so eloquently states the facts. ;)
     
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