I'm not spending as much time around here as I once did....no particular reason, either.
--More than likely, time restraints more than anything else.
When I do "check in", I'm always heartened to see newcomers to the forum with the same mutual "common-ground" concerns. Looks like most of us men think the same way many times. It's good to remind ourselves of this!
I'm not "as fascinated with other men's equipment" so much as being fascinated with the premise that we ALL (as men) fret over whether we deem ourselves as "gay or bi" when we look at, admire, and otherwise take notice to guys who just might be hung large. (Yes, we even make note of those not so hung.)
--IMHO, I think it's such a shame when we associate an unfounded concern over one's sexual identity to all of this. Ridiculous, really.
Truth be known, as men, we simply can't help our fascination over penis size.
I agree with many of the other posters here.Some men simply admire seeing big ones.And, granted, others imagine "life with a big penis" and what it must be like to live with and "put it to use"--whatever that might mean. And, yes, there are those guys who might even desire (consciously or not) to get "intimately involved" with another fella who's packing.
--I'm not here to pass any judgments.
I want to reiterate though, what I have contended all along here (and, I've been a part of this forum for a mightly long time!) We're men and we can't help our interest and our intrigue with our penises---our own or the next man's.
Let's quit complicating our lives worrying about that fact and drawing wrong conclusions about ourselves (or others!) over this whole matter.
i.e.--------It's okay to be curious.
"Checking out another man" is an natural as breathing.
As men, (I think if we're really honest here) we either do it, or we (try) to coyly conceal we do it.
I'm nearing 50 years old so I suppose I am "fessing up" that I've always been curious by nature.
...And, I'm learning (finally!) as I go along in life NOT to worry about it so much.
Men: We're all "wired" the same way in many regards.
And, you know what?
It's okay.